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Just for the record here are a few things that women find attractive: You having a girlfriend. You having a ring on your hand. You walking around with a cute little toddler. Do you see a pattern here?

What is a Saturn return? Any experiences?

The Formula 1 Champion of last year Nico Rosberg picked up meditation under the guidance of some Japanese master I believe. It helped him become World Champion. After that season he quit F1. I suspect his new look on life had something to do with that.

I was thinking, sometimes they observe these stars and things far far away, and then what they see in real time actually happened a long time ago. And that is apparently because they are observing something very far away. So I was thinking what if they launch a telescope far enough away and then let it look at the earth from a distance. Is it possible to watch the dinosaurs roam the planet then, or watch some Medieval battle or something? If we could record that, and develop virtual reality videogames a little further, then we can record Historic events from the telescope, project them in virualreality reality, and then partake in them by entering that virtual reality world. It would not be true time travel, but it would appear real.

@Sevi interesting. I looked up this: https://theastrocodex.com/natal-sun-in-pisces/ Supposedly Neptune and Jupiter are planets that have great influence on me.

If it is 29.5 years +and- 6 months, how are ages 21 and 36 related?

It depends on the human yes. But when you are talking about "humanity" then you are talking about the majority of the people. Like 99%. Now tell me what do these 99% of all people collectively being called humanity do on this planet? Much good or much bad? I would say more bad then good collectively in the greater scheme of things. Then how can you take what humanity considers 'good' too serious?

Nobody tries to be good. Not even an Ape does try to be good. Only humans try. But you can't claim we are morally superior to an Ape. I didn't understand the first part. If you reword it I will answer it.

Even if you go all out trying to be 'good' by not eating meat, having solar panels on your roof, and drinking purified rain water, the 'footprint' that you leave on this earth, the amount of damage you do to it, is still many many times greater then what a Chimp, or an Earthworm, or Sparrow or whatever does to it. A human ego can rationalize a lot of things but by being part of this human plaque you are always going to be more 'evil' then any other creature. If you want to consider what humanity considers 'good' you may just as well listen to the devil himself when he says something is 'good'.

But the way 99% of the people are living their life, being human means per default that you are more 'evil' then any other creatures on this earth ?

It was similar for me. It started when I was 27. Peaked when I was 30. And I feel like it is about done now I am 33. Ended a long term relationship. Chased a lot of girls. Moved around a lot. It was a pretty wild ride. I feel like am coming full circle now. Not sure if it was a Saturn return or a some sort of a quarter-miler/mid-life crisis. But it sounds plausible since people seem to be effected by the moon as well, and weather phenomena like thunderstorms and air pressure changes.

@MM1988Have you tried online dating? It works great when you are an introverted guy. And everyone is looking to date or get laid on there so there is less confusion about the intend when you start talking to those women. So it's less likely you will get friend-zoned. Also it is like a big catalog of women on there, and you can basically shop around for the type you like/and will respond to you. And the byproduct of online dating is that you will get better with women in all settings because you get more used to them. You meet those women online, but you go on actual dates with them in a setting of your choosing. Like the movies, or the restaurant, places where you can shine versus crowded places like a bar or a club. And you will see once you have been meeting up with women that you met online, it sticks to you, you become better at chatting up random women everywhere because you are used to being around women now. Really give it a try. And ask for some help setting up your online profile and some opening messages. We can help you with that.

@MM1988 so did you get any limited forms of success? Like a phone number, a kiss, holding hands, a first date etc? If you could do it once you can do it again.

@MM1988 what kind of girls have you been approaching? Any cute little nerd girls?

Right I am asking you.

When I was a kid I didn't have to work for money either, or worry about a roof over my head. When you get older you need to take care of your basic needs yourself. You can't sit on your mom's lap listening to her reading you the Red Riding Hood to feel loved either. You got to do that another way.

COFFEE. Lol

I don't the best way to figure out what stage you are is when the shit hits the fan. Like when your city goes without electricity and and water for a couple of days. I have seen it happen in a city where I lived, there wasnt any streaming water for the better part of a day. Things get primitive real fast when stuff like that happens.

@BobbyLowell no matter what you do, you will always be the real you.

You shouldn't take that too literal.

Narcissism, Machiavellianism, and Psychopathy. Those three are the three Dark Triad Personality traits. Basically those three personality traits make people more self-absorbed, manipulative, and lacking remorse. It is said that criminals often have a high level of Dark Triad personality traits. On the flip side this also is believed to be true for people successful in business and career. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dark_triad I found this Dark Triad personality test: http://www.celebritytypes.com/dark-triad/test.php If anyone has a better more valid test I would be interested to take it.

I got 23.8 % darker then average ?

@Hardkill I am asking because a lot of times the guys that say they really struggle are simply trying to get girls way out of their league. That's no revelation, everybody knows what, but it's simply true.

@Annie I don't I am innocent ?

@Hardkill so what were the girls like that you had success with? Let's focus on your successes for a moment and not your failures. I am interested to know how that went down.