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You shouldn't talk about heavy topics like kids and abortion when just meeting a girl/on the first date. You have to keep it light and fun. (Funny like cocky funny).

The man provides direction, the woman provides stability.

Stop drinking coffee. After the withdrawal stage you will be able to get out of bed much easier in the morning.

Hehehe.....you should name your belt "Michael" and play the Michael Jackson song "Beat It" when you spank them.

Yoga pants never hurt nobody.

It goes two ways. If you shouldn't be their psychologist then they shouldn't be your psychologist either. You shouldn't tell your whole life story right away, they can find that out over time. You main strive in the beginning should be to be the fun guy. It's also good to corrupt her soul by having her do sexual things she has never done before ? those memories will stay with her forever ?

Look into cocky comedy/cocky funny. The girls probably liked you when you were younger because you were pulling their hair on the playground. Cocky funny is basically the same thing.

No you should keep going with the hugs. It may not even be a test she really thought out. It's just something women/people do. She is rattling your cage to see how you react. Not being reactive or reacting with humor is always good. I just would not go sit down with a cup of tea and have a 'therapy session' talking about feelings. That's probably not how it was but that is the picture that comes up in my head when I hear talking about feelings.

@Marinus you should throw some humor in there that always helps. I think you might get some down the line. But don't sleep on the ground anymore. She puts up her boundaries cool, but then you should be allowed to have yours as well. You should either sleep in her bed or you should sleep in your own bed. Otherwise it communicates the wrong message.

It's fine dude. If you like to cuddle then you cuddle. You don't need to do everything because she likes it, you can just do it because you like it. That one girl saying it's weird, that's a shit-test. I wouldn't go out of my way to talk about feelings though. The thing is women like it to talk about feelings with you, and cuddle, and you being nice to them, as long as they know that when they step out of line you will spank them and give them the Dick Of Justice.

@Marinus you should offer her to get to a compromise and have sex on the floor.

Am I going to get punished now? ? @blazed Nudes!!! You have no boundaries!!! You pervert!!! Shame on you!!! ?

On a sidenote: I was part of a forum once where if a member wanted dating advice about a particular girl, then he had to post a picture of the girl along with the question, preferably a sexy picture ? I believe we should let @Marinus slide this time, BUT...... I think it's a good idea going forward for this forum ? I can give much better advice when I can picture the girl ?

@Marinus you have to figure out which one of those 3 @blazed pointed out it is. Because it greatly depends on which course of action you need/want to follow.

'The rules' are different when you are a virgin. You should take this one slow. You don't need to sleep on the floor or whatever though. You can just sleep at your own place. Don't even get angry about it or anything. Just sleep at your place and meet her the next day again, or later. She has to give it up sometime though. If she still holds out after a couple of months then it becomes really problematic.

@LaucherJunge we will see how this works out for you then I guess.

You are not getting it. You gaining experience doesn't mean manipulating and using tricks. It means gaining experience. There is nothing authentic about being inexperienced with girls. Because deep down you want to have a girl. Self-love has nothing to do with abundance on this virgin level. What you need is several girls to talk to, and peak the interest of several girls. At your school/college are there a few girls who seem even slightly interested in you? Regardless if you think they are your 'perfect dream girl'. That is a good start.

Agreed. Not going on the forum and/or watching any YouTube channels for 6 days a week and focusing on execution helps. And then there is one day for theory. My thing at this point is, after watching videos for like 18 months. I have taken in more theory then I can practically digest. Laying off the theory for a while and focusing on execution is better now. Letting the theory marinate a bit.

There are two problems with your reasoning. 1. If you hold out now and gain no experience, by the time that perfect girl comes along you won't be able attract her and/or keep her. 2. You shouldn't be 1 of the 100 guys she picks from. She should be 1 of the 100 girls you pick from. You need to have an abundance mindset. Which you can only get by creating abundance. So how are you going to create abundance?

Should we clone back extinct animals? With today's cloning techniques we might be able to bring back the recently extinct species. Furthermore, with the environment already so screwed up and getting worse, should we aim to set up a new Ecosystem and bring back pre-historic animals?

Yes, right next to me.

Reminds me of this video.

I think you are 99.9% accurate in your analyses.