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It's also like Leo said in his video What do women want: "She wants everything. Who would say no to everything. The question is what can she get. And what can you get as a guy". It is about Sexual Market Value. This link is good food for Sexual Market Value. https://revolutionarylifestyledesign.com/calculate-maximize-sexual-market-value/

@BobbyLowell sounds like you are too much inside the house and inside your head? Do you do Yoga or Martial Arts? Those are more a do-er then a thinker approch to self-devopment. Also 'being-yourself' sounds great but self-improvement always requires change. Maybe you don't like yourself, on one hand you shouldn't hate yourself, but on the other hand that should be motivation to change (improve).

Since you are a girl you should play the "I am the innocent, and shy, and cute, please someone come safe me , card". Big strong guys often like their girls like that.

He is right about the political correctness part, and the pro-oldschool approch. Bottom line is you got to do what works you. Meaning getting results aka getting laid aka getting laid and maybe making your girlfriend if she sticks.

Mindfull sex is when you remember to pull out before you bust.

Soon? I got a 3 date rule. If it doesn't happen by the 3rd date I move on. Preferably 1st date. Second date is pushing it.

I am saying you should not only go for society's standard of hot girls.

Well sorry to hear that. But I am thinking you are overtrying this Alpha Masculine thing a little too hard. You are taking it too serious. In your particular case you may be better off taking a slower approch. Be like really nice and sweet to the girl. Get to know her and stuff. You might want to go for a very sweet girl, a little shy, and nerdy. Those girls you can be a man around. Also maybe try to find some meetup groups for people with Asperger Syndrome. Within a group like that that they might be able to help you. And maybe you will find a girl with Asperger Syndrome to hit it off with.

Because they don't get that from too many guys. Guys like their dick sucked right? I mean if she is the kind that can suck a bowling ball trough a straw. Girls like their pussy licked it's no difference. But see man, this is why you don't have it working out with girls. Because you don't have a feel for what you can't say and/or ask. You need to start working with a therapist that specializes in what you got going on. That is where you will make your biggest gains.

@Hardkill also licking the pussy goes a long way. Dropping a hint that that's what you are going to do to her increases your odds significantly. BUT you still should get professional help from a therapist.

@Hardkill Let me ask you this: Have you ever sought professional help do deal with Asperger Syndrome? You have to get better at social interactions with people. IN GENERAL and in dating.

Sorry man I forgot all you do is approach, I was actually thinking about sleeping with them.

The last thing a girl should do is play the numbers game. Bad bad bad long term strategy.

I think it works like this: A 8 gets like twice as much attention from guys as a 7 does. A 9 does gets twice as much attention as a 8 does. A 10 gets twice as much attention as a 9 does. So the better looking a woman the attention she receives increases exponentially. What that means for the guy is that he will have to deal with extreme amount of competition for 1. Getting the girl 2. Keeping the girl. Basically a guy dating a very pretty woman always has to deal with someone trying to steal his girl. Not only will there be more guys trying to steal his girl, but those guys will also be more dedicated to doing so, and the quality of the guys trying to steal his girl will increase as well. So in short he will have to deal with much more and tougher competition. As a guy you are just going to ask yourself; "Is all this bullshit worth it?". With let's say a 8 (a pretty girl) you will have to deal with some competition, it's part of dating a pretty girl. That's ok. But if you want to date a prettier girl (9/10) you need to deal with much more competition for a girl who is a little bit better looking, but the thing is the 8 was pretty already as well (good enough). Now if you start factoring in other things like personality, humor, sex skills, chemistry, intelligence etc. Dating that 9 or 10 simply for her looks just isn't worth the investment/headfuck. Of course this point I made can be easily countered by the argument that in that case one has insecurity issues but honestly I think that is pretty much how it works. Also when you do date a very pretty girl (9/10) this funny thing I have noticed happens. Your surroundings when you are out in public, like in a restaurant or mall, automatically assume that you must have the personality of a dickhead. Because most guys dating very pretty women are A-type personalies. On the contrary when you are out in public with a so so looking girl everyone asumes you are a nice guy.

@Deutsche22 from my experience people are generally pretty open to Spiral Dynamics and Maslows hiearchy of needs. I have discussed this with family and friends. Or stuff like "How society fucks you in the ass" or "How to be a strategic morherfucker". The other stuff maybe not so much. But then again why do you have this need for them to know? If you keep giving them unsolicited advice you are not much different from a Jehovah wittness going door to door. To show them "look how smart I am, and what I know that you don't". Mostly visiting Actualized.org is between me and me.

Great video. There still is way too much discrimination towards other religions and cultures, and other races. Even on the Actualized.org forum. Which looks kind of crazy too me. This supposedly being the Sage Academy etc. The ignorance doesn't line up with my idea of higher consiousness etc. Also I just love History and sociological constructions. That's very interesting to me. I understand that to some people this video might not be perfectly describing Islam. But where else do you find a video that tries to make some nuanced points about Islam, weighing different things against each other, and generally gives off a positive vibe?

If you want to learn about History to understand the context of the world you are living in: Rome The Tudors Those are TV series that are fairly Historical accurate.

Yet by far most breakups and divorces are initiated by women though. The whole heavyset thing, that is a very white western upper middle class suburban thinking. Certain men and in certain cultures are attracted to big asses. Me personally I don't like "fat" women. But I do like a big ass. It's not that simple to say this is what looks good, and that doesn't look good. Tastes differ. And then there is chemistry. The girl you can have the most chemistry is not necesairly always the prettiest girl. What seems to me a lot of guys who have a hard time attracting women have in common is that they try to get girls that are out of their league. And then they get all pissed they can't get the girls they feel entitled to, but what they feel entitled to is completely delusional. Because they are just never ever going to get that. Definitely not at the point where they are at in life.

So ugly women don't have sex/and or relationships?

Ok man, now walk it like you talk it.

Happy Easter!

@Hardkill you need to have your Asper syndrome addressed by someone in real life who can help you. Because you just don't get it. I can tell you have a problem with relating to people, and interacting with people in general. If you approve that, it will improve all aspects of your life. Even your success with women. Because believe it or not, but in the end a girl is just another person. Fundamentally we are all people. She belongs to the same species as you do. So you have much more in common with even the hottest girl then you have with let's say a plant, or a bread basket. You have to improve your human to human interaction. I know I sound like a dick to you, but I am really not trying to be a dick, it the best advice I can give you. Start working with a lifecoach or therapist and learn better social skills with people in general.

That works two ways. Not all girls are able to seduce hot/high quality guys. Also what may be a 5 to one person may be a 8 to another and vice versa. What's/who is right for you might not be right for me, and for the next guy it might be totally different again.

RSD Tyler talks about upward spiral vs downward spiral, selfdevelopment, meditation, consiousness, paradigms, and more. Not so much about girls but more about success in life in general. Older video but I hadn't seen it yet so I thought I would share.