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Good post

Its my impression that it's Orange that looks for pleasure. Green is more about making sacrifices for the greater good. Stage Yellow is about combining the ambition and efficiency of Orange with the sustantainability and authenticity of Green. Atleast that's my concept of things.

@kingroboto a lot has to do with how serious you take yourself. A lot of people they get all hung up on what they say, and then not later contradict themselfs. And it just makes everything very rigid. Pretty much everything is multi-faceted and not black and white anyways. The ability to laugh at yourself is very important. People will find you more sympathetic.

I am all over the place I don't know anymore. I like White women, Black women, Asian women, Latina's, big boobs, just niples, dang...fake boobs..., Big booty, skinny booty, older then me, younger then me.... It's my cross to bear ?

The most straight shot answer is get involved in Pick-up and or online dating. The flip side on that that is that it can easily set you up for a streak of dysfunctional serial monogamous relationships. Not that there is necesairly anything wrong with that, but nothing can distract you from your purpose and excellence more then women. Recently I have bought into a new mindset: Pursue excellence not women. When you get really good at what you do you will see the effects in your life. You will have a great passionate life that draws in women. The only drawback is that to get to that level of excellence it takes years to get there. But ideally you find a girl just being out and about doing your thing and she is insanely attracted to you and you both have a great chemistry and understanding of each other. But that is very rare. But more likely when you are excellent at what you do. Things are not completely black and white though. Having experience dating several women until then can build you up to that moment. So short-term strategy would be go do pick-up and online dating. I guess it should be called a tactic then. For now. Long term strategy is to pursue excellence not women.

@B_Naz maybe you have grown to a certain level where you feel like it would be nice to share with another person? It is normal for people once they reach a certain point in there life where things are going well they want to share it with someone else. How is your life going generally, pretty good? Your ex ain't coming back though. And honestly was she really that great 100% of the time? There might be a better girl out there for you. I am pretty sure there is.

@B_Naz have you had a girlfriend before?

@B_Naz if that was a multiple choice I would definitely have gone with: Because when I go outside I look at asses.

Does anyone else here identify as a High Sensitive Person? What are your good and bad experiences with it? I guess it is not always bad but it can get very tiring and a little too sobering at times. Like the ability to see trough all the little lies and half-truths of people all the time. Not like a High Sensitive Person really has a choice in that matter. Today I noticed that my two year old daughter probably is a High Sensitive Person as well. It made me feel proud of her in a sense, but also I feel like it is not a good thing because she will have to pick up on cues that will make her life more difficult then if she would just be oblivious to them.

@thehero What's going on is that you was testing you a.k.a shit-testing you. Those tests are meant for her to figure out if you are a good enough guy to fuck/date/marry. Testing is actually a way of flirting and it shows that she is attracted to you. They actually want you to pass those tests that they give you although they can be uncomfortable. It's the same as your highschool teacher. He/she is probably a good nice supportive person who really wants you to get a good grade on the written test they give you. But if you give the wrong answer they are still going to fail you. It's the same with shit-tests women give men. They want you to pass, and they will be happy and impressed if you show the right behavior. But if you show the wrong behaviour they are going to fail you. Look up these key words on Google and YouTube there are plenty of articles and videos to learn from. "Women testing men" "Shit-tests" "How to pass her tests" "Why women test men" "Frame control dating" I added frame control because it ties into the behaviour you need to show to pass her tests. You also need to keep going out with girls on dates to get lots of experience and exposure. The article below explains a lot about Shit-tests: https://www.girlschase.com/comment/9631

I look at it this way: Ever heard of the 80/20 rule? In business sales it means that 20% of the the sales team will be responsible for making 80% of the sales. In pick-up it's truth as well. 20% of the techniques out there will give you 80% of your results. So if you got those basic techniques down you have unlocked the game on a 8/10 level already. Those techniques as far as I am concerned are: Cocky-comedy Frame control Abundance mindset/willingness to walk away Logistics You got those handled you should be pretty much set. That's broadly the skillset you need to focus on starting out.

Elon Musk and Tesla are simply at the right place at the right time as far as I am concerned. Elon Musk with Tesla is as much a product of his era and environment as Hitler and WW II was. Not just those one unique individuals. (Yeah that's a bit of a far shot). There is a good part of the American population that is Stage Orange-Green these days. Especially in Silicon-Valley. For those people a Tesla car is the perfect gadget. On one hand it speaks to their Orange part. The need to have the newest best and greatest, a fast shiny sports car. So you can outcompete the next guy. On the Other hand it speaks to their Stage Green side because they can have an electric car and celebrate the be good feel good effects on the environment. Neither for a pure Stage Orange or a pure Stage Green person a Tesla car would be a perfect solution. It's a real Orange-Green product. Also it's a new product produced again. There are plenty good second hand cars out there. But let's build another factory and produce more stuff to throw away again. On one hand the Tesla is a cool product and I can see the excitement in moving the technology forward, on the other hand the product is full of shit.

European countries in general are more Green. Everytime I am in Europe I have the sense that the average happiness level is a good amount higher then in the US. As a whole the population seems less stressed, more content, and less materialistic then in the US. I was just walking trough LA and I had this thought that for the US to become more Green it will really have to change it's actual infrastructure. In the US too much space is taken up by roads and cars, and it creates too much noise an polution. Also it leads to consumerism everyone wanting to have the bigger better car. In Europe this is way less. And people can walk everywhere. It just leads to a more natural relaxed environment. It will take the US some good time to change this I think. Maybe when we get self driving pods then the Infrastructure in the US can get Mich simpler and take up less space.

Yes it's an off the cuff remark. Instead of saying the Top 20% women go for the Top 20% men I could have said the most desirable women go for the most desirable men. It boils down to the same. The thing with Red Pill, MGTOW, Incel and everything that lurks in that corner of the internet is that they want to grasp everything in graphs, tables, numbers. But those are really just the statistics backing up the text book theory. And then drone it up in a nasal flat tone voice in a video. If they take the same aprroach to seducing women it's no wonder they dry up the pussy. About the only guy with some charisma is Richard Cooper. The guy in that video I showed. The statistics are interesting, the Red Pill theory got a lot of solid points, but what is an art they try to make an exact science. The whole beauty of being a man is that you can put in the work and create a total package that is attractive to women, much more then women can do that.

Another sidenote on Hypergamy. It is not that simple as women go for guys that are better then them. Actually when a guy is obviously higher value then the girl something called "Auto-rejection" can happen. I have experienced it myself. Let's say you as a guy are a 8/10. And she is a 6/10. And you are objectively speaking better looking then she is. Also you are a bit more intelligent, more witty, you make more money then her... Overall both of you know you as the guy are more higher value then her. She is not necesairly going to be happy with that situation. Even if you bang her things can get a little weird. Because she knows you can do better. She knows that "this guy is a bit of a player" and he is probably not going to stick around. That's not good for her because it's setting her up for heartbreak. So she will reject you because she thinks you are too good for her. That's called "Auto-rejection". In the end both parties are most happy if they are about on equal footing. Their value is about the same. The guys value maybe slightly higher then the girls value. Also just because the girl is Hypergamous it doesn't mean she is going to act on it all the time. They are not just programmed robots. They are aware of their Hypergamous nature and can control it. Ofcourse some have higher awareness then others. It's the same with guys. Just because guys are horny dogs who want to fuck doesn't mean we act on it all the time. But then again it depends from guy to guy. Some will some don't.

King Henry the VIII. He was the King of England in Renaissance times. He split off the Catholic Church and started his own Church and made himself head of the Church of England. He was a very ambitious ruler and had many wives. He also was very competitive. He put his own personal interests often before of what was commonly expected of him. Rebelling against the Medieval Stage Blue believes system. I don't think Henry VIII was a trough and trough Orange ruler. His reign has many Stage Red and Stage Blue elements in it. But within the times he lived he also portrait a high degree of Stage Orange thinking an acted on it. For the times he lived in he was an early example of a Stage Orange ruler. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Henry_VIII_of_England

Women don't go only for the top 20% good looking guys. The top 20% hot women go for the top 20%, good looking guys. That's what those Incel guys don't get. They feel entitled to women that are way out of their league. The absolute 9s and 10s. But then they don't want to go for some cute looking girl. It's completely delusional.

That's just how it is. When you are new at a job it's kind of like that first year in Highschool. You will be the Fucking New Guy. Over time you will get better.

@blacksapp yeah dude you don't want to do that.

No, as in you got your work cut out for you. There are many ways in which you can trigger her hypergamous nature to make it work in your advantage. One thing I have realized a long time ago about women, and recently got to reapriciate again is this: "Women judge their success in life by how jealous her friends are of her" Most people live within a social circle and what happens inside that social circle in the end is most important, more important then what happens outside of it. Within a social environment people have a status. For women it's the same, they have a social circle, no matter how big it is, it is still limited to a certain size. Now if within her social circle she is the one who has the best guy then her friends will be jelous of her. And she thrives off that. So you are the best looking husband/boyfriend within her social circle her friends will be jelous. You make the most money; friends jelous. You fuck her the best; friends jealous. You got the biggest muscles; friends jealous. You are the tallest; friends jealous. You provide her with the cutest kids; friends jeslous. You provide her with the biggest house/most expensive car; friends jealous. You take her on the coolest vacations; friends jealous. You are the funniest at the party; friends jealous. You BBQ the best; friends jealous. You give her the biggest wedding; friends jealous. You etc. friends jealous. Some things you can't help you are limited by the way you are born. But there is a lot you can improve and it's just a matter of putting in the work. For women it's not the same. I don't give a fuck if she is an entrepreneur or she is a cashier. If the cashier is one point hotter and she sucks me dry and the entrepreneur does not, then I go with the cashier.