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Well I think it's misguided when the only sex a person ever had was by paying for it, but then start lecturing that you shouldn't attract women with money.

What else?

Dude the only reason you got laid is because you paid money! ? Get real

She looks really cute. I still won't get married though. Too much risk in this day and age.

Ok man, I am going off to enjoy my money now.

@8Ball Watch this episode from The Red Man Group. It addresses a lot of the points in your post. Also read Rollo Tomassi's book: The Rational Male. You can listen to it on Audible.

So you catched a unicorn? Can I see it?

Don't overanalyze things. There are 3 things that make you more attractive to women: Game, looks, and money. Improve at any or all of those and you become more attractive to women. You have known this since Middle School.

We can't talk when you start adding new sentences to old posts to reframe the conversation. You know what that is? A fake person. @now is forever

I thought this was a really high quality French movie. In Holland we watch anything from another language with Dutch subtitles. Unlike you Germans who do the lame German voice overs. I guess that's why Dutch people's English is 'so mutch' better, then German people's English.

I can come up with two European movies I liked off the top of my head. I can come up with a lot more American movies I like. The same goes for music. I did go to The Scorpions concert the other day though. That was cool. What's your favourite European movie?

I would show you but they usually say no when I want to record it. That's is still an achievement I need to unlock. How many good European movies are there anyways? Actually I am dual citizen. I grew up in Holland, I live in the USA. I think of myself more as a world citizen ?

Oh she is feeling emotion all right when she is fucking the Alpha in the backseat of his car with the music blasting. Plenty of laughing as well afterwards when they share a cigarette joking about her beta orbitters.

Women want the fun Alpha guy and they want a provider. Alpha being the hot fun guy. Provider being the good dependable father to their children, who makes enough money for himself, her, and her children. Preferably women want an Alpha Provider. A guy who is both Alpha and a Provider. But to get an Alpha Provider her own SMV (Sexual Market Value) needs to be high enough to lock a guy like that down. Think of the dating scene as a Sexual market place. And at that Sexual Market Place people are shopping around for the best traits for the survival of their offspring. Both men and women have a Sexual Market Value. And they are only going to get a mate that is as valuable as they can negotiate with their own Sexual Market Value. Women though, are hypergamous by nature. They only want to date accross and up. A guy at their own level, or better. If she can't lock down an Alpha Provider, a lot of women will fuck the Alpha (Fun and hot) guys in her party years. And when she gets older around 30 she will settle down with a guy who is not as hot and fun but a good Provider(good daddy, stable, makes good money). This concept is called Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks. Meaning fuck Alphas early in life for the great sex, settle down with a Beta later in life for his money. I can tell you women are not looking for a guy trying to get her endearment by being soft, emotional, and supplicating to her. They want a strong capable man.

I would beg to differ with the spiritual community. It seems to me much more that men are the romantics and women the pragmatists when it comes to love between the sexes.

@Good-boy dont make women your point of reference. Where can you find girl X? How about they come find you? Be the price.

Screen them upfront. + sexual escalation. + Move faster with women.

I putting together a list of words and phrases that one can put into Google search engine to find information on love/pick up/dating and anything that relates to that. I will also try to post links to useful videos and articles that I have found over the years. Delve into different sources and do your research.

Outdoor sports. Hiking, camping, rafting, etc.

A great way for a successful Stage Orange person to adopt a more Green lifestyle is the Outdoor sports scene. Hiking, camping, rafting etc.

I think Maslows hiearchy of needs is very accurate. It's actually more practical then Spiral Dynamics I think. Spiral Dynamics has a lot of traps. Not the least it opens a door to moralizing. Maslows hiearchy looks simple at the surface but it goes really deep. I have had experience with pretty much all the stages up to and including self-actualization and from my experience it's a very natural model. Not just a theoretical thought experiment. Maybe it doesn't really fit Spiral Dynamics perfect but in the end those are all models, they are all limited to a degree. Also Spiral Dynamics is very big picture. Maslows hiearchy is also big picture but a little more zoomed in to day to day life. Big picture but not huge picture like Spiral Dynamics. People like to say big picture thinking is better but you need thinking on all levels. Very small to huge and everything in between. Like shifting gears in a manual transmission.