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My 4 year old daughter and me were scrolling on my phone, when Jason Statham's picture came by and she said "That's you!". ? - This is a high quality post.

https://www.girlschase.com/content/sad-tale-shopping-guy

You deal with their unconsciousness by raising your own conscious.

Are those really things happening to you? Or are you just imagining that it could happen? I don't know which skills of his you are talking about. His entertainment skills? I think they are lacking. You say he got credibility. But that's credibility you put on him. Because he operates in the same territory as you guys. Too me, he doesn't have that much credibility. He is a professor and he got a YouTube channel. But there are many professors in this world and many people with a YouTube channel, or an Instagram account for that matter.

@Serotoninluv I think there is a bit of a blind spot. I think there is a lot of that. I don't care if people identify as Red, Blue, Orange, Green, or Yellow. It doesn't matter. Boring is boring. JP is boring to me. It's not like he is the only YouTuber who holds similar believes to his. Yet the JP chronicles...the JP wars...keep going on. It's funny to look at it from the sideline. By all means tear JP down, I am not a fan. But that's just me. Maybe to some people he's very intriguing.

Don't you think that some of you guys are so triggered by JP because he is too much like you guys? He is like all intelligent, and intellectual, and academic, and detail oriented. And he likes to make long videos in which he acts like he got it all figured out. He is a lot like you guys. He just got some different ideas. I can't get triggered by him, because I find him not that interesting.

WHATS THE BIG DEAL WITH JP? I have watched 2 or 3 videos of his that were interesting. And the rest of his videos....SO FUCKING BORING. I can't watch them. How can you guys even listen to all his stuff. Including you guys who are anti JP but apparently know exactly what he is saying. Really....SO FUCKING BORING....please....

That is a really good video. I like the blog post videos generally a lot more then 'the weekly' official Actualized.org videos. I get a lot more out of it. I guess I find them to be more contemplative and open ended if that makes sense. One thing that came to my mind though was the "only 3 generations alive at one time" comment. I don't even think that used to be the case a long long time ago. Maybe like the past 200 years yes. But in ancient times and medieval times a lot of people generally didn't live past like 40 years old. It's a theory actually that those times were so violent because the population was on average a lot younger. Also because people didn't get that old not a whole lot of knowledge was passed on. And probably a lot of kids fantasy at work. I think that's also where the idea of the old wizard with the long beard came from. Like the Merlin and Gandalf kind of characters. There always were some people who would survive trough everything. So occasionally there would be that would person who lived until like 90 years old. That person would have seen things over and over again that most people hadn't seen. So that person would be able to tell from experience what would work and not work in a certain situation. Also if that person happened to be intelligent then he/she would have a lot of time to acquire a lot of knowledge. To a level that was unusual at those times. But yeah definitly great video.

Good to know. Since my..ahem..at least 5 cups a day ultra strong coffee adiction is not so subtle...

From those two answers it's pretty clear that it's time for you to move on to bigger better things. If that involves women or not doesn't even matter. You should not be attracting women with money. Primarily that is. But it will make dating a little easier. It does make relationships a little easier. Basically everything goes a little easier with a bit more money. That doesn't even have to include women. You just do it for you. Indirectly you will be more chilled out and that attracts more women. In your opening post you mentioned your busy schedule. So you are busy + underpaid. Which is not a good thing. A job can reward you in two ways. More money, or more time off. As it is you don't get any so you should make that next step. When you get further in your career you will see you will typically get more money and/or free time. It's basic self-development. It just makes you a better version of you. Which makes you more attractive. If that's what you want to do maybe that's what you should do for a while. I don't think that jobs on the entry level will be making a lot of money either though. If I were you I would just start sending out resumes to higher tier jobs into or related to your current work field. Something that pays more and/or gives you more free time. The problem shouldn't really be your work environment. To me the first thing a job should provide is money. I am not going to work to find women. A job should be fun too but you can have fun outside of work too. If you got the free time that is. I think there are two things that you should do: 1. Learn game. 2. Be more around women outside work. If will just give you an example. They got these cardio kick-boxing classes. The ones I go to the ratio is like 25% male 75% female. You do that you are having fun, you work-out, and you will be around a lot of women. There are other examples as well like @Yog said to take your laptop to the coffeeshop or the bookstore or cafe or something. Just be around more women. And learn a little bit if game. Then work on your money besides that, something should work out sooner or later.

"Easy reading is damn hard writing" - Nathaniel Hawthorne

I would definitely sound like that ?

There are a few obvious things to consider: 1A: Do you like the actual work you are doing at your current job. 1B: Do you make good money at your current job/would you take a pay cut changing careers? 2: Consider what would be the negatives if you mix work with your dating life.

No, I am going to reincarnate as a cat. I will be peeking under skirts and headbutting boobs and my owner and her hot girlfriend's will be saying...."awwww he is so cuuute"....while I trample up and down, clawing my nails in their juicy thighs.

Orange giving an accurate reflection on Orange.

First you didn't get laid/didn't get romantic relationships, now you do. Now you got that handled. Good job. Now you can focus on mastering something else.

Green Cult members putting beavers in a blender is as psychopathic as it gets.

From what I have read Psychopaths are born that way and can not change. Sociopaths are developed that way and show the same behaviours as Psychopaths. But it is life experiences that makes them act that way. It's learned behaviour. And can be unlearned. I think some degree Psychopathy and Sociopathy is beneficial for reaching great success in society. But eventually at some stage of personal development it will need to be dropped to develop any further. (Very high levels of development). Basically I think it has been evolutionary beneficial to be emotionally detached to some degree. Like when you had to kill your opponent who tries to steal your stuff.

@Synchronicity @Serotoninluv I believe Ken Wilber said something along the lines that Democrats/Liberals attract the very best (most successful/developed) and the worst of what society got to offer. Republicans/Conservatives as a group tend to be in the middle. Well functioning but not very exceptional.

Well donkey rhymes with monkey. Once upon a time long long ago we were all little monkeys on this forum. This has been done away with and has been widely forgotten. But I found it to be very truth.