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SFRL replied to Ryan_047's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
I had this last night. I was meditating laying on my back on the bed. Eyes closed. Hand folded on my chest. It was a good long session. After a while my upper right arm started twitching. It just would not stop. It went on for a while I touched my upper and it was quite violent. Like a nerve, or muscle, or vein went crazy. Eventually I stopped meditating and went to sleep. -
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I have seen relationships like that which seem to work. I would say most of my aunt's at my father's side of the family wear the pants in the relationship. But the people from that side of the family pretty much all got dominant personality types. I think a lot of it depends on the guy though. Some guys don't seem to mind. For me personal it would never work though. I don't mind being her equal at times. But never ever below her.
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I am INFP myself. I am not sure if there really is such a thing as INFP game. But who knows I might be wrong. But I can give you a break down of what I do. First thing about INFP is that you are introverted. Me myself I am extremely introverted. Usually I prefer to be alone. But then again I am not shy. And I am a masculine guy. This whole idea that all introverts are 'Nice Guys' or the nerdy academic type is not truth. There are a lot of macho masculine introverts. As an introvert you will probably not be at your best in social gatherings. I hate it when people intrude my space while I am performing my dark magic on the girl. Introverts pick up on a lot of impulses that are going on around them. So in a busy environment they easily pick up an overload of information. Which gets confusing and tiring, and annoying. But Introverts are good at building deep personal connections. So it will be easy for you to have a deeper more meaningful conversation with her then she is used to. Making you interesting. For me isolation game works the best. If I am 1 on 1 with the girl I am very effective. I am very good at picking up on micro-expressions. Little movements in her face, changes in vocal tonality, dilating of the pupils, body language, etc. I think it is an ability I am born with. Probably tied to extreme introversion. It puts me in what I call "Predator mode". None of that introvert nice guy bullshit. I pick up on her weaknesses and I move in like a rattlesnake. Another big thing about being INFP is that we see pretty much everything as a grey area. Instead of black and white. We don't think in absolutes. This can be very usefull. Because if you are not tied to one believe system you are flexible, you are fluid, and it's much easier to be witty. What I usually do when I am on a date/alone with a girl is create arguments. I disagree with her. Or I pretend to disagree with her. And you see, when everything to you is 'grey area' you can always take an opposite stand to her. By disagreeing with her you create polorazation. And polorazation is one of the strongest attraction mechanisms. Then meanwhile when I am arguing with her I am being Cocky-Funny. Cocky-Funny is my bread and butter when it comes to game. And I use a lot of push-pull. Sometimes taking the conversation to a more serious place, agreeing with her. And then back to arguing and being Cocky-Funny. So how this really works is: I am alone with the girl, we start debating/arguing in a playful polorizing manner, I argue the words that come out of her mouth, meanwhile I am reading all her micro-expressions and bodylangue. 70% of communication is trough bodylangue 30% by words. In other words the words coming out of her mouth don't mean shit. I was sitting on the couch the other day with this chick, joking and laughing and arguing and stuff, while I was physically escalating on her. And at some point I tell her "Woman look at me....woman listen to me...blah blah blah" And I see in her eyes her pupils dilate and her attraction goes UP. You know what she says? "You just lost every change to ever have sex with me". 30 minutes later I was fucking her. Now while I am creating this Cocky-Funny polarizing argument I read all her body signals. AND I physically escalate. I will start with just touching her hand, or her finger, or her knee. When that goes well scratch her neck. Maybe give her a foot massage, start making out with her. Everytime a little bit further. You got to keep pushing the frontier. Eventually you will be in her panties. Also what touching her does, is it comforts her if you do it right. You got to do it in a way that's comfortable to her ofcourse. You can't just start groping on her right from the start. But if you touch a woman's skin and she likes it, her body will start releasing oxytocin, some chemical or hormone or something that makes her feel close and connected to you. So if you use physical escalation right, she will start feeling comfortable and close to you, and then she wants to have sex with you. Again you can see how successful your actions are by picking up on her nonverbal communication.
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SD is just a model. You may just as well throw the whole concept out of the window if you are creating all these limiting beliefs around it.
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Get a rebound fuck right away
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I think you could even take that further. If whole planet Earth would blow up it could still benefit the Universe as a whole.
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I have made the mistake a few times where I was not the "Fuck Yes" guy but I was skilled enough to pull the relationship off. Down the line sooner or later that is not going to work out. Those were my serial monagomy days. I have also wasted my time with girls that were not a "Fuck Yes" to me. Dating multiple girls to find out which one is the one that truly likes you, and that you are compatible with is a better tactic then serial-monagomy in that regard. AKA spinning plates.
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This is truth. You can NOT negotiate truth desire. These concepts are also discussed in "The 9 Iron Rules Of Tomassi"
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@Aquarius 'Friends' can mean a lot of different things online. It can also mean 'casual' or 'sex'. It's a more covert way on putting it in case their mom reads their profile lol. Friends could just mean friends as well. But even then, me personally I am like "this a dating app you are spoiling the game" when women come with stuff like that.
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The reason is because people on dating sites are there with a clear intention to meet people. Even the ones just trying to get laid they are still on there with the intention to meet people to get laid. So if you are on there with no intention to meet people, people will question your intentions and therefore you will appear shady. They will be thinking: "Then who am I really talking to? A catfish, my ex, my boss?" I dont get any shady vibes off you on here. But that's because you are on here with an intention that meets everyone's expectations.
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@F A B When you fuck her in the car fuck her on the backseat. You got to slide both the front seats all the way forward. And fold the backrest of both the front seats all the way forward as well. That way you got lots of space in the car. The car is a great place. It is getting kind of cold now. In the car you got the air-conditioning/car heater. You got the music. It's your environment you can do whatever you want to do there. Except drink or do drugs. Don't do those and drive. Best to drive the car to some secluded or at least semi-secluded spot. Although most people won't mess with you. Most people know what's up when they see a car parked somewhere random all by itself. I never had any problems with it.
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I have not been eating meat a few days now. And I think I might have slightly less brain fog. Also better digestion. I don't necessairly think eating meat is bad or unatural. But you can't deny that the meat we consume in the US and the Western World is full of hormones and antibiotics. Those are definitely bad for you.
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Pisces So what's up? Should I buy the lottery ticket? What's going to happen to me in the near future and my lifetime?
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@SFRL Gosh I wish people would stop reacting to my topics if they didn't have any useful information for me.
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I used to fight a in amateur boxing. And I have tagged along to professional boxing events. Trained a little at a professional boxing training camp. With boxing, they on purpose only allow amateurs to compete at the Olympics. Because professional boxing is so corrupt. One time I went to a professional boxing fight and one of the guys I talked with was going to fight. He had only like 6 months of training and he had forgotten to bring his boxing shoes. He had no fights amateur or professional. He really did not have the skills. They had him fight in his Timberland mountain shoes without the laces. And he was fighting some guy by the name "KO" Snow. That guy had 8 fights already and won all 8 by KO. Of course the guy in boots got blasted out. That's how they pad the records of upcoming talented guys. Not that amateur boxing is completely without corruption. Back in the day the Cuban fighters were considered the best at the amateur and Olympic level. Those guys never went professional because of the Communist doctrine that did not allow for professional sports. (Getting paid). The reason the Cubans were so dominant was because they practically were full time professionals that got everything provided for them by the Communist regime. So it was like 30 year old full time professionals fighting 20-something year old kids from other countries.
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Racism and Ethnocentrism are losing strategys. If only for people's world-wide increased ability to travel and mass media. FB contributes to that for exame, for all the bad things you can say about it. 200 years from now we will all have a nice Mocha color ? That above statement sounds awefully politically correct but there is some truth to that. If you want to read a book of where the human race might be going read the original Sci-fi novel "Mass effect". It was written to promote the videogame but it paints a picture where the future could be going. The joke is that ofcourse once the human race unites we will just start to be racist and ethnocentic towards Aliens. And the whole cycle continues. If think you can draw parallels between the times of world exploration, when Western Europe started to explore the world by ships and space exploration. Those people back then went on a ship and started to explore the big unknown world. Then they encountedred people with other habits and that looked sort of like them but different. Most Europeans back then never had seen an Asian, or a Black person, or an Indian. And if they felt like they had the advantage they would exploit them. The same thing will happen if we go out in space and let's say there are Aliens. Same thing will happen. In the end we are an aggressive species scared of the unknown. Ego I guess. * How do you become less racist? Make friends with people of other races. Consuming other races culture and music doesn't hurt either.
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What are your opinions on flu shots? Are they good or bad and why?
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The last year before I went to Middle school/Highschool we got sexual education from my school teacher(!) We all had to sit there 11/12 year old kids, note books and pencils provided, and she would tell us everything! Draw out the vagina on the blackboard and we had to copy all that, the whole 9 yards. Now this was in open-minded liberal Holland mind you. First time I had to finger a girl I knew exactly what to do thanks to that teacher. Fucking awesome! So here is what you do: You go sit on the couch or on the bed with your back against the wall and your legs wide. Then you position the girl in-between your legs with her back against your chest. Kind of like you are her chair. She is sitting in between your legs facing the same direction (not on your lap, in-between your legs) Then you place the tip of your middle finger on her belly button all four fingers next to each other facing down. And then you go down with your hand until you come to her pussy lips. Right as you come to the place where her pussy lips spread, the top part, when you go in there with your finger you find her clit. It's like a little knob. Like a Skittle, the candy. That's the most sensitive part. You stimulate that part she gets an orgasm. You got to run the tip of both your index and middle finger, or just your middle finger (depending on what feels right) in circles over it. Or up and down. Or make kind of a digging motion with your finger tips. Depending on what feels right. Rule of thumb is if it feels good on your finger tips it probably feels good to her as well. Don't be too rough especially starting out. With your free hand you can hold a boob. Also it feels better to her if you lube it up. Women create their own lube when they are horny (so the dick can slide in better). So you can go further down to where her hole is, get your fingers wet, then bring them up to her clit again. It will feel better for her. Again don't rush. Take your time. Take it easy. Be kissing her while you do all this. I didn't invent all this. You got to thank my teacher.
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@MM1988 You are Dutch right? I will help you but it takes two man.
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@MM1988 stop messing with social circle. Aparently it works great for some guys but I don't mess with it. I have seen you get frustrated with social circle many times. Find girls outside of your social circle. And keep them there until you got them hooked. You might be introvert, introverts don't shine in big social settings. I am very introverted. Hell I got introverts calling me a recluse. My whole game is centered around 1 on 1 isolation. That's when I am at my best. Kind of like a rodent with a rattlesnake in one cage. We all know how that ends ? We need to get you an online dating profile.
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I knew you were not just going to the watering hole ?
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You his video goes into your question (as well). Maybe you get some takeaways from it.
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That's exactly what I thought. When doctors highly recommend a fly shot or any other medical method I get very suspicious. I get the sense that they or at least the hospital is making commission or something off it.