SFRL

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  1. Well anything is possible I guess. I personally don't like getting my dick sucked by most girls. A few were awesome at it. But the majority of the girls I don't think do a great job at it.
  2. I never met a girl that don't like oral. I have met girls that claim beforehand that they don't like it, but that's because they never had a good experience. They might be ticklish but there are many ways to lick it. If they claim to be ticklish I think it's more because they are uncomfortable with the situation. It's actually amazing how many guys aparently have no ideas to please a woman. I have met women like 30 years old who tell me they never had an orgasm with a guy. Or only like once or twice in their lives. On the flip side I also find that there is a correlation between women that play with themselves and their personalities. Women that regularly masturbate they tend to have much nicer and easier going personalities them women that don't.
  3. @Annoynymous you are a teenager? Just start teasing them.
  4. I don't necesairly disagree with anything you wrote other then that it's maybe only 10% of the full picture. Racism is not something that can just be grasped with SD. There are plenty of Stage Blue people who are not racist at all. Even Stage Red people are not necesairly racist. At the same time there are a lot of Stage Green people who have very little hands on experience with interacting with people from other races. Like when it's time to vote they will vote the 'right' thing. And on a forum they will write the 'right' thing. But in real life they steer clear of those people.
  5. I like to throw all the colors in one blender and then stir it with my dick.
  6. @Yarco To become truly anti-racist you will also have to embrace your own background, ethnicity, and even consider the viewpoint of White Supremacists etc. ----- and then transcend all of it. That also includes embrace other cultures, races, and their viewpoints etc. -----and then transcend all of it. Reverse discrimination (The White Male Is Bad) is a symptom of waking up to the racism around you. But it's far from actually transcending racism.
  7. I think sports and consciousness work go hand in hand very well. It's sitting on your ass and procrastinating that's the enemy. Not living healthy. Running is quite meditative. Martial Arts....if you ask me there is a lot of truth found to be found in martial arts. If you don't look for the truth in Martial Arts you are going to get seriously hurt. There is very little forgiveness for self-deception.
  8. The usual guideline is appoint yourself a stage and then subtract two stages.
  9. Lol that may actually work because they are into that star sign stuff anyways. I don't consciously use commonalities. I might go experience with that. I usually polarize to the extreme as an attraction mechanism.
  10. Yeah I guess it's just a variety on the nice guy syndrome. Sometimes it's tempting to think let me try to build a 'real' connection based on commen and intellectual values. And that shit just never works.
  11. @Solvinden If you want to practice humour look up "Cocky Funny". You can find videos on YouTube and arcticles using Google. It's a rather easy thing to pick up. You can easily practice it on girls. Me and my best friend in highschool would do it all the time. We didn't get laid off it or anything but it helped to develop that. I didn't even know it was called Cocky Funny. But I learned that stuff at home watching my Dad and my buddy had a great sense of humour so that's what we did. You can easily translate to your interactions with dudes as well. Half the time dudes talk about girls anyways. Having/finding some good role models goes a long way developing humor.
  12. @Solvinden I think the best way is for you to practice group presentations. I think there is something called "Toastmasters" It's 45 dollars each 6 months which is dirt cheap if you ask me. I know it works because I was not naturally good at public speaking but I learned it in college when I studied to be a History Teacher. Even though that's not what I do now. I am pretty decent at public speaking now.
  13. Anger is really just there to ramp the person up to the act of aggression. I am rather sure anger is an emotion triggered by the reptilian brain. Agression is the actual "Fight" in "Fight or Friday". Once in in the act of agression you are really just left with the act. In the act of agression there is not a whole lot of anger or tought. Rather still mind and flow state.
  14. Anger is a secondary emotion Anger on itself it doesn't really exist. It always follows after another emotion/sensation like fear, anxiety, pain, regret, hunger, danger, etc. It is really the "fight" component of the "fight or flight" mechanism that is experienced after experiencing a negative emotion/sensation.
  15. I am interested in Forum members experiences of Online Dating vs Cold Approach. I have a lot of experience with online dating. I would call myself an online dating expert. And a texting expert. Most of my dates from online have resulted in 1st date lays. When I go on an online date it actually does not ocure to me that I am not getting laid. That also has to do with my text game build up to the date. Not just average women some pretty ones as well. Some have resulted in LTRs as well. But I think the online dating train has taken me as far as it goes. What I do have very little experience with is cold approach. Online dating has made me lazy I guess. It's like the housecat who knows knows he got food in his bowl so he does not go chase mice anymore. I have had a few successes with women I met out in the real world. But those just kind of happened. Mostly because they put themselves out to me. Not because I proactively went after them. From the PU theory and from deductive reasoning I know that cold approaching girls shows higher value then online dating because you had the balls to approach a stranger out in the real world. Which makes perfect sense. She will always see you as that guy rather then a guy she met offline. Also cold approach has the benefit that you can pick a woman you have chosen with all your senses. You can see what she looks like, how she moves, how she interacts with her environment, body language, the clothes she wears, the look in her eyes, how she smells, you can hear her voice, etc. With online dating you can only go off pictures and a written sales pitch story. So it remains to be seen what you get when you meet in real life. So how have you guys experienced the dynamics change when you cold approach a girl vs meeting them online? I have watched videos of RSD Jeffy one of my favourite RSD instructors. He is an expert on both online dating and cold approach. And he says that online dating is the exact same thing as dating a girl from cold approach once you got that phone number, so I am not concerned with that. I am good with that. But from deductive reasoning it makes perfect sense that a cold approach shows higher value then an online connection. Looking to step up my game. Little experience with cold approach.
  16. I am at the mall right now, it's busy as fuck, all women are with their mom/family/boyfriend, etc. There was one girl who would have been worth it but I did not capitalize on that. And then there was something hideous that picked up on the look in my eyes and actually started following me around. So I took a sharp right into a store to get it off my tail, lol.
  17. Hodge Twins If you like working out and building muscles it's a great channel. They got a lot of workout advice and supplement advice. They also give a lot of advice on relationships, and sex in a no bullshit way. They are actual comedians. They are funny as fuck. AMS (Alpha Male Strategies) Pure, raw, uncut, dating advice. Gets straight to the point. Also hammers on the idea that you need to be on your purpose. RMG (Red Male Group) A podcast of several juggernauts from the Red Pill community discussing their ideas. Mostly about men, women, and relationships. It's a relatively new podcast. But it seems to be taking off pretty good. Good in-depth discussions on there. Entrepreneurs in cars YouTube channel of Richard Cooper one of the podcast members from RMG. He talks a lot about entrepreneurship, life purpose, women, relationships, marriage, and divorce. RSD (Real Social Dynamics) The leading channel on Pick-Up and Game. They have been around for a long time now. Definitely know their shit when it comes to Pick-Up and Game. Corey Wayne Dating coach. Has been around for ages. Has tons of videos. He may very well have invented the whole "I am a talking head looking into the camera" template that so many now use on YouTube. I definitely got a lot of value from his videos when I was starting out. Rummy's Corner I just throw this one in for the fun of it. It's a boxing analyzes channel. Rumsfeld definitely knows his shit when it comes to boxing. He is also very passionate about it. If you like fight-sports you should check it out. Not many life lessons to be learned from that channel, but it's good fun. It might get you motivated/inspired.
  18. @Aquarius because into the second paragraph you get into your subject using SD, after giving a short introduction in the first paragraph. And then in the last paragraph you wrap it up using SD again. That's just basic reading/skimming skills on my part.
  19. I only started meditating recently. I could not bring myself to do it before because I used to be far down on Maslow's Hierarchy. I don't see why you absolutely not should move your head at all during meditation though. I think you should keep it to a minimum. But I think it's also ok to make some small movements sometimes. But maybe I am missing something. Or maybe use a pillow to lay your head on?