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@flowboy watch some AMS videos. (Alpha Male Strategies). Give it a good honest try. At least 10 videos.

@Charlotte If you are 28 years old then you got time. I am a guy, but I did have no affinity with kids until I actually brought one into this world. And I was 31 then. Now I really like kids. And it's really weird but before I had a kid I did hardly even notice kids. And if one would come to me I would be like "take that thing away from me". Now I see kids everywhere, and I am very comfortable handling them. I actually get fatherly feelings too when I see teenagers. I am getting old, lol. I also know of a couple where the guy really wanted kids. And the woman did not. Then once they started having kids the guy was done after the second kid. And then the woman liked having kids so much she really really wanted a third kid. Just to show how things can change. I have also seen women who are kind of masculine. But then once they have a kid they are super nurturing and sweet and nice to the kid. I think the whole 9 month process and giving birth does do something to a woman. As a guy it's probably something we can never fully grasp. Father's love their children too but it's different from how a mom loves the child I think. One thing you got to watch for though in my opinion, is that having children has an experation date for women. I would say about age 36. After that there are too many healthrisks. Also you need to consider that if you want to have children by age 36 then ideally you want to have found someone to make those kids with by no later then age 34/35. I think it's a trap for women these days. Women are made to believe that they should: Have an education, have a career, have lots of friends, and a big social network, travel, have time to be single and party, have a boyfriend, have a relationship. Those are all things that need to achieved to their full extend. And kids can wait, and that will just happen happen when the woman chooses. But you don't order your kids off Amazon. If anything I would say: Find a boyfriend first. Have a good relationship. Then when you want kids in your early 30s you can.

How old are you?

Pretty good video on the Sunk Cost Fallacy and why people get stuck and throw their lives away. The Sunk Cost Fallacy can be a massive roadblock to self-development.

Do cats have a huge Ego?

@Amadeusz

The world was deeply Stage Blue before the World Wars. The USA was furthest ahead being Blue/Orange. Europe was pretty much solid Blue with little bits of Orange. Including Nazi Germany. I think of all the European countries the UK probably was furthest ahead being more Orange then the rest of Europe. The UK is where the Industrial Revolution started after all. Russia was solid Blue as well. Nazi Germany and the other Facists regimes also had a lot of Stage Red elements too them. Japan was Stage Red/Blue as well. After WW2 the USA became the New World Leader and adapoted an imperialistic worldview. It became the economic export juggernaut that it has been for the last few decades. Therefore the USA shifted further up the Orange spectrum. Europe had been shot to pieces and had to rebuild. During WW2 a lot of old social constructions had been turned upside down. Which made place for more modern Orange ideas to be integrated in society. Also in the process of rebuilding Europe, the industry and international trade picked up shifting Europe from Blue to Blue/Organge. I think that because Europe was the theater for both World Wars the European people have been more willing to develop fast up the Spiral Dynamics model. They experienced first-hand what he consequences would be if they didn't. These days a lot of European countries are skewing Greenish. More so then let's say the USA. European countries nowadays are very weary of unhealthy forms of patriotism. Also they have been willing to work together though all kinds of trade agreements, open borders, and politically as well in the European Union. And financially as well with the 'Euro' currency. I think all those developments could be labeled Orange with an obvious Green underlayer. Also after WW2 European Imperialism collapsed. A lot of European colonies got their independence. I think holding on to colonies was at that point a Stage Blue thing. But now people got their personal freedom. A stage Orange ideal. All in all I think about think WW1 and WW2 was result of unhealthy Stage Blue. With some red thrown in the mix as well.

Yes you can. Prettier doesnt necessarily mean sexier though. It also doesn't necessarily mean she will be more of a freak.

You might be picky, but so are the girls that are not interested in you. It's a lot easier to get with girls that are interested in you from the get go and are showing choosing signals. It's all about Sexual Market Value. Watch the video below for better understanding on Sexual Market Value. Better hobbies or whatever is needed to raise your SMV.

Pause for a moment and look around which girls are interested in you. Are there girls you know that are into you? Any girls. If there are no girls at all that are interested in you then you got to build yourself up to be higher value. Pick up some hobbys etc.

Don't get too smug.

What if she does? You are not that interested in her right? So if she rejects you then what is the problem really? I would just not ask, because she seems to want it anyways from what I got from the background story. Asking is not very sexy. It's not seductive. You making your moves is. It's more erotic.

Don't tell her. Just get her to your place and make your moves.

My insight lately is that the stuff that pisses me off in other people is my own bullshit. In other words their bullshit is the exact same bullshit I pull.

Let's be nice to each other the rest of 2018 at least. I know I have been a dick as well. No more JP is an asshole vs our savior threads. No more 'Leo is actually a manipulative asshole threads' No more Republicans are reptiles threads. No more I am Yellow/Green you are Orange/Blue threads. No more women need the dick threads. No more men are pigs threads. No more don't be such a pussy threads. No more non-duality war threads. Anything mean. Let's just talk about out: Our hobby Pleasant memories about our family members Our pets Funny animals Our dreams Poetry Art Beautiful music Helping others Let's detox from all the negative energy. ☮️

Have any of you guys had this experience? When you want to discuss high consciousness topics with women they lose interest. Like a woman appears to be into stuff like vegetarian eating, or meditation, or psychology or something. And then you show her some Actualized.org videos or something. Or she says she is vegan and you say yeah I experiment with vegetarian eating. And then it's like they judge you. Or they lose attraction because they don't perceive you as masculine anymore. (I don't have a better explanation). I mean you would think that they would like that. But I have noticed several times it's more effective to act like a caveman.

@Marinus Start lifting/and or other physical exercises. Running, push-ups, martial-arts etc. Whatever you like.

Also I am 100% sold on the idea that T is all that bad. It can be enjoyable too. Plus kinda chaotic but also creative.

@Shan What I find also creates a lot of stress and neuroticism and turbulence is being stuck low on Maslows Hierarchy of needs. I used to go broke every month. Bad living situation. Things like that. Now I got that handled it's already a lot better.

Yeah. I am INFP-T. I think that is the part of my personality that makes for moodswings and bi-polar tendencies. I just started to meditate daily since a week. And I think that helps some. It helps in the moment to line up my thoughts and gives leverage to be more productive that day. Diet is important as well. Too much sugar, too much caffeine, cigarettes, and too much processed food for a prolonged time paired with a lot of stress can really set me off. The irony being that when I am stressed and in a hyper state I do crace sugar, caffeine, cigarettes, and hamburgers.

Yeah I have been thinking about that as well. To get a girl who is good at it. And then she can give 1 on 1 workshops and perform on me. While the student girl is watching. And then they can take turns. Ofcourse we would keep the price of these workshops low. Not to be greedy. So these workshops would be accessible to many girls. For the greater good of humanity.