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@Tom T Overall not a bad plan. Just remember that you also have to be able to break a rule when needed. That goes for all of life, not just relationships. Some pointers considering relationships: 1. You don't know ANYTHING about the other person until the 3 month mark. 2. It takes at least 6 months to build a real 'deep' connection with the other person. 3A. You don't know what your relationship is worth until you have had your first major fight. 3B. You don't know what your relationship is worth until you have had your first major fight over money. 4. It is very important that you can laugh with the other person. Even more important for the relationship is that you can fight with the other person. (Fight and make up).

If anything IQ seems to measure dorkiness. The higher the IQ score the dorkier the person.

I have been seeing this thread build and go on and on and I have just been too lazy until now to even be bothered to reply. But that Stefan Molyneux video got so many holes in it's reasoning it just makes me tired thinking about a reply. First of all it is widely known that IQ tests can be trained for and measures school book smarts and knowledge. It basically measures how well you can score on a test playing by the White upper middle class rule book. I am upper middle class White and grew up upper middle class White but still don't be ignorant. Don't be living in a bubble. Also the video talks about Whites, Jews, Blacks, Asians, etc. Like we can all just be divided like that. Especially this day and age. There are so many mixed race people, makes me wonder what about them? At least aestheticely they tend to turn out very pretty, probably because of two fresh gene pooles mixing. It might be that it has a positive effect on their intellect as well. And then to think that Black Americans are a mixed race people anyways. The average African American is 20% White. And they also have a lot of Native American blood in them. Native Americans are genetically closest to Asians. And in the video he claims Asians tend to have a slightly higher IQ then Whites no? Makes me think. If IQ determines success and Asians being slightly smarter then Whites as he claims. Then why have Whites dominated the world pretty much roughly since the year 1500 until recently. Also he mentions the most successful immigrant group in the US are Nigerians. And most of the slaves that were taken from Africa were from the West coast/Nigeria. So then how does that work?

@John Iverson you probably overdid it. Now you can start from scratch with a new girl because this isn't going anywhere anymore.

He got more videos on the subject on his channel.

Here is some cool Ryan Gracie BJJ video I found:

@Alfonsoo just watch the videos on YouTube that I told you about.

@Alfonsoo her interest level just isn't that hight. Probably around a 5 or 6. Watch some Alpha Male Strategies videos on that subject. He got good videos on that. Search on YouTube: AMS low interest

I didn't think it was that extreme. Looks like your average American. Although that might be the real problem.

@Arcangelo how do you rate a 5.9 from a 6 and a 6 from a 6.1? That seems way complicated. I just use wholes and halfs. Like 7, 7.5, 8, 8.5 etc. Or maybe -7, 7, 7+ that's more of a gut feeling thing though.

It's indeed a lot better to be sitting on the couch with a bucket of Icecream.

@Alex14 thats personally just what I would text her in your situation. I worked not see the need to overcomplicate it. You can also over-game a girl. In this situation she has already agreed to go out with you. You just needed to confirm a place and time. If you try too hard to game her trough text you risk the possibility of actually messing things up. While the date is already secured. So I would just set a date/activity/time trough text. Then when you are actually on the date, game her on the date.

What's up? Do you want to go to the movies next Wednesday at 8.20PM at the Sawgrass Mall?

What's really the hate here on the guy? All I see is a teacher teaching some basic technique to probably an beginner/intermediate class. What's wrong with that? Is it that his form of martial arts is considered not effective? Or is it that the fact that he practices a martial art is considered egoic and therefore non-spiritual. Either of these statements I think are very shortsighted.

I don't think you totally can. But you can choose to focus on your purpose/goals/passions. When you have a hobby/career that you are very passionate about putting work into that can be just as satisfactory as sex. Sometimes maybe even more. Let's say you win a martial arts tournament. No way that sex is more satisfactory then that. Then sacrificing sex for what you need to do to win that tournament is something you will be happy to do. You can swap out martial arts for any passion that personally fits you.

That's an interesting statement coming from a woman. *Your YouTube channel is not bad actually.

@flowboy if you want to go out every day of the he week I would stick with the 11.00 -19.00 schedule and meditate after work then go out.

Technically I have never been a PUA because I never bothered with cold approach. I have had a lot of success from dating apps though. It is much more time efficient then cold approach and going out. And it really is the exact same thing once you get past the initial 'approach' getting the phone number phase.

Sure work on your game. But are you working on your value as well? Also known as SMV or Sexual Market Value.

@Highest You don't know her. You basically don't know anything about the other person for the first 3 months. It takes about 6 months before you even build a real bond with another person. You probably hit it off right with her and sparked a nice connection. Which is good of course. I would not be bothered too much by asking "the right" questions. It's more about what you demonstrate not what you communicate. It's your vibe that gets you places with girls, not the actual words coming out of your mouth. Keeping things light, flirty, and fun is what girls generally like on dates. So avoid topics like death, abortion, having children, marriage, politics, etc. If you are going to be asking any questions, ask her if she got brothers and sisters. Or if she got pets. Girls love people. So they love to talk about the people they care for. Also try to do atleast some minor physical escalation. Touching/pulling hair. Touching her legs/knees. Touching her arms/shoulders. Her neck. If you can make out with her or have sex even better. But some minor physical escalation is a must.

Honestly when I read this I am thinking....how did this guy suddenly appear out of thin air that she is trying to make you jealous with? Girls always got other options. Plans B's, orbiters, guys in the friendzone, prospects etc. He probably was around already.

You will probably start out as a nice guy. Then you go trough an asshole phase where you get to practice all the new techniques that actually work to attract girls. Once you master those techniques you will shift back to that middle ground, that sweet spot, when inherently you are actually a nice guy. I think that is the natural progression for most guys.

I don't feel like it is holding me back in any major way. I travel a lot so I am gone a lot anyways. That's just how my life is. I am not with the mom either. So I don't live the traditional family life. Although I do see my daughter often, she stays with me whenever possible, and I do have a good relationship with my daughter. My family is supportive as well. If you don't have/or want that then your situation might be different then mine.