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Does anyone on here have experience with eating foods that boost estrogen? Did you notice an effect on the prevention/healing of injuries? I have done some online research and I think it could be possible.

@Preety_India I think of these things, like most things, the truth is somewhere in the middle. I don't see it as either or. You are both right and both wrong. Too take it far, and to be happy, you need to blend both her and your perspective.

Then where do you find this unconditional love? I don't think it is something that can just be found. I think it is something acquired if it exists at all. At least to an extend. But that makes it not entirely unconditional at then. On another note. Dying with all your family by your deathbed sounds nice. But that's the movies. People die while taking a shit on the toilet. Or in a frontal car crash while listening to Cardio B while they were sipping and a Pumpkin Latte.

Sure you can. But peoples needs vary trough different phases of their life. Now you might think that way maybe later you will think different. Take a look at Maslow's Hierarchy of needs. Leo got a video on that. And you can find the pyramid online. According to that model at some point in your development it becomes a strong need to build close personal relationships. It's debatable if that got to be a family, wife and kids etc. IMO.

Pros and cons to having lots of little amount of friends. To me I rather walk alone. Or not with that many people atleast. If you feel that need then you should go make more friends I think. Different personalities different needs. No two people are the same. And like I said there are pros to having a lot of friends as well.

@phllip103 put on your running shoes and go running. The nice weather season just started.

Do one, then the other. They are hard to mix. I would keep your school and purpose a priority. It's easy to fuck that all up when you go chasing women. If you already have the skill to attract women, its not a problem to put it on the back burner. It's like riding a bicycle. Once you know how to do it you never really forget, you can pick it up again anytime you want to.

@SageModeAustin No problem.

@SageModeAustin Like I always say: You don't know ANYTHING about the other person for the first 3 months. And it takes 6 months to build a real bond. I would just keep doing what you guys have been doing. Maybe 3 or 4 months in you can drop/hint the idea of a relationship again if that's what you want. If you have not found out more things that piss you off by then.

@electroBeam You should see each other at least once every 3 months for at least a week. You can't skimp on that. Also she should give you a 'little show' on WhatsApp now and then ? Most important though I think is that you need to have a concrete plan for when this long distance relationship starts and when it ends. If it's going to be two years it got to be two years. Not two and a half not three, two years. If you don't have a concrete plan and you don't stick to it it's easy to drag this long distance thing out indefinitely. It's an easy trap to fall into. You should know what you are going to do after two years. Like get married. Or live together in this and that city. BTW how far is far?

@kindayellow You got to see the humor in it. Watch anyways and tease the hell out of her.

@The Don

Don't tell her. Make your moves. Physically escalate over drinks. Again. Don't tell her. That's your best chance. But if you have known her fore ever I would not expect too much. Then again: Nothing beats a failure but a try.

"You are free now" ?

Bottom line is it's just a whole lot of dysfunctionality. It's not going to better you.

@SageModeAustin Is this really a girl you want to build a relationship with? She is bouncing off your dick while her ex is put away. Doesnt sound to me like she is the kind of girl you can rely on when things go against you. Like when you loose your job for example. Not that I would expect that from too many people. That's like one of the reason why affairs seldom work out. Because the two people having an affair deep down know that they are both untrustworthy.

@The Don yeah it's just you for who it's hard to be in a relationship. The rest of us...nah...smooth sailing...

Well if he is your best friend you can atleast visit him in prison right?

Eat a lot. And work out a lot. Eat as clean as possible. The less processed the food the better. Avoid empty calories as much as possible.

Buy a 2nd car.

1. Go to a professional to change my posture at 16. That was my first practical self-improvement practice. It also introduced me to fitness because it involved a lot of body weight exercises. Pushups, situps, leg raises, etc. 2. Stopped smoking/smoking weed at 17. Had been smoking a lot ages 15-17. 3. Started hardcore working out at 17. Boxing, fitness, running. 4. Changed careers/got a second education after finishing college. The result is more money, more free time, more adventure. The alternative would have been predictable and boring to me. 5. Moved to the USA from Europe. This went together with changing careers. Generally dedicating my life to travel and adventure.

@bflare It takes two. It takes two to make a relationship work. It also takes two to create a toxic dynamic. Reading your stuff some of it seems straight up bullshit from her. Some of it is straight up bullshit from you. You created that situation together. That's ok though. I have been in plenty of toxic relations myself. At the end of the day you need someone that when you fight you can make kiss and make up again. Sooner rather then later. That also means letting things slide sometimes. I have found this advice good: Now another thing, and I am not talking you down, my girlfriend is 9 years younger then me. Much younger like your ex girlfriend. So I am not bashing you over that or something. But try to look at it objectively from the outside in. She is like what? Early twenties and you mid thirties? Don't you think it sounds a little ridiculous that the little brat got you all bended out of shape to the point where you need therapy? Snap out of it man, pull yourself together. I get it she is young and hot. But if you got a young hot girlfriend before you can do it again. Next time or the next next time you will find a girl that you can build a positive dynamic with.

Learn how to escalate. Physically. You ate getting girls to your place. That's good. That's half the battle. But once you are in that position more should be happening then a few cuddles. You got the skill to get dates and bring girls home. Now you got to get the skills to get the panties off.

To find other intelligent life in Space. Then all Earthlings need to all unite to either conquer their planets or unite together for our survival.

Reading the thread title I thought Fox News had started doing guided morning Yoga.