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@tashawoodfall thank you! Good morning!

@tashawoodfall sooooooo true! I thought it was. What a silly thing. Its been a long time since I believed in psychologists. I only can relate to Abe now. (Abraham Esther Hicks) -not a cult-nor a religion.

I was dealing with this shit for a long time. If you manage to shift your mood from bad to better throughout the day,you will catch yourself being more creative and uplifted and in general interested to do things,and having more energy and courage to do things that before were such a chore! Its all about having the abillity to feel good. As long as you care about how you feel,everything will be fine. P.s. more information you will find from Abraham Esther Hicks. Cheerz.

Dude your last sentence really annoys me and its so,black or white. What do you mean "I dont want anyone but her" Whaaat... dude? What did you just say? This is sick. First of all noone belongs to us.Just because you were together for a long time doesnt mean you are different individuals with free will theres no contract so chill. Plus you dont actually need her. You have told yourself that you need her. Your feelings are your own responsibility.. And secondly,everything happens for a reason and...its always a good one. Please think about it again. What do u tell to yourself? Maybe some silly stories that cant serve you well and theyre making you miserable.

@Evilwave Heddy are you for real??? Theres noone that wishes to die,being in a nice place in their mind! Obviously grandpa is depressed. I want him to live!

What the hell? Help him stay alive! Feed him and make him happy so that he forgets about death! Lol its obvious! Do take his words literally. He is very old and pll at his age talk bullshit sometime. Help him be happy!!!!

What the hell? Help him stay alive! Feed him and make him happy so that he forgets about death! Lol its obvious! Do take his words literally. He is very old and pll at his age talk bullshit sometime. Help him be happy!!!!

@I_Like_Thing This is not a woman thing. Also age is not the only enemy. Lack of confidence is.

Independence&acceptance&understanding&chemistry.

How to get rid of self-sabotage? You dont have to get rid of it,because it doesnt exist. Its only your thoughts and you. Try to think better thoughts about yourself. Thats it there is no secret or books or shit.

No it is not. Just because some people have experienced some things doesnt necessarily mean that its the ultimate truth. Everybody has its own truth and this is made by his/her perception. That's it.

Wow. There is a huge list for me. I ve grown so much and I have let go a lot of things. And I love it. 1. My ex. I used to freaking hate him. Its a long time ago that I let this anger go,and this sadness go, and I for sure have lived with a lot of benefits since then. 2. I stopped fighting with my dad. I used to hate him,but then I let the feeling of hatred and frustration go. Its awesome as well. 3. My acne. This is a huge deal for me. I let that go. Its so liberating. Now,that doesnt bother me anymore. I dont even put the effort to cover it. Its there and I embrace it. I like it. Its a part of me. 4.In general,the bad opinions other people have for me. And I wouldn't have done SO MUCH WORK on it If I haven't read about Abraham Hicks teachings. I truly LOVE Esther. 5. My crush...Not that he used to bothering me,no. But me thinking of him,that I can never approach him. I doesnt bother me amymore. Im more liberated than ever. Now I dont mind If I never try with him. I had to let 'him' go. Amd I did. It feels perfect. ALOT OF THINGS BABY. A LOT. things that are just tiny that were still bothering me,but not now. I wonder If it is helpful to post them here. ???

Take a notebook and write down all the things you are doing during the day just fo REALIZE how things are going to your life according to your actions. You will realize that life is fair enough with you,and that your current actions mirror your life. Then,after doing that for a certain time,add 2 easy actions which are convinient to do in your everyday basis. Once you get the hang of it,you will realize that everything is in your hands and decisions arent something that complicates you or scares you. Narrow it down,only a few words and dont push it at first,just observe how your reality is going. You will find out why you are here and want to be there,and why is this happening. But for you to do it,you must realize there is no perfection,you do it just for tge sake of doing it. If it make you feel better in a long run,its okay go on, If not then you were right at first and you didnt have to do this at all.

So. I get that. You are feeling overwhelmed. But now I will have to decide whether it is really an excuse of yours not to do things or it us just negative emotions flowing all the way and/or some limiting beliefs such as 'we have to be perfect and do things very right'. You'll have to decide those. Dont do anything untill you will feel better about the situation. Otherwise it would be all driven by negative motives and the journey would be painful.

Hm. I strongly believe that If you are going to learn how to feel better,the "motivation" will come. I really dont like the word motivation. Its just like a word that screams "I will push myself to do sth" and If you push yourself you feel sad and something like self-sabotaging. It is so annoying, I feel that. However,If you could remain with good feelings in your whole mind and body,the inspiration will be there,and it will feel authentic and natural. So whenever you feel unmotivated,remember that your true self wants the best for you,and at this moment you have to improve the way you feel in order to think that you're motivated again! Because this bitch (bad mood) can make you say a lot of inaccurate things about yourself and make you believe them as well. Thats why when youre back feeling better,the motivation feels it got bacj,but in real life,it never went away!

Hahaha the last pic is E VE RY THI NG OMG. what a brilliant question! Food would have a huge part of my time those 6 months. Everyday would be junk food (loooool probably I would die sooner) but I would eat EVERYTHING I LIKE GUILT FREE!!!! I would have done a lot of sex. I would have talked to a bunch of people with no shame, things that Ive always wanted to say. And these 6 months would be the greatest of my life. I would be totally free. Living on the edge.

I dont agree with genetic fitness. I think it is all about : what makes you attractive to a specific person.This has to do with how much you look like to a familiar/loved one/closest person. So Im gonna take Freud's approximation. Kind of. And this applies to internal behaviours too. But As far as facial expressions/looks too. It is something you have already decided from a very young age and some type of characteristics you genuinely are attracted to.

A great question. Anyone has an answer.?

@Loreena haha How about a strange noise in the middle of the night? Some footfalls maybe,or some keys trying to unlock the door! What about hearing some whispering from unfamiliar voices? Lol

@eskwire Well my oldest sister has done the same for me. Dont give your kidney UNLESS you forgive him. Remember forgiveness has to do with our peace of mind. This is a huge case dont take it airily. Dont do this because you think you are a better person. Firstly you have to truly forgive and then expect nothing. Some people are assholes

Yes. And they dont give a damn.

Can be both. Risk it and you will find out. But the consequences will be there.

Yes I was once in a long distance. It sucked. But that doesn't mean yours too. Listen up. First things first, a L.D.relationship can hardly ever succeed. So this is a con,here. A disadvantage. Write it down. The fact that you are not calling yourself needy is very positive,because at this type of relationship hardly anyone feels the opposite. Its rare to not feel needy. To be honest,I think you should have guts to come off this stronger. It will bend you. Now,that is something you can't claim. You can't say that she cares about you. All this,its so early. Excuse me but I have to stress the negatives. If all goes well and you can live with your bad emotions (driven by this situation-If you are mature enough) it can go well and you can succeed.both of you. It depends on what you want from her. How old are you,your needs(which others can never fullfil)your desires etc. If you have expectations,LDR may let you down. But never say never. At the end,my opinion is that WE have enough converns. This type of a deal is a huge battle and for sure doesnt worth it. Even If it was short distance,it won't worth your unhappiness. So stay strong and If you decide it,please dont blame her at the end. It will be your decision and your consequences. Cheers.

Agoraphobia.

@kuwaynej maybe the theory "there is no death" can help you! @aryberry Just relax. Breathe! It will pass!