egoeimai

I tried to put it politely but okay, nothings gonna change so bye

Wth? Doesn't mean we don't struggle, we have to accept it if our response is not quite acceptable from everyone.

@Peace and Love Im not sure if Enlightenment really exists and personally I don't even know if that's something achievable or bs. But all I can say is that, okay you ate saying that you keep reminding to yourself what you are, but remember you are infinite, who is making those questions? Is that YOU? No. You can't get rid of the nervous system its there to protect the body, so you are the awareness who sees all that. So imagine if there is a theater and you are just watching you can't judge you can't take part there, you just watch, so that's what you are. If that's true, you are not the body, the person, you are the one who sees all that. So! Everything else is just not you, not these questions or worries etc. So maybe there's not such a thing as Enlightenment, because you are always there, you can't act on something or request or want because you (awareness) doesn't need anything, just exists always and everywhere.

I like the attitude behind this but of course I'll have to disagree, IMO noone can

You just have to look inside and find what is lacking. Withdraw your attention from the person, she is not what you're looking for, the answer is within you NOT OUTSIDE of you.

You are GOD God is within you not outside of you. Remember that.

Start again. That's what I'm doing with my diet. Life taught me I should never give up, all successful people failed and tried a million times. Im gonna do the same because success is THAT, exactly trying and failing over and over until you become perfect and achieve any goal. I wish the best mate!

Your nature is love. So you can't deny it. You have to have it. But first drop the boundaries.

Releasing suppressed emotions. A very good process will make wonders. Keep trying.!

Hello! I think that you should go and risk everything you have! Everything that u r afraid of losing. Your sense of 'dignity', risk it all! Put it under threat. That's how you will eventually grow. So, you have to have these experiences. Especially the bad ones because those will make you struggle and by contemplating those you'll get over this. The fear, the shyness, the sense of 'I am not enough', the insecurities. Everything. If you had a good opinion about yourself, I'd tell okay, don't risk it. But you have to prove yourself wrong, otherwise you won't believe that you are worthy. I may say to you 'oh you are worthy of the best things in life' but you can't do it like this unfortunately. You have to get ? hurt and then you'll have to recover. An easy road doesn't challenge anything. It's all when we lose things, when we earn oh we are totally fine and secure, but what happens when you feel afraid or that your life/freedom/values/security are being threatened.? Then you'll have to do something to get up. I highly recommend to watch this video, now, the title is irrelevant to your subject but he explains everything about how the mind works and its very important. All the thoughts are passing by when you are about to risk it or not, (talk to her or not) are described through these processes. Your nervous system wants you to stay alive and stay safe. It won't risk any bullshit, and the mind from the other hand has these limiting beliefs or illusion that you are not enough or that you have to 'wait' because is not the right time for a relationship, fears and such, watch the video. ?

You can't get rid of it. Only if you give it your full attention and love it, then it'll start not hurting you.

@Cesar Alba to protect you

It's just because you want this feeling, not her.. ?

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I have nothing more to add, I'll just post some videos here for you to watch : I hope you do some more work after watching these videos. Hope that helps. All the best xx

I'm telling you this just because Ive had experienced similar things (and who doesn't btw? It's so common) and as the time passes by you will understand and grow (btw you must be at a very young age so it's normal).

It doesn't matter what she thinks or what she feels. I mean, it sounds crazy but you know, you can't act according to her reactions or how she feels. You come first and that should be your priority, of course that's just my opinion. It's okay to end up with those feelings. They are here for a reason, it's your nervous system trying to protect you. But see the bigger picture. It's all this. A mind's creation thing that makes you believe it's the truth +makes you feel a certain way, what if there's nothing wrong with you? What if there's nothing special in her? What if all that is just a reason for you to stay unhappy /uncomfortable a little longer? Just a story /a mechanism, and nothing more?

@LaucherJunge yeah, I see this pattern again and again in all of your experiences, but they say, labelling it makes it more difficult for you. But if you don't label it, you kind of treat it like 'just a feeling', whereas labelling it you make it feel like more heavy in your heart, it feels like a big deal, or a problem that needs to be resolved, a thing that you need to define /control, the mind does it all the time! But then there is you, awareness, which can leave it just like it is, thus making it easier for you. Dunno. All this big story, well parts of stories that you've of course experienced, is it worth your attention now? Especially something that you over think, (negative one, repeating the same story about how it happened, when maybe this ain't the case) I think it's better to not identify with it, it haunts you in a way, because think about it, there's that YOU, who did this and reacted in such way, and that happened, it somehow bonds you with the story, which is in fact a perspective and not the truth -so why bother. I don't know what's important for you, but for me it's the truth, I don't know

Oh very interesting! Tell me more about this, what happened and how you deal with it? The fact that you mention it btw it means that it uses a lot of your attention, thus it's important?!

Is this a story that you've made up (your mind) that makes it more difficult and complex, to deal with? What if none of this truly exists?

I would help my whole family and friends and then help the people in need. Definitely.. Of course some cash for me as well, but I would love to see people happier..

Duck da shit ?