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I can't express how I hate when people believe such huge things about themselves! First and foremost they are putting all of us down just by believing this. Get it? That's ridiculous omg. But ofc if I had healthy self esteem I wouldn't even care for this sabotaging game! Anyway let's not focus on that. Thing is she is out of my life and I'm doing good. I will absolutely grow emotionally taking steps to my happiness achieving my goals and she can lick my a**. Lol

@Preety_India Yes, thank you preety. It absolutely helps! Ofc It's that we need to realize that we're not rude or bad people for letting these people go! They're doing bad rather than good in our lives and our precious time. And of course healing is a long road so we should be thinking about this when communicating with a toxic person. I'm glad my cousin is sooooo egotistical that will not come back to me and make me suffer in her way. She values her miserable life and even then she thinks she will not waste her time getting me back in some way. I'm glad because I didn't want her attention or anything, I just wanted this to be over and slowly get her out of my life. And that's what I did. I feel better and that's only the beginning. Getting her out of my life will remove most of my lowself esteem triggers that she provokes and a lot of other petty things like ego games. I'm so glad I will have the time to get my shit together and not having her ruining my progress. I really need to build my self esteem and slowly believe that I actually can do some things, and not having her compare all the time and make me feel less. Also, I'm so glad she will not sabotage my progress in any way because while I'm growing emotionally and mentally she will not be able to take away my happiness. Oh, poor her, she will realize she's not on top of the world!

And me reading this ❤️❤️❤️?

@Preety_India Karma will absolutely make him pay. Have this in mind. This applies to everyone. The above thought helps so much and is not illusion. It's actually true. Other thoughts are everything that is positive about yourself "I'm worthy of love and respect I deserve good people in my life What happened was an opportunity for me to grow and I did. I became a stronger person from this Now I know even more what I deserve. I deeply believe it. There's not a bad person that in some way doesn't get hit by karma. The universe is fair and you give what you get. You get what you give. " Always try to think positive because you deserve to be happy. By loving yourself you remove most of the negative thoughts in your mind, because you know, it's because you're worth it. You being happy is number 1 priority. Knowing that you'll not let yourself fall into the negative cycle as easy as you would if you didn't know that. Being mindful helps you remember this.

@Raphael I just quoted you. Can't erase that now. I would like to say thank you to all members who took the time to reply to me. Anyways, @Raphael I wish I could help her but she doesn't accept help. Her attitude doesn't let you help her. Her idea of herself is something I can't cope with. If she was a person that could at least see the problem, mmediately I would help. Anyways, as I'm moving far from her, I wish her to be free of her misery for her own life. As I won't be in hers.

Exactly what I'm thinking. I deserve good people in my life. Otherwise I would keep them. But I recognize it. I do deserve better. I want to be treated equally. I don't want people that are shadowing my path.I want my path to be brighter. What's the point if I keep them in my life? What's the purpose if they make me feel unhappier? We have one life (even tho I believe we have more) but why not make the best of it? In the end, if I let them, I will not earn anything, only lose my precious time.

Thank you preety. You've been very helpful. It was exactly what I needed to hear. You understand exactly the situation. I just blocked her from all social (Instagram and viber) and I already feel better. Next step is to avoid her physically when we are with other people (cousins etc). By blocking her from social media gives her the opportunity to not talk to me ever again, lol, so this makes it so much easier for me. Good job! Thank you ? Ps I have blocked so many people this year. All toxic. This makes the year brighter even though it is a very difficult year for all of us ❤️

@Preety_Indiathank u so much. I will completely erase her from my life. I'm worthy of good people, kind, understanding. No need to be around her. I must let her go. First thing I will do is to block her from social media. Since she is so obsessed with media flexing her looks, it will destroy her me deleting her. That's the first step. Second step is I will be avoiding any contact with her such as meeting with my other cousins. I will particularly set meeting with others, even individually and the aim would be to not see her again. She is such a cancer that spreads and I have no time for her. I want to focus on my life and I want to improve myself and she is an obstacle standing in my way to my happy life. I'm super serious about it. I'm tired of these people who want to be the center of attention all the time.

@No Self YES she has a broken family, lots of insecurities, yes questionable parenting etc etc What would u diagnose her with ? Adhd? Arrogance and low self esteem. Why is that? Is that common? I see there are many people with low self esteem and I get it. But what is that annoying combination with arrogance? Wtf and who is she trying to fool? What do you think is in me that triggers me so much other than low self esteem? @aurum I don't know, maybe help me to find out

Keep going! I'm following the thread!

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Hello. I'm sorry for what you've been through. Keep in mind forgiving is about you, not her. You'll be able to release and feel better about yourself.

@ethanb121 hello, I would like to help please feel free to msg me whenever you feel you're in need or not! ??

Nice, so she's aware of it and maybe is trying to change it. Although, this is not gonna change overnight. Until then, she is gonna keep doing it. If it doesn't bother u or change you overtime (aka u can control how u feel and behave) then keep it as is it. But if you think it's gonna influence u in a bad way then let her go. You're just on different levels.

It is too much. Not saying that you're perfect or don't need to change (no one is perfect, we all have room to improve) but this behavior doesn't make you feel happy about yourself and it brings out not the best parts of yourself. So that's not something you should aim for in life. People that bring the best out of us make us feel the best and do more and more and improve. Not the people who are trying to manipulate us in such way.

Let it go.

Whatever you decide, respect all women you go with. OK? Treat them well,be kind. Good luck.

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Stay strong ❣️

@icecoffee I'm a girl ????

@Recursoinominado legs up is the best position by far. Good choice.

He could at least asked you for sex. It would make him relax a little bit and let u go easier.

You can only let him go. He liked you but you didn't, so you can't have him anymore because you 2 don't want the same things. So it's better to let him go. It would be fair for him, he'll find a girl that he likes and more important a girl that likes him.