Salvijus

I want to attempt to say something useful even tho I didn't quite get what's the problem clearly. I think for a relationship to be successful one needs trust, honesty, respect, self-awareness, don't be a vampire, be the one who emimates joy instead trying to squeeze joy out of others. And maybe some other qualities that I can't think of right now aswell. Maybe if you cultivate these things, your capacity to connect with others will increase more and more. However that is still not a guarantee for finding a gf. But there can't be a healthy relationship without these qualities imo.

@Yimpa nice

Is this story legit? Lol

It depends how you view it. When you consider that everyone there has chosen to participate in the activity of their own free choice. When you can feel that everyone there is being treated with utmost respect, love, gratittude. When the atmosohere is full of brothethood and desire to make positive change in the world. Then it's the most beautiful thing. And anyways. Sadhguru himself is the biggest slave out there. Offering himself more than anyone else out there. We should be greatful for every person who serves The Whole without trying to serve their own little selfs

It could be a product of love, goodwill and many kindhearted people aswell who are willing to give their time, effort, resources to make something wonderful happen.

@Sugarcoat drill this into your head that you have the power to let go of the whole universe. Especially fear(self preservation) driven bahvior. Regain your POWER woman. "Powerrr, power is goo_ood Ye ye Ye, Na na na Na na na Fuck yea" ~psalm of David.

@Sugarcoat IT'S NOT AUTOMATIC IT'S DRIVEN BY FEAR. (or self preservation like you call it) AND ALL FEAR CAN BE EMBRACED, SURRENDERED, MADE CONCIOUS. TRANSCENDED, MASTERED UGHHHHHH I'M SO PISSED LOL. NOOOOOOOoooooo

@Sugarcoat you're very intelligent and smart person and you write many insightful things. But since the day I remember you, you've always had funny ideas about no self from who knows where you get these ideas lol. But these need to be corrected because it's getting out of hand in ridiculous proportions.

I want to correct your understanding a bit. First. No action is automatic. All actions are driven by something. What is driving the action to resist the sinking? What is driving the desire to maintain the little self? I will give you a clue. It's fear. Second. You can 100% overcome it. You have all the power in the universe to go beyond all fear driven bahvior. Third. How? Simply by allowing. By becoming a master of allowance. Here's how it's done: 1. Become aware of fear and the resistance. YOU CAN DO THIS! 2. ALLOW that energy with open heart and opem arms. 3. Breathe and abide... 4. Done. You're healed. Peace is restored and fear no longer rules your mind. Amen.

But you say sinking down feels like hell. Isn't that an interpretation of experience? What if all events are neutral and we are the ones who give meaning and interpretation to the experience? And then experience our reality accordingly

I recently came across Bashar's teachings and I was surprised by what I found. He basically offers 5step formula to live your live that anybody can apply. And it makes a lot of sense. And I think you'd benefit from it. 1. Follow your passion by acting on it. 2. Do what mostly excites you at the moment (as synchronicity happen even in 'non-related' activities. 3. Act with no assumptions and drop any expectations. 4 No matter what happens, hold a positive state, because sometimes the answer comes and teach us by the principle of contrast. 5. Let go on all fear based and negative believes. ➡All this leads up to synchronicity skyrocketing More about this topic can be found here:

What if you simply stopped interpreting your experience and say I have no idea what's going on. But I don't have to know. I can simply abide in peace.

Energy of Desire comes from one place and one place only. From God. Ego can only corrupt that energy for its own selfish purposes. But it's the maker of it.

It's time for a superhero to come and save the day. Hohoho. Here I am. Honestly tho, I think if you were to stop interpreting what's happening, the horror would be over. It is the ego that makes all things dramatic. Pure spirit sees all things as perfectly neutral. I would say put aside the seriousness. Laugh a bit. Watch the joke I sent before. Enjoy the weather. Remind yourself life is good and benevolent.:) because that's the truth. Everything else are made up fantasy stories. If yout take those fantasies too seriously you may end up a santa claws superhero aswell.

Heard Bashar say that there will be a major contact with alians in 2026-2027. Hmm. Let's see:)

This joke is tailor made for for you

I realized now you probably meant transcending preferences. Preferences are impossible to transcend. A human soul has a preference for truth, love and God. And it cannot be transcended or altered. Do what you want. A soul will eternally is going to long for freedom. For infinity. A human soul longs to be as it was created to be. An extension of God's love. An extention of God's will. And therefor an enlightened mind's behavior is 100% biased to be a servent of God's will. A servant of Love. And it is so by the Law. Nothing can be done about it. Have to go now. Will reply later.

It's the same thing in my dictionary. To make a distinction one has to dicern the difference between two objects. And to comprehend a concept means to make it distinct from other concepts. Idk. For me these twe two words are the same.

Yea. I hear what you're saying. I think it depends. As an example. Are you trying to help someone to lose weight because you can't stand that your kid is overweight and you force him to do sports. Or are you genuinely want your kids to be healthy. And to use insults as a means to inspire your kids to be healthy... Mm.... Smells sketchy. I mean in theory such approach is possible. But I find it hard to imagine. Those who use insults to inspire others to become healthy usually have a disdain for unhealthyness. But in theory it's possible. Just unlikely I think. Someone who wants to help someone to lose weight out of love would not use such insult based approach imo. Unless it's a very very conscious being. Like a zen master. When I used the word discernment I meant like. Discerning a table from a cup. Without discernment skills of the mind. One wouldn't even know what's food, what's dirt. Survival would be impossible. Discernment skills should not be transcended. These should be sharpened as much as possible.

They don't coexist in any way. They are in total contradiction to each other. They cancel each other out. There's either acceptence or rejection. Love or fear. God or ego. Truth or falsity. Light or darkness. Knowledge or ignorance. Joy or suffering. Forgiveness or resentment. And the more you have of one the less you will have of the other. You can't have them both at the same time. That's why the ultimate conclusion is. Once full acceptence has come, ego(resistance) is no more. It's 1+1=2 logic. Mind cannot be in full acceptance and full resistance at the same time. Because they cancel each other out. What you're describing is not a enlightened fully liberated mind. You're describing someone who has had an experience when some part of the mind became free of judgements, free of resistance. But mind has many layers and other layers can still be full of judgement. Full of ego. Hence such a one cannot be called fully enlightened yet. Maybe partialy enlightened. Just a glimpse of enlightenment is nothing.

Dicernment is a useful skill for survival. But condemnation is not a mental skill. It's just a desire to kill what we believe has no right to exist. One who has come to terms with the entire creation doesn't lose dicernment skills of the mind. But such one will lose all desire to condemn any part of existence.

In other words. Mind can be free of judgements or not yet free of judgements. You can't have a mind that is free of judgments and still have judgements and then be accepting of these judgements. It sounds clever but such case cannot exist. Only two possible cases can exist. Mind free of judgments. Mind not yet free of judgements.

Uuuh that's clever. But by the time somebody abides in perfect acceptance of everything. That being no longer experiences judgement arising in his/her mind. Such a one can experience a display of judgment and condemnation in other people and accept them for being judgemental but such energies no longer manifest in the one who abides in perfect embrace and acceptance.

Maybe it's a sensitive subject for somebody

The only appropriate way to judge reality is to see everything as beautiful, holy and wholy worthy of God's love forever. Anything other than that is a condemnation. "An attempt to kill what we believe has no right to exist"