Salvijus

Reducing people to biology only is a problem. The role of a human being first and foremost is to be a unique expression of the devine. Everything else is secondary.

One who is free does not demand anyone to be any way in particular. Nor sees it as a problem when someone is acting in a way you believe is not acting according to the role , you ascribed them.

Maybe trying to forget that person is a mistake. Keep your love for her and all the good memories inside yourself. Wish her well on the path and let her go. Maybe that sort of attitude would be healthier. Not that I even read the thread thoroughly lol, sorry.

Complaining that someone doesn't fit into the role you want them to play, is to hold them back from their unique expression. It's a problem rooted in ego in the end.

Trying to place people into roles and catagories is a prison you place on them. Prison is not anyone's place. Freedom to be a unique expression of the devine is what your place is.

Good choice 🙏

Bruh. Worrying about body parameters every second is a fear based motivation. That's not how Joy lives life.

Calling it negative is your projection. You could simply see it as an alternative view point that arguably makes sense.

You're welcome

Living in constant worry about your weight is unhealthy in a different kind of way.

Iron steel conviction right there 👍

You'd be healthier without the ring than with it is the whole paradox. Not that checking your parameters is not useful once in a while. But this form of constant monitoring is counter productive, for reasons that are subtle and hard to explain. Or I'm just lazy to go into details of it. But nvm, everything is fine in the end.

I guess I could summerize my philosophy into this. You say this will help you to be healthier. But constantly tracking the parameters of your body is the unhealthy attitude. It's when you forget about the body and you forget about yourself that you find joy and that is when your body functions at its peak.

Idk, can't think of anything right now. It's hard for me personally to justify buying a ring like that when I wouldn't even use a ring like that for free.

I can smell that energy of being under the advertisement effect from you. I've bought lots of shit I didn't need under that energy myself. But we all make mistakes and learn the hard way sometimes.

This sounds like me being super excited about buying an expensive juicer, using it for two days and then forgetting about it for years. I think you should prioritize something else to buy. Something much more important.

I use ghosts

By estimating it

Prayer of St. Francis. 😭

Questions like that are like running on a hamster wheel. It doesn't lead to anything, nor is there an answer that would settle all the questions. Every answer just rises more questions. Mind is eternally confused by its very nature.

Lol "what do I truly want?" every heart will yield to this question if one sits with it conciously. No one is an exception.

Not as much maybe as men. Especially intellectuals. There are many levels to listening to your heart tho. It's rare to see somebody do it at a very deep level including women.

Not to be offensive but these are the most useless questions ever. The only question you should worry about is "what do I truly want?" lock yourself in a closet and sit with this question until you know.

It's impossible to be confused if you listen to your heart. Heart simply knows. It's because you're stuck in the mind that you're confused. And you're stuck in mind because you believe your thoughts are important.

I'm a little bit hindu aswell. Because of sadhguru lol.