Salvijus

Hm ~ chuckles ~ not bad :]

~ Sigh ~... You would benefit from making your attitude straight in life first imo. So it would be more in alignment with God and truth. Otherwise all endeavor made from the false attitude can only bring more suffering, not less. A prayer I felt inspired to share for some reason. And if I shall happen to confront the darkness.. Which i'm sure by now, I will... let me have the power in me... to walk on through, to hold it still... don't, don't let me fall from grace... just to feel the wind, the wind upon my face... teach me that the peace... Is all a happy man would ever need... oh just keep me where... keep me where... keep me where... keep me where... the light is... oh where the light is.... keep me where the light is... oh let me sing this prayer...

Many people have this thing called "being a people pleaser" and the fear of looking "unfriendly". Especially among friends this pressure not to upset anyone's apple cart is common. One has to be really rooted and sensitive to what their true heart's will is to be able stand up against these type of influences. (btw I wasn't responding to the quote, I was just using it to express some thoughts)

Thoughts have to become energy Prayer has to become your breath Worship and praise have to become your vision. The attitude of giving has to replace self-grasping Virtue has to become your garment Love needs to be recognized as the only true desire. Love is the only engine that runs all things in perfect wisdom and harmony. Love alone is real, everything else is a projection, a dream, hallucination. Seeing perfect sinlessness and holiness in your brothers salvages you from the dream of illusions. This is where the loving thoughts and the reality of love become one and the same. Hallelujah

Nah I was joking. This place is as good as it gets imo.

This place is okay if you just avoid all the advaita bears, solipsists, drug abusers, incels/redpillers, religious fanatics, mentally unstable people, 'enlightened' ones, weird creepy lurkers. Oh wait... Nevermind 😅

There are dark forces and the forces of light, and you are the battleground This applies to everyone tho. But especially for you right now it seems. My advice would be just double down on what you truly want, on honesty, on willingness to follow God's will, on the angelic support and light and you'll make this process much easier for yourself.

Idk, you sound like a chick magnet to me. My belief is that if you follow your life purpose you're meant to follow, you will cross paths with someone who you're meant to be with and it will be the right person for you. I can't prove this but that's something I believe in. Aligning yourself with your true purpose in life is the trickiest part. Because there is so much push and pull to do random shit that society expects you to do but is not actually what you're supposed to be doing. That's how people end up chasing fool's gold all their life. Rather than worrying about getting laid, worry about your life purpose and whoever is supposed to accompany you on your journey will naturally be with you. I believe there is no alternative here even. Because if you invest time in being with someone you're not meant to be with, it's just the same suffering with extra steps. It's not going to bring the fulfillment you're looking for.

Just go. It will be good for you. Otherwise you'll carry that fear and everything that's behind that fear on your shoulders all your life. A part of you wants to expand and be free, that's why you registered there. Give importance to that voice that is pulling you in that direction and ignore the voice of fear that is blocking your authentic desires to be made manifest. Love over fear is always wisdom.

I bet you regret starting that thread about vegetables by now

Genitals are not just what's between your legs. Genitals are also in your brain, psychology, neurology, blood chemistry, energy system, in your emotions, for some people even in their food choices. Genitals are everyhere. Don't underestimate how much influence they have over you. Enlightened one is neither a dick or a pussy but master of both

I hope I didn't scare too many seekers here, lol. In the attempt to make soften the blow, I'll repeat something, it's not about castrating the balls. It's about transcending the influence balls have on you. So that you're not ruled by them, rather you're ruled by higher intelligence, your true self. There... I think this should make things better

To care about the environment and well-being of others is a feminine quality. Naturally females have more of it by design. It's not an accident and it's not social conditioning that there are more females in gardening and babysitting. If you saw a male in these positions, he'd probably be a very feminine guy. How can you not make this connection? It's all about your genitals. Cut the man's balls, and all his pride and arrogance will fly out the window. That's how much it affects your personality. You're a nobody without your balls. At the same time, when you're no longer self obsessed, naturally you begin to think and feel and care about the outside more. (That's also why women tend to be less arrogant/alpha aswell btw.) You could say, enlightenment is a metaphysical castration of your balls (ego). Or at least you're transcending the influence the balls have on you. Balls, balls, balls.

God's needs What you have to figure out is if helping them is of service to God or is it just pampering their egos. There are times when turning your back on someone will force them to take responsibility for their lives. And that's the best thing you can do for them. And there are times where God wants you to help them actively because that's what's most beneficial for you both. You're not going to figure out what is the right thing to with your intellect. You have to pray like a madman. And the heart will tell you what is the right thing to do.

"Do drugs like there's no tomorrow" this kind of attitude will bite you in the ass pretty bad lol.

This is good observation

That's what I'm trying to say. Your homeostasis is just getting worse.

That's how people end up in psych wards.

That's cool that you picked that up. I didn't make that connection.

But you're failing already.

How did you know he/she is tripping? I thought this person is just going mad @Keryo Koffa I agree with Arabia. You're losing touch with reality slowly. But on psychedelics you may interpret that as if you're exploring new terrains. You need to ground yourself and get back to normal senses.

Men are dicks in military aswell. Everyone is busy there comparing who's the biggest dick in a group. Only if a man goes beyond his genital obsession and ascends more into the heart space will we see men caring about their environment and others well-being. Which comes easier for women in general because they don't have all that much testestorone energy running in them and are more in the heart just by design. That's basically the answer in a nutshell.

Men are dicks. Literally

That's where meditation and spirituality comes into play in order to become aware of your true desires and true your true thoughts, your authentic self, your authentic path in life. And what is foreign to you like a mind virus floating around. Otherwise you'll be a victim of a virus your whole life. Even getting laid will not solve the root problem that is causing this confusion and pain. Sexuality is not even the only area where this virus is affecting your life in a negative way. Absolutely every part of your life can be hijacked by this virus and suffocate your soul into a deep dark pit. That's the main thing to be wary of imo. Everything else is not that important. Once you follow your true path and your authentic self. You can't escape but live the most magical and wonderful life God meant for you to have.

Funny how that works, isn't it.