Salvijus

We have 1month left to live. Better make use of this time ?

I agree with a title. But your explanation is not a 100% solid

What a funny share I don't know what I'm saying here but if it was me who cried and failed, i would not give too much importence to it Whatever comes up naturally in any life situation is fine according to your present level of awareness and maturity, that's the way you act. The way you reacted in that situation was enough. Allow these emotions to find expression. You can't do anything about it anyways Emotions arise, let them come, and don't make a big deal out of it. Accept that you're not equipt to deal with stressful situations yet As you grow spiritually, your behavior will change naturally, you don't need to think about this. Don't turn this experience into a techneque. Like okey, next time someone screams at me I'll ignore them, or I'll stay positive. No... It's best if you don't know how you will react next time. When situation comes you'll find yourself acting in a certain way by itself, unforced and that way will be most appropriate way for you. What is the best way to act for somebody, maybe is not at all appropriate way to act for you. What is best for you will happen spontaniously if you don't gather any techneques in your pocket.

That's the problem. You're acting out of the intelect, not out of intelligence. Trying to come up with techneques how to be with people will not work. Life is spontanious. If you're spontanious and act according to life situations you'll flow, if you're full of conclusions and techneques you'll crash.

What are you trying to achieve? Nice share btw

Passion for others, disspasion for yourself. That's the key to accepting yourself.

I would avoid psychiatrists. They will only mess him up even more. They don't know anything about such matters. Does he use psychedelics?

Okey I will. Go to a vippassana retreat. There's no other way to learn it. It's a subtle practice with subtle instructions. This practice needs to be delivered and received in a proper way for it to be effective.

By your advise it's obvious you have no idea what vippassana is. And by the questions that @FredFred is asking it's also obvious that he never went to vippassana. Those who went there would never ask such stupid questions. And those who went there would never give such an advise to ignore. Ignore is good. But it's a totally different practice then what vippassana is all about. He's asking how to do vippassana and you give him advise on a totally different techneque. It's like i ask how to do self-enquiry and somebody gives me an advise just focus on your breathing. Watching breath is fine but that's not what I asked for.

Just say no

I'm guessing you haven't went through vippassana retreat aswell

Have you done vippassana retreat?

It's good that you're aware of it. Awareness alone is curative But if you want to solve this faster. Start worshipping her. In your mind or in real life just bow down to her with a certain sweetness of emotion. You can do this everyday.

@LoveandPurpose it's helpful to look at this situation this way. Your buisness is just to spread the message of truth. How people gonna respond is not your buisness. You just shine truth as sun is shining, who benefits from it is up to them It's kind of like doing good things without expectating any results. Simply a series of good actions, without expectations Idk if this is relevent here

Women like that are not going to lack appreciation, that's for sure

@Shir I think the saying "play hard to get" comes from the same psychology as "don't be desperate" For me, a women who is devoted to some form of spirituality, who holds truth as a highest priority in her life is spiritual for me

I like that quote Tho i don't like that statement life is suffering. At least my life is definitely okey. But i understand how one would come to that conclusion.

@LoveandPurpose loool. Still respect for doing this even if it went bad

"How to become an alpha male?" By becoming a retard.

It's not a myth. I lived in netherlands where people take drugs like water. I heard many stories were people ended up in asylum from LSD. My vippassana teacher said the same thing when I asked him what he thinks of psychedelics. My close friend recently started experimenting with psychedelics. I can't recognize him. He's nuts and paranoic. He thinks everyone is following him. He's having visions and hallusinations. I myself tried AL-lad and i was able to see blue color on white ceilings. Now i can do that without any drugs. Thank god i didn't see some weird LSD hallusinations where I see demons. Imagine if I had to experience hallusinations everyday now. No thank you. Benefits of taking psychedelics - 0 except for potential emotional release Risk for damage - 100. Even if you don't become crazy. You'll still pay the price somewhere. Something will brake inside.

@Leo Gura sorry. Don't start crying about a simple argument which I thought would bring lots of clarity and an interesting new perspectives that nobody thought of. I was just sharing something very valuable here.

@Leo Gura please listen and stop calling nirvana and 5meo enlightenment the same thing. I'm not questioning that 5meo gives you extreme nondual infinity consciousness. What I'm saying and what every master says and what @Arhattobe and @KrackJack says that nirvana is about dissolving karma. It seems to me you are not clear about what it means to dissolve karma. Karma is lifetimes of memories that are created by impressions and are distorting your reality every moment of your life. Even your nondual experience is being distorted by karma. Sadhguru says. When you see the world without any distortions. Then you'll see everything upside down. Because if you know physics that's how eye captures a sight. Then the brains turn it upside down to make it sense to you. So there's a 10000lifetimes of karma which is distorting your experience. The ultimate goal is Mukti, nirvana is far beyond nondual state of consciousness. Because in nondual state of consciousness there's still emormous amounts of karma there which will make you reincarnate again and again. All the actions and reactions that you have. All the likes and dislikes that you have during your 5meo experience. It's all karma that needs to be dissolved in oder to get to nirvana. And nirvana means dissolving all karma. Cease to exist. perfect equanimity. Uninfluened ultimate persepction. and leaving your body unless you know how to stay a bit longer. After you reach a state of no karma. You can't remain in the body. Because karma is the only thing that keeps you here. Saying that only kriya yogis know how to stay in the body when they dissolve all karma makes 100% sense to me. Because their knowledge about how human system works is far beyond all the other paths like devotion people. Kriya yogis know all the tricks of the body and know how to remain there even if there's no karma left.

Simple kriya called Isha Kriya that takes 15min. There's an app for this meditation.

Through Yoga. Yoga means union, Yoga means to yoke yourself with life. And Life IS Intelligence. What you're asking is how to connect with life. How to move in harmony with life. That's the definition of intelligence. Intelligence doesn't belong to us. We can only be in harmony with it. Also there are no techneques to be creative. Your level of consciousness, your sensitivity, your skills and how flexible you're are descides what you create. Basicly if you're a creative person after some time you will realize you're creating things in circles. According to what data you have in your mind that you will create. It's extremly apparat when someone does improvization. To escape the one's repetetive nature. if you want to come up with something new. You need to break your karma. Which you probably never heard of. But that's the answer to creating something new - is to break the old cycles in you which is karma.

I can't believe I watched the whole thing. Really draws my attention that Yang