Salvijus

I understand that a healthy relationship may require certain boundaries and commitments. But I'm saying why do you care if other people are not following those things? Because it bothers only you it seems.

Let the relationship crumble. What does it matter.

Because it doesn't matter what people do.

We are in the same situation right now. But for some reason only you feel deeply disturbed by all this.

Doesn't bother me at all. It's something personal to you. The real problem is within you, not outside.

Even if you finally crack the code and fully understand the psychology of why women did what they did, what will you do with it? Are you just looking for reasons to judge them? I liked the full comment more 😄

"It feels good when everyone likes you" That would be my guess. Sugarcoat is probably right aswell.

Lol. Smart but creepy

I love this quote about arrogance I heard long ago. There are three types of arrogance. 1. Thinking I'm better than others 2. Thinking I'm worse than others 3. Thinking I'm equal to others. Good luck understanding the last two, haha.

Congrats. The system will adjust by itself in a few days or weeks.

Close mindedness is a lack of honesty. And lack of honesty is arrogance. I'm gonna say close mindedness and arrogance are the same thing. There is no close mindedness without arrogance. And there is no arrogance without close mindedness. Both close mindedness and arrogance stem from the same source - lack of honesty. Interesting question tho.

This type of relationship only works if the husband relates to the wife as what she truly is - an incarnation of God in a feminine form and feels eternally grateful for everything that she does for him. Otherwise it's a recipe for slavery and abuse.

Ego is but a belief in seperation which does not exist. To see others as something less than God's unique expression is to abuse them on a basis of a lie. The option to live in accordance with truth is available to everyone even on earth

The reality that you're of God, a unique expression of the devine is true while you're on earth aswell. It's true always. And it's the only truth there is. So why not see this truth in every person? To reduce them to mere biology is abuse based on a lie.

Truth is true always. Acceptance of anything else besides truth is suffering. Nothing can stop you to live this life in harmony with the truth. It's a choice everyone can make for themselves.

Nobody should try to dominate anyone. It has nothing to do with women.

If you want to be ignorant and suffer, yes. If you want to live conciously, in joy and in harmony with the truth, then it's the other way around.

When you say "somebody should know their place" you should remember that their place is in infinite love and creativity and freedom. Then you'll be right.

Reducing people to biology only is a problem. The role of a human being first and foremost is to be a unique expression of the devine. Everything else is secondary.

One who is free does not demand anyone to be any way in particular. Nor sees it as a problem when someone is acting in a way you believe is not acting according to the role , you ascribed them.

Maybe trying to forget that person is a mistake. Keep your love for her and all the good memories inside yourself. Wish her well on the path and let her go. Maybe that sort of attitude would be healthier. Not that I even read the thread thoroughly lol, sorry.

Complaining that someone doesn't fit into the role you want them to play, is to hold them back from their unique expression. It's a problem rooted in ego in the end.

Trying to place people into roles and catagories is a prison you place on them. Prison is not anyone's place. Freedom to be a unique expression of the devine is what your place is.

Good choice 🙏

Bruh. Worrying about body parameters every second is a fear based motivation. That's not how Joy lives life.