Salvijus

Dude, all addictions are the same and the solution to all of the addictions is the same. Purge your mind and body. But you need proper tools for that, find those tools and just purge yourself. It's that simple. ?

@zazen okey okey, ? you made some good points. I agree, socializing is great and can be beautiful could be healthy also, but pick up is different. It's like a game you play to get laid, that what's lame and low conciousness about it. If people focued on how to build strong, lasting, loving solid relationship, I would say bravo!. But when people say how to make a woman sleep with you because you can't hold your dick in your pants for 1week. I just go facepalm ? ?

I think I get it now. I'm addicted to drama, lol. I don't even care what you guys do or don't do ? Sorry, regards ?

There's nothing "survival" about pick up. It's just feeding and indulging the apeish low conciousness tendencies. Instead of giving advice how to be a successful ape, a wise being enourages people to move and transend their apeness. Where true wellbeing lies. P.s. of course relationships can be beautiful and high conscious thing. But pick up is different. ?

And you can't learn relationships by going out and hitting on women all the time. A successful relationship is a consiquence of a mutual acceptence and respect. If you become an inclusive, loving person all your relationships will become successful (except for a few cases). You can’t achieve this through party club housing. Only through consciouness work when you achieve some union within yourself, then you will be able to connect with people effortlessly. You think echkart tolle did lots of pick up to end up so social and anxiety free? The only thing you will learn through these pick up games is how to manipulate and pretend to be a great guy for a few days. Basicly a good actor you will become. No meaningful relationship will last on such a weak basis. You'll just get laid and that will be the end of the relationship. Unless that's all you want. Which has its own problems long term... I don't where I'm going with this nor why I'm writing this. Stay well ?

Boys, just focus on your spiritual growth, everything else is secondary and will happen according to how evolved you are. Your state of consciouness will decide how the world around you will look like and how successful you are, and relationships, everything... To give pick up advice is like encouraging apes to be better at apeing. To be better at apeing will not make you happy, maybe it will make you more acceptable among apes and fulfill your apeish desires but you will still remain an ape, even if you become the best ape in the world, you're still an ape, which is the core problem of all the problems. If you want happyness you need to come out of your apeness by investing your time and energy into your spiritual evolution. Make sense or no? Who cares. Do whatever lol ? ?

I think it also points to the way of christianity and the way of inclusion. To include and to love the entire world with a wide spread arms, what does it mean? It means death. That's what cruxifiction means. It's symbolic. Once you accept everything, you'll die and become one with god and go acension. Also the pain of cruxifiction is when somebody takes the role of a messiah or a savior or a guru. A christian savior's role is to go into the world with wide open arms and full christ love and basicly absorb all the toxins of the people, to carry their burdens even if it kills your body. To include all the demons into your heart to heal them and to show compassion to them. This act of including a negative energy with love, transforms the negative energy into positive energy and uplifts humanity but it also harms your body. That's why this cross simbolism and the saying "Jesus died for your sins" is so accurate. Amen ✝

@gettoefl ?

The only way to achieve mental balance and health is through meditation, yoga, qiqong and spiritual dicipline. This takes time, it won't happen overnight. Psychedelics, nootropics, anti-depressants, coffee, meds, weed, microdoasing etc. All that stuff will make things worse and more difficult for you. This is a decent video I found in another thread worth watching. Decent mental health takes time to attain to, if you're really struggling, the short-term solution to achieve mental balance is to surround yourself with other people, like friends, family, therapists, coworkers etc. When people gather together everybody become more stable and better for no reason. To be alone and to be mentally stable takes a lot of spiritual maturity. ?

@gettoefl that would imply that he's already a very intense seeker. And the thing is, doing 10 days in a retreat setting has many benefits that you wouldn't get at home setting. There's much more to a retreat like vipassana than meets the eye. The energy is also very supportive for meditation. And the level of dedication and commitment that is in the air is also very helpful. To do a solo 10d retreat is probably 10x times harder than doing it in a retreat setting. There are few people capable to meditate 10d straight at home. But in a vipassana retreat even begginers are able to pull it off. That's the value of these retreats. Plus the collective energy from all the meditators in the atmosphere does 50% of the job for you which is also great.

Good enough, but nothing beats a 10day vippasana course. You'd be blown away with inspiration for meditation ? ?

Lol.

Well going to the retreat is probably a number 1 thing you could do. They will fuel you with intense seeking and inspiration if you attend like a yoga program or smth like that also works. Another way is to simply find some videos that you like, like I used to do with mooji videos. And just listen and meditate upon it. It kept me going for a very long time. More engaging also. ?

@mandyjw lol, I've never been so confused in my life before ? I'll just say sorry for everything I did and let's just leave it at that, okey? ? Regards ?

Ahh ? I didn't get any of it. But I sensed a lot of sarcasm or smth ? Sorry, if you care, try saying it again, maybe I'll reply something to you ?

Tarot and astrology is pretty lame, you can drop them. Gay fantasies you'll just have you accept, there's nothing you can do about it ? I didn't give much thought into this, so it's better you don't take my advice seriously ??

I'm just telling how it is. Sorry, I didn't mean to insult. ?

Yes, god alone exists. But not every form embodies god to the same degree. Everyone here on this forum is a retard myself included when it comes to embodiment. Only one who embodies god fully can be called a liberated being and awake. Having temporary peak experiences get you nowhere unless they are embodied. There's a point I'm trying to make here that you need to continue working on yourself further to embody higher levels of consciouness. Only then will somebody will recognize you as awake. Otherwise you say you're god but all I see is a retard, so what's the point of such a achievement? Understanding you're god means nothing existencially. It's just in your head. Regards ?

+1 Everybody is a god. Stop making such a fuss about it. The important thing is not to realize that, but to embody that. How many people here have embodies god consciouness into their daily lives? Zero. Might as well keep quiet and go work on rising your consciouness. ?

The question is not stupid. But exploiting prostitutes is. Does that even need to be elaborated? These women are the most miserable lot, selling their soul and diggnity, abandoning their hopes to have a nice and happy, joyful, serene life and basicly just going to hell and torture within themselves everyday and for what? Just to earn a few bucks and fulfill a stupid apeish men's desires. Those women are being brainwashed and manipulated everyday by "psychologists" to do the job and keep them from going mentally insane, those women don't do it volunteringly out of joy and love for disgusting men, those women are just victims of a toxic society, fear of survival, and brainwashing. No happy woman would ever do such a job. Do you really want to be a guy who contributes to this toxic cycle and contributes to this women suffering just to get laid? The price is there for both parties men and women. And the price is not worth it. There's no amount of pleasure on this earth worth going to hell for. It's simple. But you need to stop thinking with your dick to see it. ?

Yeah, so what. I don't care whether he existed or not. What I sayed was: we're all retarded and stupid to different degrees, those who overcome their ignorance fully are buddhas. I didn't mean Gautama the historical entity, I meant a liberated being. Buddha is just another name for someone who is not a retard. ? Sorry I don't know why this conversation is happening it seems kinda going in circles about nothing ? Regards, ?

The whole society is damaged. And these things like going to prostitutes only makes the collective world situation worse. Either you're a part of the problem, or you're a part of the solution. Don’t be a part of a problem if you can, that would be a wise thing to do. ?

Well I don't know any stories about buddha. I just know that people say there was a guy without a single spot of ignorance. And they gave him a name "Buddha" because of that. So, what's your point? I'm having a hard time following what are we talking about ? ?

Is this a trick question? ? Idk, maybe. ?

Another way of saying this: we are all retarded to different degrees. One who is fully not retarded is a Buddha ?