Salvijus

Maybe a one day fast would help? And if you're a meat eater, mb u could try eliminating meat for a period of time.

Your situation is missing context but i will try to make a blind guess. My guess is. Probably you're holding yourself back a lot when communicating. Due to insecurites or fears or whatnot.

It means to experience some sense of union and embrace between to people. Where two people are no longer defensive, pretentious, no mask, no nothing. Just trust, vulnerability, openess, and allowence. When you meet a person you feel that you can totally trust and be open with. You become vulnerable, and it leads to intimacy, "nakedness" so to speak, then the joy of union is born and usually it's called love chemistry. Or deep friendship chemistry. I think that would be my definition of connectedness. And the reson laughter and jokes work well to connect with people bc it opens people up. It makes them drop their guard down. To become vulnerable. It fosters trust. Without these things no connection is possible. Suspiciousness, doubt, waryness, fear, is what pushes people away and create boundaries to feel safe. But it also isolates us. Love brakes all boundaries and love is what connects us in the end.

Maybe you wish to give ayurveda a try?

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Nooooo ? Love u bro. ❤

Profound

Your phylosophy is basicly impossible to understand the way you articulated it. And it seems your understanding of what the books is trying to say is also faulty

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Brutal honesty would've sounded like this. "Nooo ? this goes against my understanding i can't digest such ideas, noooooūoo!"

It's called giving and receiving in christianity. The more you give, the greater the stream of love flows through you.

One would need to learn to enter the flow of love by oneself first. Then learning to abide there while relating to others moment to moment is whole other level. It's a serious spiritual practice. The amount of self-awareness needed to pull this off is not a joke. Having an erection while talking to women is not enough to become a Christ lol.

Well i just wanted to share how to tap into that energy of appreciation. And explain how sexual energy and arousal energy is a big source of energy that can be transformed into pure love and appreciation if rised upwards with enough awareness. Theory is good. But this is an actual practical method i shared tought in tantra and how to become Christ.

Oooh. Profound

There's no real answer to this. You can’t turn any person into your lounge chair. Life doesn't work like that. Best you can do is trancend all attachments to relationships and people. That way reality won't hurt you that much. And you'll be able to enjoy the presence of each person much more in your life, and wish them well when they leave.

@CARDOZZO there's a tip that probably that book of yours doesn't mention. When you see a woman, probably the first thing that will arise will be arousal. If you're aware of that energy and allow yourself to be overtaken by it completely. It will transform into appreciation and love. Which is not lustfull, but simply appreciative. Then act from that place. Speak from that place, gaze from that place and you'll be a walking Christ. Or whatever it is that your book callls it. "Perfect lover" You can do the same flowers then.

You might as well read a book on how to become enlightened Christ with unconditional love. Bc you're speaking about the same thing probably unknowingly

Say goodbye to your masculinity haha. No no, just joking...keep up your practice?

Nice. I actually resonate with this to my own surprise. "A man who loves women has no desire to take anything from, yet would share everything" Profound. I would add love without attanchment. Not only women will fall for you, but all people men, women, children, old people everyone will want to be in your presence. Bc it radiates acceptence, upliftment, joy. But... it all sounds good in theory. But do you actually know how to get there?

"Loving women with all your heart" what does that even mean? You know some saints in india would bow down to every woman and touch their feet in gratitude and worship them/regard them/treat them as a goddess. Ramakrishna Paramahansa used to do that i heard. Come to think of it that's not such a bad practice.

Haha, yea i know what you mean : )

If everyone was included, love would prevail and love does not toxify. It uplifts, inspires and creates harmony and beautiful things. The root of all toxicity is ego, the opposite of love. And in fact. Making people work for approval is already toxic.

But why would you hold back your love? The moment you disapprove of someone, you're the one who is seperated from the feast.