Salvijus

Say goodbye to your masculinity haha. No no, just joking...keep up your practice?

Nice. I actually resonate with this to my own surprise. "A man who loves women has no desire to take anything from, yet would share everything" Profound. I would add love without attanchment. Not only women will fall for you, but all people men, women, children, old people everyone will want to be in your presence. Bc it radiates acceptence, upliftment, joy. But... it all sounds good in theory. But do you actually know how to get there?

"Loving women with all your heart" what does that even mean? You know some saints in india would bow down to every woman and touch their feet in gratitude and worship them/regard them/treat them as a goddess. Ramakrishna Paramahansa used to do that i heard. Come to think of it that's not such a bad practice.

Haha, yea i know what you mean : )

If everyone was included, love would prevail and love does not toxify. It uplifts, inspires and creates harmony and beautiful things. The root of all toxicity is ego, the opposite of love. And in fact. Making people work for approval is already toxic.

But why would you hold back your love? The moment you disapprove of someone, you're the one who is seperated from the feast.

Nothing is a hindrance to your acceptance.

See... awareness is always there perfect. But your discernment between what is awareness and what is mind stuff can be cultivated and refined to a higher and higher levels. As this discernment increases, ability to penetrate the deeper layers of ego increases. As you clean the ego, the Self shines ever more brightly

Hmmmmm.. there's some truth to it. But it's more complex and nuanced then this. At least i think we all can agree that there is stuff we are not concious of. And there is potential in us to become concious of that stuff.

That is when you will find the fullfilment you always were looking for but in silly ways that won't get u anyhere

God is not going to support your desires that come from ego and suffering. He is only going to become active when you chose love

@at_anchor God is waiting for you to say yes to him. It's not that hard. A smigen of willingness to make a new choise is all takes:)

Nobody wants to be push around, everyone longs to be included

A sage rules by embracing not by conquering. Thus, people don't feel supressed but uplifted

With a bit of grace and support from god it's possible. But you have to make yourself available to it first. And it happens when you turn to your most authentic desire. A desire that does not come from sadness and sorrow, but a desire that opens your body wide open and fills you with rays of hope, trust, aliveness, radience, inspiration, sense of connectidness and grace. By saying yes to that desire, you say yes to god. And when you say yes to god, god cannot fail you, because you are his offspring that he forever loves and takes care of.

Look deeper. There is a deeper desire deep down that you're not fully aware of.

Not sure i understood the question but you can learn to transmit and extend this Light to others. It's what gurus call a blessing.

How much support and blessings you receive depends on how open and receptive to god's grace are you. How open the channels of love and gratitude are in you. How powerfully the stream of Light and Glory is flowing through you. That's your answer.

Here, sayeth the Lord Inside your Heart

? i didn't see that coming

Btw if you were to put your awareness on that saddness and hold it, abide in it. The alchemy of transformation and healing would begin to take place. Sadness would get replaced by Light on its own. And then the next layer would pop up eventually. That's your starway to heaven.

Mmm.. It can be both. When the noise of the mind subsides it's easier to become aware of the subtle phenomena, "to get in touch with reality" as they say. But at the same time your ability to perceive subtle phenomena can be cultivated and refined to a higher and higher degree evermore. Ego or your subconcious mind has many layers, now your awareness has sinked a bit deeper and revealed a new layer of the subconcious and you became aware of sadness. Now suppose there are 1000 more layers like that deep inside you. Each one brings new level of healing, wisdom, relief, expansion, freedom, liberation, radience, an increased flow of energy and vitality etc. Basicly at the end of it all you'd be glowing and beaming like Jesus. That's the path in a nutshell.

"Increased awareness" would be a better way to call it. It can increase much more tho. So you become deeper and deeper aware of what the Truth that already is. This.

If you're avoiding it, in some way it is an unpleasent experience for you. That would be my guess. Perhaps you're not good at relationships and it causes you stress and tiredness or smth. Or you're afraid of intimacy. Or... there're probably many things that could couse unpleasentness in socializing

A devil would be fun