Salvijus

Regarding the body count topic. You can realize there's really no difference between a hug, an intimate eye gaze and sex. Perhaps reflecting on it could help you find some acceptance. But most people can't handle the idea that their partner is having a funny convo with an opposite sex. Let alone the other stuff

You can only lose this attachment and clinginess if you're drinking the fullfilment and love of god directly from the source. Then the need to cling to others is gone. Then you can be fully intimate and and loving with all beings and have no attachment to anyone. It sounds nice in theory but in practice good luck ever getting there. Tho it's possible.

Wow. That's really commendable. I heard this one could be problematic...

Oooh you're reading Quran. That's a pleasent surprise. I've never read it but I believe that holy books have mysterious power to influence lifes.

Wishing for miracles eh.. what kind of miracle are u expecting to happen?

good things do happen in life tho. It is better to keep oneself open so you don't end up rejecting god's gifts of life out of grumpiness, haha.

To have no self doubt. Could be bc of competence or stupidity or enlightenment (not caring about anything)

To netherlands? Lol

@at_anchor a soul can always move towards a brighter future no matter how dark his current situation is. A proper guidence, grace and support is available to you all the time. But it's up to you to begin to say yes to it.

Sorry, I meant the highest level of good life and bliss. Not christianity. My bad.

The link I gave offers online consultations btw.

You need new beliefs. Adopt ayurveda lifestyle and tips and guidence to have a healthy body and mind. And become familiar with a holy book of some sort to have a healthy soul and spirit. Your old beliefs are not of any value imo haha. Baby steps u can do it.

That's not how it works. The brightness of your future depends on the brightness of god that you've allowed yourself to replace the darkness in you. Allowing yourself to become a willing participant in god's work of "undoing the misery" is what your real task and focus should be. If you were living by the Law of god you'd be living in a Tahiti right now, not next life. You're not going to become wise and enlightened out of nowhere just by damaging the body. The circumstances you're living right now is a clever arrangement to force you to turn your mind around for you to begin to live by the Word of god. A virtuous life that is in alignment with the Laws of Heaven and Earth. So that the Father could bless you with his inheritance that you were meant to possess but squandered it by becoming enamored with the temptations of deathful, sloghtful, riotious living.

Ayurveda is begginer friendly. It will just examine your situation from more spiritual holistic nature's point of view and give you tips and herbs how to fix your health problems. Nice and easy. Simple stuff for good life.

@Sugarcoat :)

Oooh See... ?the power of heart's desire? Great list in general btw

https://liveayurprana.com/pages/practitioners

Not youtube. I'll share in pm rather

If you want i can share a deeply profound audio teaching on how to master communication tought by a certain enlightened master. If you’re into that.

Lol. Get yourself an ayurveda consultation already. Here's the link. https://liveayurprana.com/pages/practitioners

Dancing can help. By yourself in your room. To shake off all that stiffness, self-judgement, fearful, deeply rooted self-sabotaging patterns that block us from freely expressing ourselves. It becomes very clear how much of that we have when we begin to dance lol. And if one is crazy enough, you can try dancing with another person. When one becomes comfortable dancing with different people unprepared, most if not all socializing problems get solved i believe. Bc dancing and socializing is not any different really. Same energy. @jdc7733 this would probably apply to you aswell. Wow. I'm moved by this. That you would go this far to overcome those blocks.

Maybe a one day fast would help? And if you're a meat eater, mb u could try eliminating meat for a period of time.

Your situation is missing context but i will try to make a blind guess. My guess is. Probably you're holding yourself back a lot when communicating. Due to insecurites or fears or whatnot.

It means to experience some sense of union and embrace between to people. Where two people are no longer defensive, pretentious, no mask, no nothing. Just trust, vulnerability, openess, and allowence. When you meet a person you feel that you can totally trust and be open with. You become vulnerable, and it leads to intimacy, "nakedness" so to speak, then the joy of union is born and usually it's called love chemistry. Or deep friendship chemistry. I think that would be my definition of connectedness. And the reson laughter and jokes work well to connect with people bc it opens people up. It makes them drop their guard down. To become vulnerable. It fosters trust. Without these things no connection is possible. Suspiciousness, doubt, waryness, fear, is what pushes people away and create boundaries to feel safe. But it also isolates us. Love brakes all boundaries and love is what connects us in the end.

Maybe you wish to give ayurveda a try?