Salvijus

I'm not saying gaslighting doesn't exist. I'm saying truth is never gaslighting. In fact truth removes all gaslighting. It's antidote against all gaslighting.

@Nemra what is the definition of gaslighting for you?

honestly this is exciting because Nemra's intellect is so sharp. It's like mental jujitsu for me

I was not asking a question. I was making a point.

This is gaslighting me now. joking. I know what you mean. And I agree with you.

What's wrong with gaslighting if it's the truth?

There's no such thing. You can't gaslight anyone with the truth. Truth doesn't gaslight. It's just light

You don't have any rights already

Life is not about taking but about giving. There's nothing to take anyways. Nor is there anything the world could give you.

There's no family without a marriage. And there's no future without families. If everyone comes to the conclusion that marriage is a trap, humanity is either extinct, or will be very disfunctional and go extinct just because of the level of disfunctionality alone anyways. Look at the hidden conclusion that follows: If you think marriage is a trap, you're anti-life.

Mhm...

No. You probably interpreted what I wrote in a different context then what I meant.

Love is not something to brag about or show off with by telling everyone else how loving your are. It's something to quietly grateful for inside the temple of your heart.

@Jehovah increases You know, that love of yours that you're so proud of. If it can't prepare me a nice spaghetti. It's not very useful then...

It's nice that you're so loving. But if you going to be so flattered of yourself. It's going to get creepy.

Good for you

Uuuh romantic 😏

Muahahaaha

There would be more value in preaching a nice spaghetti recipe imo

@Jehovah increases it's been long since I saw you act like that. Brings back memories, lol

Even if it's true. What will you do with that information?

A concious way is to never turn your back on anyone. At the same time to never compromise your integrity to please different forms of ego's cries. If your integrity is solid, people who lack honesty, open mindedness, virtue will naturally fall way from your life and won't be able to stick around.

I think i was able to understand what you mean. If I "zone out" while staring at something in front of me in a broad manner. My vision becomes like a screenshot or a wallpaper. But I have to put effort to see things in such a way. It feels more like a trick of an eye tho rather than ego dissolution. Maybe you should check with an eye doctor

The words you're using to describe your experience are difficult to interpret for me. I'm trying to imagine maybe you're experiencing something like becoming more present. So that it feels like everything is more crispy, HD, and "slow" and spacious and static. That would be how a normal person describes ego dissolution

Your state of wellbeing could be indipendant of this weird phenomena.