Salvijus

And die yes. Then ressurect and ascend

"Stop figgiting, and you will float above the ocean"

"Disarm yourself and win every battle"

Here's what I want to share to really make it stick that I think flew over your head and didn't land properly. You probably have a version or a story inside your head why you are correct and others are wrong and that is hurting you. Choose not to defend yourself . And witness the healing of all this conflict happen

But you can do that in a day, or even faster, you don't need a big retreat or smth

Well it’s probably because you both found forgiveness somewhere inside. If you're withdrawing to go inwards and find forgiveness to every hurtful memory then I support that.

Maybe this one aswell ?

That's pretty much the gist of it

But this occasion feels different. Everyone wants to justify why their hurt and anger is justified. But remember the quote I wrote not long ago on my journal that took me yeaaars to really get it. "Know you're defending your ego whenever you're arguing for the correctness of your perseption" Rather become aware of the part of the mind that wants to label everyone who hurt you as morons and conciously descide not to defend yourself anymore. And you should discover a wider space within you that needs no protection. And sees all events as perfectly harmless

I would agree on some occasions.

I didn't get the second part But... I would say forgiveness is when you see all beings as perfectly guiltless and holy loved by god. It a way of overlooking their surface display of insanity and choosing to see with the eyes of love. It's about being aware in the midst of insanity and ego rampings that love is not affected in any way and turns not its back on anyone. Because when you turn your back on others, you are the one who becomes seperated from the feast

The conflict energy and disturbed emotions will get resolved only when you turn towards them with total vulnerability and allowence. Running away is just postponement of the problem.

Forgiveness need not have any limits. Because if you condemn others. You condemn yourself aswell. And there's no point in doing that

And you find that the ones that crucify you are actually the means for your salvation

You grow not by turning your back on others. You grow by facing another cheek even if injustices are done to you. The cheek of love and forgiveness.

Because only love can heal and only love can trancend all things.

But... as the scripture once sayed to me. "You cannot trancend what you don't embrace with your love"

Love cannot get hurt. Love laughs at such things and embraces it with a smile and gives back only compassion to the ones that are offended by your presence. Only ego gets hurt. You're defending the wrong guy.

"Turn our back on others in the attempt to make them feel sorry."

It's like when a child decides to no longer talk to her parents or best friend because her feelings got hurt and now she decides to turn her back on them in the attempt to make hurt them or take revenge.

"How many times have we tried to withdraw our love in the attempt to hurt someone?" ?

Wow, nice... something. Nice response:)

True true This. Takes time to cultivate the necessary capacity to do it tho.

Holy scriptures are not just concepts and theories and interpretations. It's about Grace and the Words of Truth that carry a certain influence that is way beyond just the intelectual entertainment. Such books have metaphysical properties that stimulate the opening and healing of the heart. It plants seeds of awakening. It purifies the mind. And it is a way, a portal so to speak, through which one can tap into certain states of consciouness, and make a connection with certain beings to receive their grace, support and guidence. Such tools for transformation deserve to be honored and not pissed on.

A course in miracles is sayed to be written by Jesus himself. There's echkart tolle's commentary on the book available. It's after listening to echkart's review of the book that got inspired to try reading the book and I can confirm it is the work of grace and holyness. Had a profound impact on me. There's no conflict with the bible aswell in it. Just a deepening you could say. https://nondualteacher.com/non-dual-awareness-a-course-in-miracles-acim/