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Spence94 replied to Someone here's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
The Gita talks of consituents that act upon constituents. self dissolves and Self expands. What is left is not self control but is Self expansion. So wether one within Self expansion is expressing their story in some context or wether they do not is nothing more than the consituents of nature acting upon one another. In that light one teacher who claims all story is false and one who claims story is still part of the expansion of Self, are both merely consituents acting upon consituents within the expansion of Self. Brahman allows for all scenarios. What a beautiful mystery. -
The higher ones intelligence, the more they will see that everything is perfect. The more one sees that everything is perfect, the more opportunities one will see.
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Thoughts on the Dao We are nature Dao is nature Nature is Dao We are no different than a flower or tree We are a part of nature We grow, we bloom and we blossom We move through the seasons just like the flowers and the trees
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The day you're excited about a trip to IKEA, is the day you have come of age.
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@Lincisman Both. If you approach women, you will get more condifent at approaching women. If you work on your Self in all areas of your life, including your inner world ( traumas, supressed emotions etc.) you will get better results with women. if you meditate you will be more present which will result in better results with women. The point is, women care about the man. Yeah you need to be able to approach but you also need to be a man of value at the very core, and what does that look like? Having your shit together brother, having something outside of pickup you live for and you feel good about and being happy just because. There is another very important distinction here though... You need to work on yourself for yourself. NOT because of the pickup results. Ultimatley this lack of self-esteem and self love is part of the reason you're doing pick up. Not that there is anything wrong with pick up or that your desire isn't natural, but often, pick upis used to fill that gap in your sense of self worth. If you want results with women and you wanna genuinly be happy in life, you gotta build your life up and work on yourself, for your Self, not for the pick up results. Counter-intuitively if you do this, your results with women will significantly improve, both in terms of quanitity and quality, but that depends on what you care about. Quite frankly I would rather work on my life and be happy, and get good results with some amazing women than feel like shit inside, get mediocre results with women and only feel good about myself when I get 'success‘ in pick up. You already know the answers it seems. You're not stupid. You just need to wrap your mind around this counter intuitive move. Hope that helped man. I feel ya.
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@Medhansh @Preety_India Ditto.
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@Gesundheit2 Word.
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@Medhansh Cheers.
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@catcat69123 They are Gamers. That's awesome.
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Do you have unhealed traumas, emotions and limiting beliefs that could be flaring up your 'pain body' in social interactions that need addressing? Looks like you get triggered by women. You need to get to the source of those attachments. You gotta heal that baggage, otherwise you're gunna get triggered and attached. You don't need some dating tactic to be more centered in yourself, women will cut through that instantly. You need to investigate what happened in those 21 years you weren't getting laid and get to the cause, let go and heal. You gotta elevate your being game not your doing game.
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中文 The Chinese language is music to my ears. The Chinese language is the most beautiful language I have ever seen or read. The Chinese language is the coolest language. It flows. It sings. It is soft. It is hard. It get's the point accross. It sneaks around the point. It is yin 阴 yang 阳 It is full of wisdom and thousands of years of souls and journeys. It is a mystery in plain sight.
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Thoughts on the Dao We are nature Dao is nature Nature is Dao We are no different than a flower or tree We are a part of nature We grow, we bloom and we blossom We move though the seasons just like the flowers and the trees
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“For he who knows this has become wise and his purpose fulfilled." -Bhagavad Gita
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Specifically about projecting onto others. Projection is you coming into a social situation and seeing the other person within the frame of your own self-agenda and biases. Projection could be internally percieved as the 'truth' of the other person, expressed in verbal communication, or through ones actions, behaviours and emotional responses towards the person. All based on the persons own projection. Reading Non-Violent Communication, got me thinking. Been active on this forum this week and noticed myself projecting onto people. Any input welcome. Open to discussion on the nature of projection and how to communicate without projection.
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Spence94 replied to Matt23's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
@Kksd74628 Yes! -
'King Warrior Magician Lover' Good book on masculinity.
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Right. The natural dynamic is the man penetrating and the woman yielding. I don't like it when a woman tries to penetrate me. Haha.
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Spence94 replied to Matt23's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
It will come bro, just visualise 16 hours a day and it will happen... haha. No shortcut to the work. Yoga TTC also has meditation modules. I just completed my in person yoga TTC. Now doing a 200 hour online TTC with an ashram in Rishikesh,India. I love it. In person is best but the online one is very good too. My practice is blooming. -
He is a big fan of 'Command and Conquer'. He bought all the expansion packs.
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It's tough. You're doing good friend. You're doing good. If you stay on the path of loving the universe, the universe will have your back and start to bring love into all areas of life.
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Sometimes it's contextually appropriate to offer your experience of a situation to others, but other times it's just you throwing your shit on top of them and not seeing more clearly. It's difficult.
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Not uncommon to become more introverted and step away from people once walking the path. It takes time for the love for the universe to deepen. Inbetween that, it can feel there is a disconnect between you and people until the conciousness begins to express the love through itself towards other people in your life and world. It's okay to keep your social circle small. Nurture those relationships. If they're meaningful to you, you can practice more love towards those people. A warm up for the love towards the other people aha. The people around you are the Universe in love ultimatley. With deepening love for the universe, love around deepens.
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The higher level solution to this, is to build yourSelf up. Do you have a lifes purpose you are passionate about? Do you enjoy engaging in your lifestyle outside of dating? Do you have cool friends you like to be with and hobbies you enjoy? How happy are you by yourself? Are you persuing women or are you attracting women? ( important distinction.) Can you bring women onto your island or are you trying to get on their island? ie. Lead her in your world not her world. How good are your generall communication and social skills in different social and business contexts including with strangers? How well can you communicate and intract with women ( including very attracive women) without hitting on them? Do you have unhealed traumas, emotions and limiting beliefs that could be flaring up your 'pain body' in social interactions that need addressing? Do you have a meditation practice that will make you more aware of yourself and give the space to let go and detach as well remain more calm and centered in social situations? Working on these things alongside dating beautiful women results in having more confidence and being less attached to them. It takes time, but you gotta work on your Self first ultimatley. Maybe you got all these things down, but if not, worth considering.
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Ain't nothing but a superfood thing baaaaaby! "20 within 20. 20 grams of protein within 20 minutes of waking." -Tim Ferris
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It's been 7 years since part 1...