traffy.law

How are you today? I'm not feeling that well since i still cant get over my recent break up. And i have a lot of things to do like study for my exams. I need a lot of willpower to keep myself from going on. I feel bad because i just want an easy going life, but i feel so helpless and feel like a victim. I did things that i regret yesterday like sending my ex nasty emails, like some very nasty emails. And i need to apologize to her. I feel like i wasted a day yesterday since i was not able to study and just lay around all day feeling anger and played a lot of games to mask my feelings What are your thoughts and plans for today? I'll be going to a study cafe today and review for my upcoming exams, even though i still feel like shit, i hope, i can calm down and focus on my review. Anything else you would like to share? Yes, lastly i just wanted to share my goal of becoming more calmer and nonchalant. I've always been calm and nonchalant but what i want is to double down and be as calm and nonchalant as i could be. Any advice you want to give yourself today? My advice for myself today is to take things more slower than usual, like twice as slow, you need not to be your usual neurotic and eratic self. You've grown past that, you were just made to be like that because of your stressful and not safe childhood environment. You are now 25 years old and is a full grown adult, you can change anyting you want for yourself. Take things slow and be kind to yourself, and to others, remember to breathe twice as slow as usual, so that you'll also be twice as calm. Be more calm and nonchalant and take things from there. Thank you. "Breathe twice as slow than usual"

Hi everyone, My goal is to get my shit together. I just recently broken up a 5 year relationship. I'm 25 years old and currently a law student(not so good). I still live with my parents. And my goal for today is to review my law subjects and forget about everything else. My long term goals 1. Pass the bar exams 2. Get good with interacting with people 3. Have a journal habit 4. Lessen my addiction. Why did I study law? I never really wanted to be a lawyer, what i wanted to be was a tourism student or an HRM student, I was 16-17 years old when i was given a choice to pick a college course, but i buckled under pressure from my parents, they wanted me to be a doctor and i gave in. I do not regret how my life turned out because, i learned a lot of valuable lessons along the way, some core lessons which i'm glad i found. How do I feel right now? I'm currently sad right now because, i cant focus. I recently had found a another partner, just right after i broke up with my 5 year girlfriend, but sadly it went wrong since my previous partner contacted my current partner. Now i feel bad for losing my current one. I need to move on. Why am i starting a journal now? To keep things in check, and to distract myself from my life which is currently not doing well. What is the goal for this journal? My goal is to be completely honest, to help me with my thoughts and emotions and my goals. Share a thing that happened in your life recently? I recently opened myself up to someone the first time, i told my whole life story to someone and felt safe to share it. I never really share my life story so it's a first for me. What i realized is that my life is average and not as bad as i thought it seems, i suffered from bullying and some bad trauma due to unwanted sexual advances from my childhood, and sadly it still affects me today. But opening up to someone seems okay and is actually how you connect with someone. Are you currently happy with your life? I'm not currently happy with my life due to extrinsic reasons like, i still live with my parents and i am studying something that im not that passionate about. My friendship and lovelifes are currently non-existent But i'm still holding on How often do you plan on journalling? As long as i have to, my goal on journalling is to declog my thoughts and to help me give clarity in my life How do you feel after doing journalling? I feel good, i feel hopeful, but there is still a lot of stuffs to do. Please feel free to share your thoughts and advices during my journal sessions, thank you and have a good day

Atticus finch, my favorite example or epitome of stage blue stage in my opinion. A lawyer who even after being spitted upon, choose not to be violent. He even has the physical advantage, or is someone bigger compared to the hillbilly but chose not to retaliate and just walk away. Pure class and grace and a fine example of stage blue values He is my movie hero. And a goal of what i want to be in the future. It just shows that there is still a lot of good things to implement even if the blue stage is somewhat lower compared to the other stages.

Game! Good luck guys

I’m in. I vote for 3 ?.. i already sleep on the floor because it feels so good

Low consciousness jobs? Are there really any correlations between consciousness and your jobs?/Does your job affect your state of consciousness? I'm 17. My plan right now is to take up BS Accountancy(BSA) so I can learn more about business & taxes. I also have the option to proceed & study law(which I'm also interested in; ) after I finish BSA. But aren't lawyers more about crimes? Wouldn't it put me in a low consciousness place/environment? I was just curious. & I don't want to wake up several years from now just to realize that being a lawyer isn't the right thing for me. (I like strategies, psychology(but I don't want to be a psychologist), business, travel, helping people strategize, making their lives better, solving problems,I'm impressed by subtle manipulations(like pick up), & I hate things/jobs that doesn't involve human psychology like math & medicine) Yeah.. help me out?

I'm also a teen so i'll subscribe to your progress man. Haha Keep it up ?

@Kali I deeply resonate with you bro. I'm also having trouble with social situations And I also find it hard to implement some of the concept of self help I may not offer some advice but i'll be offering you my support. I'll subscribe to your growth And I hope we can grow together Peace ?