jes

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  1. What are techniques to become egoless, I have realized, my life has a cycle first I will be weak ego then in maintaining that it's getting weaker. And when I realized that I am under the spell of my weaker ego I fulfill my basic needs to make my ego happy and some how it becomes stronger. But both of these conditions when I'm under weak ego or stronger ego. I have another thing to discuss is that I am surrounded my people who are very defensive. how to survive in such defensive environment. Where my own ego feeds himself very well. Help me please
  2. hi everyone how are you ? i was wondering if we can discuss this topic, if i go grocery store ,what stuff i should buy to make my breakfast healthy
  3. please someone help me ,what affirmations can be used to get rid of my toxic father
  4. Hi everyone , hope you are all in peace ? what should be done to avoid procrastination ?
  5. hi my lovely family hope you are all doing fine ? can we discuss this topic, I don't mean suicide, can we do visualizations and affirmations , to leave physical body ?
  6. I am in process of learning and enjoying the beauty of self love , And sometimes being me with myself gives me intense pleasure and I feel fulfilled , But there is fine line of selfishness which i do not want to cross while I am indulged in self love . I am writing some examples here I want to become assertive but don't want to hurt anyone I want to be a listener but not crap of other people I want to help but not helping in producing dramas I want to be me simultaneously want to play a role of my relationship beautifully ( like a daughter) what do you think my actualized.org family ??????
  7. july 6th 2016 Its easier to judge him for his insecurity , after every call from him is creating distance ,rather than developing attraction Is it my own insecurity i am judging him for insecurties ,why as a normal female i cannot be attracted to wards him , even he himself attempt to talk to me, all his talk looks bullshit to me, though i practice presence , even if i lose i get awareness right away ,i am getting awareness of my behavior, which is authentic part of me is not coming out when i talk to him ,is it because i am insecure or i donot like him, what is repressed here ,feeling of hatred for my father which is showing up in fiance , how is it like to be loved and feel loved by a man who will be your life partner ? I am confused what are you talking here ,that you are confused its confusion that's it , FACE IT : I am complaining ,because part of me is neglected ,need to get one thing done TALK: stupid cultural tradition is forcing me to build a relation its not necessary to get marry in 20s ,its totally fine Be It: I am insecure myself , marriage looks like i will get security so the feeling is tolerance not attraction ,just to get things done and avoid consequences of not getting married to this man ( which is more prison of father) ,BUT i am not sure what type of person i want to be my life partner) ?? next work to do
  8. back to being me
  9. My days are going peaceful and beautiful ,except I am not in mood of study ,which some how I am working on ? I cannot make myself to study good , I am losing here ,I am victim here I want to hear from my actualized.org family Please
  10. Hello !!! my actualized.org family , how are you ? what antioxidants do you use ? @Natasha , need you here
  11. what does love and attraction mean to self actualized person ? How Her self actualized can find Him self actualized,and together they grow and help each other in this journey ? Not just fulfilling the need but to make a strong beautiful relationship ? What are indications that you have found RIGHT him or her ? Lets have a good discussion on this please
  12. There is no I , there is no worldly desire
  13. there is nothing in this world I am holding onto includes my loved ones
  14. hello my actualized.org family how are you ? i want to discuss this topic with you ,as i am getting married
  15. i don't want him to change , thanks for pointing out ,so i will not beat myself in the process of starting my marriage life Thank you i will remember this
  16. yes he showed me importance ,or i would say ,authenic me helped me get what is required ( that is internal peace,fulfillment ,love from inside) not external
  17. he knows about my career part , I will keep on teaching him the real knowledge slowly in his language first , and i wanna share one more thing ,when i was practicing consciousness ,I found ,he felt peace surrounding me and in my presence ? is my judgement here right about him that he was peaceful being with me, or I am myself in content state ,that i project my feelings onto him ?
  18. I will teach him that , and it would be fascinating seeing him developing with me ? what do you think ?
  19. true love is state of being I knew it , so my presence for him is enough , i don't need to put something extra