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What are techniques to become egoless, I have realized, my life has a cycle first I will be weak ego then in maintaining that it's getting weaker. And when I realized that I am under the spell of my weaker ego I fulfill my basic needs to make my ego happy and some how it becomes stronger. But both of these conditions when I'm under weak ego or stronger ego. I have another thing to discuss is that I am surrounded my people who are very defensive. how to survive in such defensive environment. Where my own ego feeds himself very well. Help me please

hi everyone how are you ? i was wondering if we can discuss this topic, if i go grocery store ,what stuff i should buy to make my breakfast healthy

please someone help me ,what affirmations can be used to get rid of my toxic father

Hi everyone , hope you are all in peace ? what should be done to avoid procrastination ?

hi my lovely family hope you are all doing fine ? can we discuss this topic, I don't mean suicide, can we do visualizations and affirmations , to leave physical body ?

I am in process of learning and enjoying the beauty of self love , And sometimes being me with myself gives me intense pleasure and I feel fulfilled , But there is fine line of selfishness which i do not want to cross while I am indulged in self love . I am writing some examples here I want to become assertive but don't want to hurt anyone I want to be a listener but not crap of other people I want to help but not helping in producing dramas I want to be me simultaneously want to play a role of my relationship beautifully ( like a daughter) what do you think my actualized.org family ??????

july 6th 2016 Its easier to judge him for his insecurity , after every call from him is creating distance ,rather than developing attraction Is it my own insecurity i am judging him for insecurties ,why as a normal female i cannot be attracted to wards him , even he himself attempt to talk to me, all his talk looks bullshit to me, though i practice presence , even if i lose i get awareness right away ,i am getting awareness of my behavior, which is authentic part of me is not coming out when i talk to him ,is it because i am insecure or i donot like him, what is repressed here ,feeling of hatred for my father which is showing up in fiance , how is it like to be loved and feel loved by a man who will be your life partner ? I am confused what are you talking here ,that you are confused its confusion that's it , FACE IT : I am complaining ,because part of me is neglected ,need to get one thing done TALK: stupid cultural tradition is forcing me to build a relation its not necessary to get marry in 20s ,its totally fine Be It: I am insecure myself , marriage looks like i will get security so the feeling is tolerance not attraction ,just to get things done and avoid consequences of not getting married to this man ( which is more prison of father) ,BUT i am not sure what type of person i want to be my life partner) ?? next work to do

back to being me

My days are going peaceful and beautiful ,except I am not in mood of study ,which some how I am working on ? I cannot make myself to study good , I am losing here ,I am victim here I want to hear from my actualized.org family Please

Hello !!! my actualized.org family , how are you ? what antioxidants do you use ? @Natasha , need you here

what does love and attraction mean to self actualized person ? How Her self actualized can find Him self actualized,and together they grow and help each other in this journey ? Not just fulfilling the need but to make a strong beautiful relationship ? What are indications that you have found RIGHT him or her ? Lets have a good discussion on this please

There is no I , there is no worldly desire

there is nothing in this world I am holding onto includes my loved ones

hello my actualized.org family how are you ? i want to discuss this topic with you ,as i am getting married

Its ok ,no need to apologize stay enlightened

has nature not decided the man for me in his form ?

i don't want him to change , thanks for pointing out ,so i will not beat myself in the process of starting my marriage life Thank you i will remember this

yes he showed me importance ,or i would say ,authenic me helped me get what is required ( that is internal peace,fulfillment ,love from inside) not external

he knows about my career part , I will keep on teaching him the real knowledge slowly in his language first , and i wanna share one more thing ,when i was practicing consciousness ,I found ,he felt peace surrounding me and in my presence ? is my judgement here right about him that he was peaceful being with me, or I am myself in content state ,that i project my feelings onto him ?

I will teach him that , and it would be fascinating seeing him developing with me ? what do you think ?

true love is state of being I knew it , so my presence for him is enough , i don't need to put something extra

yes

Pardon me then

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Can we do Samadhi with a picture ?