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is someone forcing you to think these things, is someone twisting your arm, all you have to do is focus on something else beside sex, this is not rocket science, you have programed yourself with these thoughts until they are rooted in your consciousness, now you will have to unroot them by giving a certain amout of time to focusing on something more constructive, and not keep going back to the thoughts, there is no other solution to this, it may help you to record some constructive audio files and put head phones on and listen as much as you can for a few days. its going to be harder to get rid of it than it was to create it, you created it unconsciously now you will have to uncreate it consciously.

what does this video have to do with the questions i ask of the one who started the topic?

thank you but this has nothing to do with my questions

i am a little curious as to why you felt you needed to use the F word in the subject of the topic, and also curious as to why you listed enlightenment last in your group of projects to do, if you don't mind me asking.

maybe you should become enlightened first

it is normal when you focus on a part of the body, your friends just wasnt into it.

good points, coming from experience

jesus was a master, not a religious person, and he cannot forgive your sins, only you can do that, but if you understood the esoteric meaning of the things he said, it would lead you to liberation, and that is what salvation really is about, the bible was written by the catholic church to control humanity, they were religious people, jesus was not religious, saying i believe doesnt do much for you but trap you in the belief itself. drop the beliefs and you stand some chance of liberation, few have understood what jesus was, was about, what he taught, if in fact, he was real, i was not there, i cannot say, and i dont believe. It is not about religion at all, its about becoming the master of your own being, and this would have been what jesus would have said to you.

this isnt the place to talk about that ask me privately

you are wise in not debating politics it goes no where, and few even understand the political process for what it really is

no

atom i dont and never did what most call meditation, i only practiced being in the moment , in an aware present state of being. as for the two years to touch down, just imagine jumping off a cliff in the dark, not knowing where you was going, what was going to happen to you, and what the landing would be like if there was one, and imagine being in that state for two years.

action doesnt always bring wisdom, not everything learned is wisdom, some is just pure nonsense and information gathering that can lead to many consequences of actions

just having this kind of attitude will open doors to a deeper understanding of the inner real self, and yes i know the feeling about the books it has gotten very hard for me to read a book anymore i have about 5 unfinished, i would like to complete just because i thought they were important then and maybe there is still something in them that can make a difference. one can only become the master from within, everything one needs for that is there and once that is realized it makes it hard to read books or even listen to the opinions of other people when you are experiencing reality of the real self

your limitations in life are your beliefs.

i would like to define what stepping into the unknown really is about without, assumptions, prior programing, false beliefs, speculation, other peoples ideas. When one reaches a certain level of awakening and awareness, they begin to understand that there is something more powerful yet to experience as the human identity, when one gets to that level, there is a desire to attain something that cannot yet be seen by the human identity but you sense it is there, because your consciousness knows, that it exist but you can't see it or grasp it. It is like standing on the edge of a cliff in the darkness and out of your desperation at that point to know the truth and reality of yourself and life , you leap into the darkness and unknown willing to give up everything, even your life to obtain something that you yet have no understanding of. When i made that leap it took two years to touch down. and during that time it was like i was struggling to get through a valley of fire, death, and destruction to emerge at the foot of a huge mountain, and after climbing that mountain and when the top was reached and looking over, the words of Martin Luther King's speech began to ring in my mind, free at last, free at last , thank god almighty i'm free at last. This is what it is like in real life, real experience. As time passed i broke away from all religion, and newageism, because i realized that the great I am of consciousness was the creator of all things and not some man made god, and that i had become that. to become self realized you will lose your programing, your belief system and your fictitious human identity because these things cannot enter into the kingdom of the great I am . there is a scripture that reflects this, i dont follow scripture, or promote it, it has meaning if looked at from the right place, but it says straight is the gate and narrow is the way that leads to life and few there be that find it, broad is the gate that leadeth to destruction and many go in thereat. The human identities belief system is what has it imprisoned.

Mooji is right, the problem is that human identities are trying to define something that they have no experience in, speculation, assumptions, beliefs, the reason that Mooji is right is because to be enlightened one lives and functions in the moment of now, in a complete state of present conscious awareness, and in that there is no problems, no pain, no sorrow only peace, happiness, joy, in knowing who and what you are and that you are cleansing the quantum memory that is controlling your life and keeping you bound as a human identity. within all of consciousness, all knowledge and experience of consciousness up until this moment exists, the problem is you have no access to that. the human identity has butchered the true meaning of most everything because of a lack of real experience. there is the experience of the human identity, which doesnt mean a lot as its experience is from programing, false belief, and a warped perception of everything around it, so what does its experience really mean. for your experience to be real it will have to be experienced as a realized being, because that is the only place reality can be seen. reality is never seen by the human identity.

get involved with a couple people who are on the verge of killing themselves, people who have lost all hope, have no means of helping themselves, are at the mercy of others, some who are slipping through the cracks of life, some who have been beaten down till they feel worthless and want to die. allow yourself to feel the pain and misery that they are going through day and night, cry with them, cry for them, forget the rest of the world exist, its only you and no one else, now look in the mirror through your own eyes into your deepest being, and ask what is important here, is the knowledge that i have important, is all this pain and misery just nonsense, should i just walk away because those people are trapped in a dream, and leave them to whatever befalls them, or do i take what i know, have experienced and do my best to help those in the dream to awaken, even if it cost me everything, even my life. This kind of work and accepted responsibility where none was is the path that leads to a greater awakening and self realization, peace, and a reason for living out this existence and being happy that you are able. When love beckons to you, follow him, Though his ways are hard and steep. And when his wings enfold you yield to him, Though the sword hidden among his pinions may wound you. And when he speaks to you believe in him, Though his voice may shatter your dreams as the north wind lays waste the garden. For even as love crowns you so shall he crucify you. Even as he is for your growth so is he for your pruning. Even as he ascends to your height and caresses your tenderest branches that quiver in the sun, So shall he descend to your roots and shake them in their clinging to the earth. Like sheaves of corn he gathers you unto himself. He threshes you to make you naked. He sifts you to free you from your husks. He grinds you to whiteness. He kneads you until you are pliant; And then he assigns you to his sacred fire, that you may become sacred bread for Love's sacred feast. All these things shall love do unto you that you may know the secrets of your heart, and in that knowledge become a fragment of Life's heart. But if in your fear you would seek only love's peace and love's pleasure, Then it is better for you that you cover your nakedness and pass out of love's threshing-floor, Into the seasonless world where you shall laugh, but not all of your laughter, and weep, but not all of your tears. Love gives naught but itself and takes naught but from itself. Love possesses not nor would it be possessed; For love is sufficient unto love. When you love you should not say, "Love is in my heart," but rather, "I am in the heart of Love." And think not you can direct the course of love, for love, if it finds you worthy, directs your course. Love has no other desire but to fulfill itself. But if you love and must needs have desires, let these be your desires: To melt and be like a running brook that sings its melody to the night. To know the pain of too much tenderness. To be wounded by your own understanding of love; And to bleed willingly and joyfully. To wake at dawn with a winged heart and give thanks for another day of loving; To rest at the noon hour and meditate love's ecstasy; To return home at eventide with gratitude; And then to sleep with a prayer for the beloved in your heart and a song of praise upon your lips. Kahlil Gibran on Love with the exception of three words,

first and foremost most, including you have no clue what meditation is for, second its just a practice, third, it rarely brings anything but relaxation to most. what ever you are doing, it is doing you no good. myself i have never meditated, and never will, i developed my own method of becoming aware and self realized, it worked for me, when you get tired of running around in circles and doing what every newager, and every wannabe guru on the net says, you will figure out that you need to do something else. and the sad part most are programed with a belief system that is self defeating, you can hand them the key to all knowledge, all power, and they cant do the work because of their own false belief system. start by dropping your belief system, look at your programing and see how much you have been programed to fail. how great is your desire for liberation, what does liberation mean to you, liberation from what to what?

yes it is your responsibility to do something about it, you know what the problem is, you stated you didnt like it, do you expect someone else to make you able to do what wont do for yourself.

mikey this is just more nonsense, isnt it about time you got real?

and he is one million percent right. everyone is doing what is important to them, and money is most important to most, in time pain and suffering will help to reveal the true nature of things. many come here to this forum, who know what the problem is, they know what the right thing to do is, and yet they cant or wont take responsibility for their actions. i think many just come to be consoled in their misery.

you said: I know you need to self-accept before you can self-improve. here's what i think : 'fuck i like this fetish but this fetish is killing me, I need to change!' you need a lot of help, but you wont get it here, you already know what the problem is, you claim you need to change, yet the only thing stopping you is yourself, how do you expect anyone here to help you with that. this has nothing to do with personal growth, its about you not taking responsibility for yourself, no one else can fix that. you said: because in real life i tend to dominate other people(like no one is using me for anything). what does this mean ? i want to change this because i think it's not OKAY and i dont like it you dominate other people because you are a very insecure young man, who has a sexual fetish, if you dont like it and its not ok why are you doing it? do you expect someone else to fix what you dont think is ok and you dont like? start taking responsibility for your actions, its that simple, there is nothing to change except that. yes i know you have been told to just accept yourself, that is a crock of newage hooey, you know what the right thing is, and you have refused to do it, there is no help for that.

its funny you come here looking for help with your sex.

most have never stepped into the unknown, only a few, and they didnt fail, most people are gathering information, that is creating a lot of confusion in their minds and consciousness, i used to do this until i wore myself out, and figured the nonsense of other people was not going to get me where i wanted to go. where is it that you are trying to go?