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it does work but at the end someone gets hurt. If you don't commit the other person might start keeping their options open and if the honeymoon phase wears off or you just stop putting in much effort. Then it's a mater of time until he/she leaves you or friendzones you. If you attached u get hurt. Just a great distraction and waste of time but it definitely is a fun one. If you can't handle the pain of break-up i wouldn't recommend. Otherwise a great experience.

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What are your thoughts on the map of consciousness? Does it work in attracting better things in ur life? How do you raise ur energetic log? Does it work for dating and relationships?

What are your thoughts on the map of consciousness? Does it work in attracting better things in ur life? How do you raise ur energetic log? Does it work for dating and relationships?

Hello, i have some struggle finding a job i will enjoy. I have been studying a bachelor degree in finances and insurances which is normally a 3 year's study. I had some difficulties completing it and after 5 years i quit this education program because i failed like 6 subjects and didn't felt like studying another year. Those 6 subjects where the last ones i had to succeed in order to obtain my degree. I started a job as an logistics worker in a pharmacy company and after 2 years working there i felt like i was stuck again so i decided to try to complete my bachelors degree again. So i obtained my degree in one year study while working full time. Now i graduated and i'm 29 years old with no experience in any corporate field. I made a few mistakes at my current job and gotten a written warning for things i don't consider that severe. Anyway i decided to resign from this job in order to look for something new where i can grow and obtain some skills. I was not learning anything new and i just stayed there so long for the comfort, good hours and easy work, the salary was medium. It was a hard decision but i didn't felt like it would be something i wanted to do for the rest of my life. Now jobless, the weather is awful and depressing. It's hard to motivate myself and apply for new jobs. Which i think will be more hours and harder work but i am not sure. I have also some side hustle i'm doing and making okay money on the side with that. I'm trying to find something i want to grow in and learn new things and that i will enjoy. I have good physique, communication skills and i speak 4 languages. I'm just not sure if a corporate job will be something for me? I've never tried it before. What cool jobs are there?

Born in Belarus moved to Belgium at 5 i'm 28 now studied higher education 'finance & insurances' quit last year after failing few subjects didn't felt like doing another year and waste my time and not making any money since i've been studying it for 5 year already and slacking and enjoying my student life a bit to much went also to erasmus for 6 months to Budapest Hungary. After quitting started to work in a Pharmacy/medication production centre which is situated right in the city centre with over 100 employees. Covid also started but the one of they few things that had to keep running is our business. Worked at logistics and kinda created my own team. Learned much about leadership, people (since i've seen so many come and go), women (since 60-70% is women) and communicating/small talk/making friends. This year i decided to pick up my education again and i've been combining it with full time work from start. I graduate in august and thinking about going for a new challenge in a an insurance company as advisor or expert. It's still hard for me to make the decision to leave since my current job became pretty easy and it's close from home and also i got used to it. And i made so much nice memories, friends and experiences. I'll see what i'm gonna do when i graduate. Also feeling like to take a few months break to discover my passion and create some hobbies before going all in on a new job. Since i still have to work atleast 30 years. Kinda like in a grey area right now in which it's difficult to make a decision i won't regret.

@MM1988 I feel what you are saying. I have been thinking the same for a long time. This is pure orange stage. The believe you have that you need to manipulate or act different to get something. Once you have been long enough in this stage you will realize that you get a lot more succes by just acting out of your own feelings and heart. Entering stage green will help you a lot but for that you need to see how egoistical you really are and stop caring so much about yourself. Start to care more about other people and this love will reflect back to you.

@GabrielWallace Oh now i understand. Seems a little bit to me like she's using you. Why do you have to pay for everything even though she is working so much? What things do you guys do together on regular day basis? I mean if she is all time working and when she gets home you can't even have a conversation. Maybe you could try to take her out to a bar or a restaurant. In those places you can talk about those things and then she will not have much chances to run away or distract herself with.

Focus on your goals bro no need to have the goals alligned. Trust me you don't want to have same goals. Just respect each other and and if you want to make a change in your life. Just say it to her and hopefully she will respect it and help you. But there is no need to have this big conversation about your next 5 years plans and where she has to allign or agree with you upon

@Hardkill I don't consider myself a specialist but i think it depends on what city (small/big) you live and what country. It also depends on what place (club, school, public place) and the presence of the girl (is she open or just standing with her friends not trying to make any contact). But i think girls don't get approached that often. I have done few approaches and one time a girl said 'i like the fact you came to talk to me, not a lot guys do that'. and i was really i thought you get approached all the time.

@Consilience Your life purpose connects pretty much with the 1st business you thinking to start up. It's about health nutrition and fitniss. The most best and strategic way is to first start your initial business. Even though it's not your ultimate life purpose but from there you can grow into this yellow based business. It will definitly take some of your time but look at it like this. You will receive knowledge, experience and if it is going good financial stability. After a while you can start your life purpose business. Your initial bussiness can still exist (if it's a training center simply put a good manager to take care of it) or you can also sell your businiss ofcourse.

@Martin123 True that i wish i could express myself like that. Need to do some work on it hehe It was nice talking to you. I wish you the best

@Martin123 I was just thinking about it. Let it break you. As hard as possible. Take some time but eventually stand on your feet and keep going and try again. Life goes on. I don't think start hating women and joining these incels or MGTOW movement will do any good. This summer i was on the lowest edge possible because of this girl that i loved kept ignoring me. I was feeling so sad. I wanted to hate women. I started to read/watch these MOGTOW videos. But eventually i got over it and have learned so much. I am much stronger and better with girls now. And looking back these sad times were actually the most beautiful ones. It's hard to admit.

@Martin123 Connection with your feminine side and translating it into the universe by giving. Being vulnerable. But keep on going. Don't let it break you. Staying positive

This is beautiful. Don't you think that this is what masculanity is? i can totally relate