Actualising

Trying to figure out of I should go for this girl I like or not as I had met a girl who was "better" in my eyes then her and feel I will meet her again. Is it better to wait for a really compatible girl or date while I wait? Basically should I be selfish or selfless. Which I know what I should do but need further guidance

@Leo Gura oh shit.... Okay, my bad... I won't go for her then. Thanks Leo

If I was max selfless and enlightened wouldn't I take each day as it comes, be without plans and see what happens?

I guess, is it ok to leave someone for someone better? But then is that Infinite?

@Leo Gura um... Idk I feel I should be selfless in this situation. I wish I knew if she would be ok knowing j would leave her for someone better.

@Yimpa short term with her. Long-term if I don't find anyone else

How does one become like Osho?

Is the golden rule the highest social teaching?

@NoSelfSelf I've been doing research into attracting woman, and everytime I try and not care, or be the bad boy, I start to attract others doing the same

@lostingenosmaze haha 😂

Hey there When should I think things through or just act and learn from it? Thanks

@Buck Edwards oh interesting. Thank you!

Why do girls like being treated mean?

@Raze thanks

Hey there! As Naville Goddard says "feeling is the secret"... Do you guys thing you can feel your way to enlightenment? By being happy all the time?

Is this true? What's the conscious alternative?

What is the best Meditation you have found?

The Buddha says, "The mind is everything, what we think we become". But then there's the idea that we aren't our thoughts. I get intrusive thoughts and worry about becoming what they are about. Do I have nothing to worry about as I'm not my ego, or should I take care with my thoughts? What do I do?

@LastThursday thanks bro

@Davino thank you

@SeaMonster ? thanks!

Hey guys and gals. Just wondering what your thoughts are on reaching Enlightenment through feeding the good wolf and not the bad wolf within. I know through this you can reach happiness and that's one of the best Meditations. And also choosing love means there is no ego. But just interested in you guys' opinions. Thanks! ~ Jules

Hey Guys, can continuous fear facing awaken you? Thanks!!

Hey there What are you guyses thoughts on when Owen cook says massive action can be a meditation?

What's primary, verbal or visual thought? Can you think visually without verbal noise underneath? Or are they one? Thanks guys