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Self discipline training. Discipline is your only vehicle toward achieving greatness. You'll feel empowered when you feel accomplished.

I like the natural look in women. Makeup makes almost all women look older than they really are to me.

@TBurg82 Ginseng and zinc? I've never had ed but I've heard my buddies talk about it. That's all I remember of that conversation. I agree with the others on working out. It helps the blood flowww.

I was going to say that naked is best. I see the biggest difference when I wear prep clothes. I don't know how else to describe it. I've gotten the most attention when I shave too.

No fap helped me realize the potential in my own relationships. I'd fap to escape reality and pretend I was never in any kind of relationship. I messaged girls on porn sites and would sext back to fake women on the internet begging them to be real. I did some stupid shit as a kid.

Good luck doing that bro. It shows a woman you are too cheap to pay for her meal. I would not let my girl pay when we met. She was stubborn and still got away with paying for her part a few times. Ironically she does pay for most our food now. ha. I cover the bills and she saves up everything for us. Teamwork.

@ArabiaNytes I learned a bit from therapy sessions for struggling with bipolar. I have had this particular therapist for the past year, and it's working better than the last one did. Last year's therapist wasn't invested in helping me as much as she was into shoving pills down my throat. I do often undergo periods where I feel it's pointless talking to another human about my internal problems when it's really something I should figure out from within. Hypnotherapy was really helpful for me, and I am scheduling another session soon. Not related but your user name has me thinking of my childhood.

My apologies on the negativity. I couldn't do it so I find it hard to believe that is is possible. I actually lived 4 hrs away from my girl. Having her near me was essential to both of our happiness. If we did not live together now then I am sure we would of gotten really tired of trying to drive back and forth. I have no doubt one of us would of gotten bored with not having someone around for fun. It really takes the joy out of life when you sit at home worrying if the other person you care for is out doing things they should not, or if they are dead in a ditch somewhere.

Damn right. They should never hit us or even have the thought cross over into reality vice versa. I would classify myself as the white knight type at times. My strength is more than my own girls. I know I was born with more anger and more physical strength than any woman I was raised with. I was brought up to believe that a man that will beat on a woman who is weaker than himself is a pussy. That is all i can say about it. If she has a gun on her or a knife then it's game on son.

Long distance relationships are insane if you ask me. Trust is important, but with that you have no real means to trust the other person. Trust is built best when you can see and speak with a person. Living a life with them and growing off of one another.

Nervous about seeing a hypnotherapist for some help to relieve my high stress, and other deeper underlying issues. Most would be scared to be put to sleep by another person using hypnosis. Fears of being controlled and shit. I've had a few people tell me that it's great for digging out the issues that's bothering someone's subconscious, and manipulating it to help relieve the mind of it's bad triggers while you're asleep. My friends seem fine after their experiences. Wanting the weight lifted. Has this worked for you guys?

@governor I did see one, and I've felt better about things that before I would have gotten a negative feeling towards. Better than any therapy session I've ever had. @Carrie You gave me enough to write a book on my experience with hypnosis. ha. I remember my session, but her voice was so soothing on my soul. I brought myself out of it. I was afraid of being "asleep", but like you said I was actually not sleeping at all. I can honestly say she is a highly professional woman who was able to pull out information I wasn't comfortable talking about before to anyone.. and this was before the session had started. It might of helped my mind realize that it needed to unburden itself a bit by letting go of my past issues. It's weird knowing I had anxiety before, but now I feel like it's not apart of who I am anymore. Really powerful work was done in my case. @Emerald Wilkins Do you know some tips on self hypnosis?

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@zasa joey You are normal to think the way you are thinking. It's human to feel like no one cares, or that you're not good enough. I've felt that way before, and now I'm addicted to working so that my mind doesn't focus on the self loathing thoughts. You aren't alone man. Cheer up and live your life.

I was once with an average looking woman for years who's hygiene was pretty fucking bad, but I dealt with it somehow thinking that she'd shower again like when we first met. (no such luck). The smell got worse and when she decided to leave me I was like hell yeah! Watching her nasty stench fumes leave with her was amazing. It did help I was gone most of the time working or in school. Maybe it was her oily skin that smelled so bad. Idk. So I'm just now getting back from a pretty weird date with this girl who's hygiene was also poor. This girl was rancid. Beautiful beyond words, but smelled like mother fucking onions and week old trash. Not sure if it was her sweat from running around during the day or what. I was hoping to get her to jump in a lake with me cuz I know this one spot that's just perfectly secluded. She wouldn't budge even though I jumped in.. It just sucks that I would of genuinely liked her if she didn't smell so bad. Febreze didn't work, yea I did spray her with it. Should I tell her she stinks, or do you guys think she knows and chooses to do nothing?

@Cabot I go mostly on personality and similar interests. I didn't mind her leaving when she did, and it was mostly due to her lack of motivation to clean herself. Smell is very important, but can be changed. I did buy Sam some perfume today. She enjoyed it. @MartineF Didn't need to ask. She told me it was from her wearing a long sleeved wool shirt that made her sweat smell. She smells really good now and was aware of the onion smell the first time. No shower sexy time yet. Samantha is cool, so taking things slower. She spent the night so it's going pretty great now that I know that's not her normal smell. ha

So my question is written as the topic. I've been called shallow for dumping, or just not allowing a woman to become my girlfriend. Thinking there may be some fraction of truth behind what they say about me. I'm attracted more towards women who are skinny or healthier looking in my eyes. Women over 200 lbs aren't as attractive or as worthy of keeping around. I wouldn't want to have a life with someone who's diet consists of only junk food. Maybe if we had the same interests or she wanted to change her diet it would work out? Idk. Weight never stops me from sleeping with some girls that are bigger. This one time a chick named Heather faked a pregnancy to try and get me to stay with her. She is about 200 lbs, and was fun to hang with until she lied about carrying our (fake baby). We had a lot of the same interests like anime and geeky shit. I just seen us as fuck buddies, but I guess it made me upset that we couldn't see each other anymore. I mean she liked me enough to fake having a kid so I'd stay with her. (not saying it's not a bad thing because it's terrible and the reason I don't see her anymore). If she was hotter I would of probably forgiven her for it and dated her. Yea I guess that does make me shallow to a degree. Although part of me thinks it was mostly my standards not allowing me to be with someone who would fake something that major. Any thoughts?

@AverageMonkey In all honesty that type of job makes it extremely hard to be able and reach new heights within yourself. Although it is possible. Would be a bit easier if you had extra time to try and find another job that might pay more. That way it could give you more time to dedicate to your life goals. I'm now working on designing my own website with a friend of mine cuz we like coding. We will be going back to college together to try and make our dreams unite. (yes we will both still work and maintain a steady income). Multitasking is essential to bettering yourself, but I'm sure you can manage it if you try hard enough. You are a very HARD working person with lots of POTENTIAL. Factory jobs make you STRONG inside as well as physically. Social anxiety is hard to get over, but EVERYONE POOPS and then DIES. You can literally talk to ANYONE you want to, and the worst that may happen is that they might talk too much or not at all. Depression is natural, but you deserve to be happy. We all do, but the only person who can make that possible is yourself. Loving yourself is the key to killing all the depressed thoughts that might plague your mind.

I'm on my third week at trying to live as a vegetarian, and taking tips from a few vegan's on here. @Neill You pointed out what I was about to quote as well. It's not even rational to begin questioning a healthy lifestyle that you've only tried out for 2 days. You've got to give it a chance first before ruling it out as non beneficial. I'm seeing huge changes in my lifestyle, and physically I've improved a great deal from a couple of weeks ago. Just two days wouldn't of allowed me to see or even acknowledge the progress that was happening to me. I'm not even calling myself a vegetarian. I'm trying it out, and so far it's really giving me more energy than I ever thought possible. I admire vegans, and think that going vegan can boost longevity as well as save people who are living unhealthy lives.

@Sri McDonald Trump Maharaj I feel the same way man. I can't go long without a woman or porn. Eventually would like to rid my mind of the constant urges.

@Kuba Mine was in a similar circumstance with our grandmother. She was combative to the point that my mother finally realized she needed to put her in a home due to the stress that she had placed on herself trying to take care of her mother all of the time. I suggested hiring a Cna or patient care aid to come to the house and take care of her, but it was too costly of an idea. Financially we couldn't afford spending thousands to keep her in a fancy old folks home, but medicare eventually was able to cover her so she was placed in a decent place. The only thing is that she's forced to share a room with another person, but it's really not bad. There is plenty of space between her and her roommate.

@carlo I could not trust a female that likes to talk to her ex if they had dated in the past. If she still keeps that guy around then she could use him as a fall back type of deal. Any minor fight you have could easily send her in his direction. That's a deal breaker for me man. When I'm in a relationship with someone I cut off all ties to other people that may pose a threat to our happiness. It's just disrespectful to continue talking to any ex's if you are serious about someone. One of my best friends got married, but told me on his fucking wedding day that he hoped his ex gf would come and stop it. He actually invited her just so that she'd come and try and stop it. She didn't care enough to make it. He's still married to his wife, but still will message his ex every time he sees her relationship isn't going well on facebook which is making his wife pretty angry. Disrespectful is how I see it.

@zer0 I'm a heavy sleeper. I would suggest getting an annoying alarm clock, or use an annoying ringtone. That's what gets me out of bed every morning.

@DizIzMikey Pomegranate is something kids (my nieces and nephews) like to eat, and it rids the body of potential parasites. I've heard great things about Chlorella too.

@reez I've tried the gym near where I live and those fitness crazed girls were not for me. Dull conversations. Might try out another gym. I'm the same with being able to count on one hand. I've only wanted to date 3 women in my life, and I dated 2 of the 3. @Natasha I think people are naturally are drawn to others of the same level of attractiveness. It's our narcissistic sides that make us this way. My mind just sees a skinnier woman and automatically my mind says "This girl must eat right and could probably live a long time". Well there was a couple of instances that I was horribly mistaken and the girl naturally had a very high metabolism.