d0ornokey

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  1. @RickyBalboa How do you feel about the consciousness of your family? My parents don't really do much besides go to work, watch TV and go for walks, which in a sense is a nice simple life. Though they're important to me, I'm pretty unhappy with that level of consciousness around me because I want to be around more conscious influences. I guess that's just a trade-off of living with your parents
  2. I enjoyed reading your entries
  3. Become more and more aware of your fears and challenge them. Be honest Then look for solutions to those fears. Be accepting of them, trusting you will figure them out. Basically look for a solution to all the problems you have. Sounds simple but that's what it is
  4. Orange spirituality arguing with turquoise
  5. Become aware of what you're cycling in. It may be uncomfortable to realize, but it will be worth it and not nearly as uncomfortable and painful to make that changev
  6. @GenuinePerspectiveXC whose perspective is this?
  7. I remember there being a post here showing examples of pretty girls having good relationships with disabled/disformed people I mean... I feel like people value intimacy pretty highly. The true gems in relationships come from the deep bond, love, and trust you have in a relationship. Like that stuff is much more enjoyable and fulfilling than looks, money and status Like those are nice for sure but I think that's just the level of consciousness of the individual if that's what they screen for I for sure know that all girls don't subscribe to LMS, because as I walk around NYC I see tons of examples of girls not following the blackpill ideology (from my quick judgements) The other day I went to a meetup, and I saw a fat indian dude was dating a hot white girl. They looked to have an awesome relationship. It was really nice In a way it's kind of silly that this is even a topic. Because if you yourself search for what fulfills you the most in a relationship, it's not looks or money lol. It's the inner bond you have with the other person. Yes the other stuff matter, but what really matters? I care so much about a girl having healthy value systems, and I am aware of girls that have similar ones Direct experience really holds a lot of weight here I'm curious to hear others' direct experiences
  8. Same with me dawg. I'm also looking for a similar solution Do you tie it around your self esteem? Like you must do xyz to be happy? Like you must do xyz to be good enough?
  9. Check meetup.com, in a lot of areas, mainly cities, there are tons of self-improvement, etc. events. NYC is literally fuckin poppin with these events. Seminars, talks, networking events, meditation classes, yoga classes, discussions, hiking trail events etc. etc. Also, the cover of this book is a cool quote: https://books.google.com/books/about/Friend_of_a_Friend.html?id=RIEsDwAAQBAJ&source=kp_book_description
  10. Maybe you already have but have you tried to journal and listen to your intuition / highest self? What is it trying to tell you about this
  11. @Aeris hahahahhha Some1 plz do that
  12. Outside of the fact that you're trying to spread that ideology Something that would help is to consider that despite this shit being really weird and seeming nonsensical There is a lot of value here in non-duality, when you go deep into it and do the practices with it, with an open mind, you realize a lot of truths that once seemed really weird I know some things can be outrageous but as you understand what hes trying to say, and wheres hes coming from and having experience with some of the things that hes saying, your mind becomes more open I know this, because I was once in your boat and I promise that if you genuinely get curious and inquire, there is much to be learnt here
  13. @RendHeaven yeah social media a great way to go for marketing Yes it's not as hard as you think to get clients, anyone can do it. You first have a good service that fulfills a need and then find a method to market it. I would find some entrepreneurs who do it and ask them questions. They have a lot of business wisdom I would also look into reading books and taking courses, ebenpagan has great courses to get you started I would get into communities where people do business. People making money doing this stuff will become the norm, which will really really help. There are tons of workshops, events, and meetups in major cities As well as starting small and working your way up
  14. On days you are okay, is it because of something? I notice that less sleep throws me out of whack real easily I also notice childhood trauma playing a large effect
  15. @Psyche_92 You can go into the fields that you are more interested in Just some examples I once went to a workshop where the practitioner taught and did exercises from a course in a miracles. She would host this weekly, and charge $15/class and had it going for 12 weeks I have a life coach that specializes in helping people in their careers and increasing their productivity but I go to her for spiritual work You can get certification under Bruce Lipton's Psych K program and they will help market your services (on top of your own marketing) Peter Ralston has his own business model. I think it's workshops in small settings and individualized coaching I have a friend on Instagram that hosts workshops 1x/month and charges $10 per person. When I went 15 people showed up. You can sell courses, books as well as offer 1 on 1 coaching and whatever else your creative mind and concoct.
  16. Yeah I went to a workshop recently and they were discussing this. arguing doesn't allow for connection, love or healthiness
  17. I want friends but whenever someone reaches out, i self sabatoge and it doesn't get much anywhere
  18. https://www.actualized.org/forum/topic/27109-social-anxiety-pushed-me-towards-self-actualization/#comment-307960
  19. I'm interested in your other 9 trips. Did you write those out too?
  20. @winterknight how do you balance non duality with practical life? More specifically, I find myself constantly feeling like I should have non duality in my life, and some small practice at the very least, as i feel I will get astronomical gains years from now But at the same time nothing in my life is in place and my mental health keeps going out of whack. Do I take care of what's immediately bothering me first? Or do I get into non duality. I guess I know the answer already but hearing it from you might be nice