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I've the same thing I have chosen to accept it when the thought arises Or to let the thought and feelings pass

amazing. thanks for sharing

yes. life purpose isn't necessarily the best choice for you right now. i realized this too. i was chasing my LP for happiness, only to realize my specific needs were not found in life purpose currently, but in other things. it depends on what you need/want most right now

It's not about being perfect in your meditation the entire time But rather, refocusing when your mind wanders off Accepting that all days will NOT have a complete state of meditation or even close to that But that you can adjust and make it a little better the next day Perfection isn't possible, but adjustment is It's not about being perfect to my daily routine But rather, refocusing when you fall off Accepting that all days will NOT be to your standards or perfect But that you can adjust and make it a little better the next day Perfection isn't possible, but adjustment is maybe you can think of more applications. hope that helps. You can apply this to life in general too. All days won't be good, in fact you will have many bad days. But it's not about being happy all the time, that kind of standard is impossible. but rather about picking yourself up when you fall down and readjusting

it'll pass, try to stay hopeful if you notice, all negative emotions pass. you'll be fine again soon i do a gratefulness exercise in the morning. it helps a lot

Yes, anyone can do this work

this would be orgasmic. the book is not a fun read

@Butters yes same exact realization for me. depending on future successes for happiness is so silly. because life is about the journey and the adventure. not just the end goal the future success won't even make you as happy as you thought it would. especially if it's a low conscious vision

@outlandish i did lol

@Raphael i think he talked back to someone in HR

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its perhaps too advanced

Sooo this is what RSDtyler said a few days ago: "I keep fucking falling into this trap. I read posts like this, and I think "Ya I'm being too extreme". Then I meet a "good girl" and I try to game her without all the fuck-boy stuff ......... and I get SHUT DOWN. The girl will even say "I just want to meet a guy who runs a business and doesn't do drugs and has a level head" and it's like HELLLOOOOOO I'MMMM HEEERRREEEE!!! And then they go date a drug addicted degenerate. I fall back into that trap because of the negative influence of this forum and mainstream society that keeps telling me "A high quality woman will appreciate a high quality guy". Which is just flat wrong. I'm a high quality guy and I like HOT women. I often date Instagram models and strippers because they are insanely hot. You can laugh at this and call it a flaw in my character, but when you have a perfect 10 professional hottie riding your cock.... I gotta be honest, there are few physical pleasures in life on that level. So if I fall into the same trap, and I'm a quality guy I think ... then i gotta remind myself that women do too. And stop believing this "quality attracts quality" bullshit. Humans are humans. We like to feel super super super good whenever we can. So be a sexual guy with women and they will appreciate it. Stop correlating all this career and personal development shit with getting laid - too idealistic, not based in how reality actually works. Tyler" So does Tyler mean this exclusively for having sex and getting laid at the club? So does this mean getting laid as not orange will be difficult? Or because hes too orange value system and doesnt know better?

@Sahil Pandit 100% agree it seems like your need for a book is another escape from not doing the contemplation ponder if thats true and shift your focus to action and when you TRULY need theory, thats when you go get it

Hmm you're saying Leo falls under TJ's trap, but Leo is extremely big picture thinking about this I don't think Leo is boiling it all down to "all problems are caused from the ego" Because Leo approaches it with a multi-faceted approach At least so I thought? So is he saying... There's more to it than: Leo's "awareness alone is curative?" and Leo's "all problems are solved by an increase of consciousness"

@hedge this is fucking hilarious wait is that guy a comedian? okay, he said cunnilingual... hahahaha

@stevegan928 You could build some good friendships and crash at someones place! Or save up some and live in a foreign country Or build a green relationship with a girl, and live with her you have options!! brainstorm is your friend

For Green, you'll like Brene Brown's work. Her books are about vulnerability, compassion, connection, which are green values

@aurum

I feel so indoctrined from RSD culture into thinking that I have to be alpha to get the girl. It's really actually possible to get a girl from being VULNERABLE? You're saying do game with your insecurities on your sleeve????? WHAT??!! I NEED TO SEE THIS IN PERSON I HOPE IT"S TRUE authenticity is scary. but i think not being authentic is scarier

I tell my sister all the time. To achieve what you want, do what needs to be done. Read all the books, take all the action, embrace all the emotional labor. Take baby steps. Make sheets that remind you of your vision, keep you hopeful. Get creative, problem solve your challenges. It's all in your hands - you're 100% responsible for your life. Simple. But challenging. I also tell her, listen to your own advice! Which I must take my advice about listening to your own advice

Keep it up!!! Don't lose the discipline!! by the way, you will have easier days, hardish days, and SUPER hard days. On SUPER hard days, it's crucial you stick to your habits. Because it's those days that your will is tested.

this was thing that caused the most results for me, id highly recommend going to a center instead of your pill. neurofeedback is permanent, fast, cheaper, 5x more effective and has phenomenal reviews in curing mental health. sounds too good to be true honestly. I am 100% confident in its ability to *nearly* replace all pills for mental health. However, big pharma is a massive obstacle I highly highly recommend you read leo's book on this in the book list. after i experienced the benefits for myself, i wanted to share it to the world. the best knowledge is not mainstream!!