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@kieranperez the library near my house has rooms that you can rent for half a day. maybe try those

I think the following is standard: (at least for me) some similar interests fun is on an upward growth trend in life good EQ

I agree with Leo on this one I get to your point whenever my challenges are bigger than my capability. i continuously will have too high of a standard and keep failing it. i will get depressed, suicidal, and hate my life. however when i only slightly challenge myself daily, i feel so much more competent, capable and loving my life! it has so much to do with how big your challenge is. so set your bar MUCH lower! one problem I have is trying to do so many things at the same time. this straight doesn't work. and it's so tempting to want to do it all at the same time. what i'm learning is, i am consciously creating change in one area but with everything else, i apply awareness is curative! that way i can grow in everything remember covey's circle of influence and concern? just work on increasing it little by little. increase the bar higher and higher. and take failure as LESSONS not as FAILURE. failure makes you better I need someone to say this to me on a daily basis

this i know this is true, because i do the same exact thing.

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I've been doing it every morning for the past 4 months, so I can give some insight 1. What is the reason that you're doing this? Get clear about this, and what you want to get out of this. Having positive motivation will be very good because you'll be motivated to do the work regardless of how you're feeling 2. You can follow the weeks in the way he suggests - I'm not sure it matters too much. What I do is I just do whatever sentence completion my heart desires in the morning. Whatever I feel like I need most in that moment. I've found all 6 of them very useful, in their respective ways Make sure to contemplate and seriously answer the questions. I fell into a trap of being mechanical about it for some time Let your heart answer the questions, try not to think too much

In my past relationship, I would constantly always worry about whether not she liked me. It was extremely obsessive, and consistent. I would worry if she liked me, if she wanted to hang out with me, if I was good enough etc. It became extremely obsessive where I became extremely controlling and obsessive and needed her attention all the time. If I didn't have it, I started to fear that she didn't like me and I would be alone forever. However I find I am doing this with my friends too now. Girls, guys, it doesn't matter. With girls however, it's increased. Basically what happens is that I get nervous being around them, I equate this to not being able to give them a good time, because I notice a lack of excitement, authenticity, fun etc. I then get scared that they will no longer want to hang with me as soon as this happens because I was boring and couldn't really give them a good time. However, this fear is very strong on me and has a massive grip on me. I constantly am getting insecure and it is actually inhibiting myself to function because I'm constantly worried if others like me. the only way for it to be cured is through words of affirmation, attention or some kind of affection. It will affect me and I just can't let it go until I am reassured in someway, and when I'm reassured, I'm fine again I am pretty determined to get over this though. Words of advice, practices, things I can do?

I know some DJs that are so amazing at DJing but have no marketing ability

@daniel695 thank you i tried this, it helped a bunch actually @bejapuskas very true it's counterintuitive. when you stop caring, that's when they counter-intuitively care lol

https://www.youtube.com/user/everybodyhasabrain this helped me a bunch he has a course on OCD that helped me a bunch

Yellow: Eben pagan Orange: Jocko willink Turquoise: David r Hawkins

this is what i recall too

If it's about just sex, it's stage Orange I know stage Blue looks heavily down upon cheating

authenticity game seems like a nice niche to get into. it's like not barely* even a thing hmmm... opportunity??

can you make a video on how to be authentic

I noticed that my motivation to get my habits done is coming from a place of: do it otherwise you will never be good enough I noticed that if I give love to myself, my motivation to do the habits goes away. So to keep the habits my ego uses my self esteem to get the work done. I know this because I said to myself, if I loved myself what would I do? And i intuitively felt to drop my habits. However like this is so incredibly hard for me to do because I've spent the past year building up my habits and they do me much good actually. Is there something i can do to keep my habits?

someone give this man a spiral dynamics view of this. he's actually in china, we don't want to have him fall into the dogma

he has a talk on Gaia with his wife about relationships. i thought it was really inspiring. there really is a "one" relationship his book opportunity was very profound. great for business and life purpose. lots of juicy stuff and takes a yellow approach to it hes also been out of the course game like he used to. he's become an investor in other companies and helps those

Arguments wont solve anything and progress cant be had You cant change her. Her consciousness is too low Fighting for her approval when she wont give it to you is a losing battle Just do what you gotta do and drown out the noise. Like gary vee says, just smile and nod. Try to explain calmly and gently Observe your own triggeredness and how you stoop to her level, insults, anger etc. Recognize shes a human being with emotions too go to a psychologist who can explain to her that you need space These were my lessons

@Dan Arnautu +1 To OP - you need more clarity before you make a huge commitment like that

@bejapuskas is it possible to connect with a nutritionist?

Trying to skip steps Not following your heart Doing a new bad habit for more than a few days in a row

I can't help with this specific problem but having cancer twice could be a beneficiary, meaning that it may have forced her to study cancer and having gone through it gained a lot of lessons. But knowing the average person in society, she probably is very unaware of a holistic way of looking at it To disregard health and nutrition is silly advice... Food affects you on many levels. You can even tell when you eat something how it affects you. Whenever I eat junk food I feel like shit but whenever I eat fruits or veggies, I notice my mood and energy levels higher. listen to 1:16:02