d0ornokey

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  1. From 3 different perspectives I'm orange/green with touches of yellow
  2. Recently, I needed to switch to something that my health insurance would fully cover so I'm unsure of which kind of therapist would best fit me. Mostly, I'm looking for a developed individual with high understanding in emotional mastery, goal setting and relationships. Is that too much to ask for in a single person? Which type of profession should I be looking for? Life coach really fit me, but it usually isn't covered under my insurance.
  3. "Red may experience Orange as smooth, wishy-washy and too easy to adjust to the circumstances in order to get what they want. Orange will not openly communicate what it wants and plays a political game instead of taking a stand. Red experiences this as unclear, unreliable and disrespectful." http://spiraldynamicsintegral.nl/en/orange/
  4. Is food a need?
  5. I used to run 5ks daily, the occasional 5 mi Incremental progress Strong belief in your ability and capability Consistency And last but not least, a good why
  6. For me: I sometimes get flashes in my mind when someone texts me. I'll be sitting on my bed, and I'll get the image that someone texted me, and when I check, it's them. I notice synchronicity a lot. Coincidences that are just a bit too real to be coincidences. Like today I made an insight, and I had a friend tell me that exact same insight soon after I'd made that insight. Or another was a book that my friend told me about, my coach recommended me that same exact book the day after.
  7. I'm struggling with the same idea Kieran, I wrote this out for my insta a few hours ago, coincidence that it fits right here. Trying to live at other's standards can set extremely high expectations for yourself Dream big. But have the courage to be realistic. Sometimes it can be tempting that to want to do something exactly with the same level of expertise as someone else. If someone else did xyz, I can too! While that can be true, it can also set extremely unrealistically high standards for yourself that you may not be able to meet at this time. Sometimes it's best to consider your own situation, and what's right for you. Your life circumstances such as responsibilities, relationships, mental health, self-awareness, strengths, weaknesses, resources, knowledge will be different than that person So if you have your own struggles that you're dealing with, try not to compare yourself with them and what they've accomplished. They have their own unique life experience that allowed them to do what they are doing. Live from your own life experience and what is right for you. Sometimes what they are doing, and what they've done isn't correlated to you. You and your life circumstance are different. Do and live from what is right for you. It most likely can, and will be different. That's never to say the impossible isn't possible And to never underestimate your capabilities. But to have the wisdom to not compare yourself to others and allow yourself if you need to go slower. If you need more help. If you need to do something else. Or differently. Or later. I too am putting off more and more of my long term goals just so I can mentally function properly. I KNOW your struggle <3 2 months ago I let of enlightenment Few days ago I let go of not getting a job. I wanted to be business forever (to facilitate my LP) but now I see that's its practical for me as it's a very big challenge right now and I let go of business I started to let go of life purpose last night. Now I'm literally just working in my circle of influence. It feels really small, and comparing myself to others it sucks but it's just where I'm at and it's what I need.
  8. RSDtyler doesnt drink and taught thousands to game w.o. drinking
  9. For me its observing my motivations and the reasons I do things. Yeah i might have some "self-actualzied" results, but really I'm suffering because of the negative motivation it came from. Moralizing. Not doing something because it's bad. Dont be orange. Dont pursue game, money, hedonism, fun with friends etc. Because its orange and that's "bad". Instead, just keep it as a nice pointer, do what you want and grow. Becuase suppressing yourself really makes you suffer Trying to do too many things at once. It's really challenging to focus for me. There are some needs that I need badly fulfilled and dont want to let go. But I realize that if I want results I have no choice but to let go and work on them later.
  10. Imagine he won.... That would be crazy
  11. According to Eben Pagan life coaching is highly future oriented skill and large opportunity Digital Marketing is also fucking big. It's so cutting edge right now, high in demand and will be higher in the future.
  12. I found a wealth of knowledge in her how to open heart chakra and connecting with the heart Just watch the video, test the practice and contemplate her perspective You can develop some nice insights and results from it, she really did help me open up my heart chakra
  13. Yes, here's a good combo I like: Hard exercise for 25 mins (SWEAT) The do David R hawkin's letting go technique for whatever challenging emotion that I have
  14. great for relationships and emotional mastery
  15. this if you have a goal to lose 40 lbs in a year, and lose 400 calories a day, focusing on just losing 400 calories will help you lose all your weight by the end of the year
  16. Bad words Sex Talking about sex Looking at sex Condoms Not following the herd Breaking up with your girlfriend Porn Putting your feet on the couch when people are around Not doing things for the family Not being obedient Carving your own path Not doing a STEM or comp sci field
  17. Your body never felt a thing your entire life. All effect. All awareness. sort of had this insight recently. came up as an intuition, not words. hard to explain
  18. Leo linked a turquoise university here few months ago. That seemed cool. Forget what it was called
  19. Being using Lion's Mane to do work 30-35% productivity + focus increase Don't notice it worked until I'm done with work No side effects
  20. Did tj tell you this was coral lol