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yes it truly is a cancer they install soooo many limiting beliefs in you thankfully for PuA that teaches you that game is the only thing that matters, had i not found pua first, i may have been sucked in further than i would have liked

16personalities.com https://www.16personalities.com/intp-personality If you look at the INTP description, it describes leo so god damn perfectly. I got adventerur but like i dont feel like thats me. Hell. None of them fit me. I would love a type that describes me so perfectly as it does for leo. Does this just mean my self awareness is low?

This is my guess, you're overthinking it, trying to get the PERFECT answer. but rather the perfect answer doesn't exist and you must be okay with not knowing some of it and go through the exploration process to actually discover it. my guess is that you must truly commit to something, and discover through trial and error, creating a new mindset and chapter of commitment and discovery my guess is that you're being ocd about it to get the perfect answer as to prevent you from taking action, because action is scary, difficult and requires lots of change "i'm not sure what the answer is, and that's okay. i'm okay with that uncertainty" Another thing you can do is to sit down and watch leo's lastest video and ask yourself, "what is really happening here?" "what do I need to do?"

Seth Godin's AltMBA is Yellow. It's focus is on systems thinking

he didn't do this, he actually was speculating she was a cult leader. leo said he doesnt know much about her i've found teal's stuff helpful though. but when she does stuff like this im like what? her body language in that video is the same language i would give to someone if i'm lying.

@CreamCat hm whats so wrong with profanity? Is it a blue cultural phenomena? There are much worse things in our everyday speech than profanity that hurt our children

@Serotoninluv yes i thought the same word

she doesn't seem committed. that's the vibe im getting like why are there games in the first place? if she still likes her ex that feels like a red flag to me just my op are they always this messy?

what happened at the freetour? it's okay man. forgive yourself. you've made mistakes, now learn from them. that's just where you were at, and that's okay. your skills were simply just at that level. now it's opportunity to refine and try again just as you would for your next exam/business/marathon etc. and that's also not to say she's gone. btw u going to nyc freetour on thursday?

@Leo Gura fuck. Leo can u teach me how to get a million bucks? Why would i want nothing? Million bucks sounds better than nothin (Jokes lol)

@purerogue oh! now that i can resonate with

@SQAAD I cant pinpoint it to one thing. Lots of suffering which motivated me to read, do emotional practices, discover who i am, define what is happiness etc. Its a process Ill give u a better answer in the morning lol. Im tired rn

@Angelo John Gage if i came off a bit rude, sorry about that

I recommend you watch leo's how to be a man part 2 and spiral dynamics - green

If theres no sensitive informartion that can be leaked.

Naw, I'm a case study of that being incorrect. My self-esteem was low as fuck, now it's fluctuating between low and high. I'm working on making it consistently high Also, look at david goggins. Dude said he thought he was the "weakest mother fucker alive". Now he holds pull up records and some other shit like that. Runs super marathons and does other crazy shit. He now has strong beliefs about being able to do anything. That is at the very least, not the lowest self-esteem. Self esteem = Fixed mindset -> Strong growth mindset and Self - hate -> Self - love read nathaniel branden's books on self-esteem. there's some good case studies and information on self-esteem.

@Key Elements love the graph thanks. i really enjoy this outsourcing concept. i can get 100k in 1 year from the job and then invest it all, skipping from E -> I and giving me a year of my life It's unethical though. kinda feel like enron lol. but i would still be getting my employer top notch work, as the people im hiring would be more experienced than i am. that's the silver lining i guess I think the negatives of lying honestly might outweigh the financial gain though... Life doesn't feel so simple and perhaps there is no cheating the system I need to contemplate more. I've experienced resistance from friends and family when I brought the idea up

Men have problems talking about their feelings and being soft, due to our society telling men to "man up" whenever they experience hurt. This makes them feel as though their negative feelings are too feminine so they develop this belief that being soft = weak and they can't be weak. Being weak then becomes a bad thing, and they must be strong. So they pretend and identify with "strong" while ignoring the pain and hurt in them. Inside the man suffers. He needs to feel his pain. He needs to move out and gain comfort from others. Love and human connection from others is a very powerful force, most especially during this time. Many men experience pain and decades long periods of isolation due to never being to express who they are because they were taught by society/parents that they must be strong and cannot be weak. They never feel seen. They feel alone. And the feeling of alone-ness fucking stings. I think it's one of the much stronger negative feelings we experience Expressing your feelings and experiencing human empathy and bond is a very powerful and meaningful part of life They suppress and never feel. I disagree and encourage men to "soften up", express who they are and their vulnerabilities Hypothesis/Summary: Vulnerability takes courage The man does not express his true feelings because he is afraid to look feminine or weak. He is fearful of rejection from the fellow men and by women for being weak. "It is only during a man's time of fear where he can experience bravery. A man cannot be brave when there is no fear" Therefore, vulnerability takes courage Imo the message should be, "feel what you're feeling. It's okay. I love you. You matter"... I'm happy to hear rejections and disagreements, i would like to see where the holes in my philosophy are

Thought I was being a bad person by wanting to get a job and then just outsourcing it but I'm just stage orange. # rationalizations -- Moving into green removes hierarchies between men and women. It's all love. You no longer try to one up each other due to insecurities. You're human, she's human. It's all love -- The problem with asking people questions is that it can be done as a way of not actually putting in the work. It's not enough to intellectually know an answer. You must know the answer through experience. Knowing the answer intellectually has no power. Becoming conscious of the answer gives you the ability to see it in your life. As leo said in his depths of knowing video, when you become more conscious of an answer, you can now see it working in your life more. The understanding produces results. The quote now becomes working in your life. My fucking god. The entire point of life is to generate wisdom and consciousness through contemplation. You have to really contemplate and observe. You need to SEE the answer. Knowing intellectually fucking SUCKS DICK. You have to SEE Intellectually Knowing versus Seeing Intellectually knowing is when you have a belief on how reality works without it really working because you haven't truly understood that idea. Once you understand that idea on a deeper basis you know can see that idea working in our life. You are now much more conscious of that quote. It is a degree of consciousness. Intellectually knowing something is the first tier of consciousness. Insight is a much higher tier. You are conscious but only in that specific moment True consciousness is the highest tier when you now see it properly working in your life. You are now fully conscious of that idea. You are now a new person. A person with wisdom and consciousness. Leo says to discover things by yourself. It's right. That's the only way to do it. It's not enough to just believe someone. It can cause rules in your mind. That's what these spiritual people have. "it's not good to chase money" is a rule. Not an insight. I'm happy I pushed this far. +1 for today. I want to live an amazing fucking life and stop comparing myself to people. I'm excited to see what's to come as I master life more and more. I will never be on the same level as some people. There will always be people further along the path who have more advantageous circumstances. That is a fact of life. Do the best I can, with what I can. That's life.

Not sure about that. Leo didn't post yesterday

@Mezanti eben pagan talking about enlightenment? where can i find this talk

Wait huh. I thought you can "hide" your comments?

Honestly i would do some introspection to see what's wrong, what you're doing wrong and what you want from life. I'm starting to see that just doing what makes us happy, is how we be happy. It seems obvious on the surface but I really had to realize this from a lot of suffering. A goal takes undivided focus, passion, persistence, desire, faith and strategy. Which of these are you missing? Observe your thoughts and beliefs in this situation, try not to identify with them. Notice, they are just thoughts, not reality. I would try a letting go exercise from david r hawkins or sitting in nature and doing mindfulness meditation. both work for me Another thing is, take baby steps. I think often we try too hard to do everything and big things all at once, but really we just need to take one step at a time. The 1% increases everyday, and in a couple months you will see big progress. Like when you're bench pressing you start with the bar and it takes like a whole year to get to 135 lb bench. 45 -> 135. Also check your fundamentals, eating, sleeping, moving, friends? I find when any of the 4 is out of balance I can get pretty depressed Are you spending too much time inside? Nature is a biggie You're a smart guy, I've seen your posts before. You're just in a funk. Don't worry. Your psychology needs refining and you're hurt. Keep at it, you'll get to it eventually. You also need to go through a self-discovery process, who are you, what do you want, what makes you happy, what people do you click with, what is the meaning of life? what is your meaning? Fuck unrelated self-improvement for sometime and just focus on doing you and being happy and from there build a foundation of success/whatever you want. There is no quick fix, you need to continuously put in the work everyday. Patience, love.

@SFRL dont care about the job nor the referral, but care about the bosses feelings