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I have a friend who makes a decent living with teaching this. For him it just started when people offered him money to teach them. He is also very hard working and dedicated. PM me if you have more questions.

@Shiva Loving those crystal clear answers @B_Naz I dont know if you've already watched and understood this video but its also related to your question

You can also learn to have no preference over your emotions. You were designed in a way that contradicts the universe, so that the universe can feel this contradiction. How does it feel?

Every action is selfless because there is no such thing as a self. Also when you do something that makes you feel good you are also improving your environment.

I wouldnt define freedom like that regarding life purpose but you can still do it: If you want to be happy, become free of needing meaning in your work to be happy. You can be happy and still try to improve. The question is, what do you really want. Happiness or meaning? What else do you like?

He wrote recently in this forum that he doesnt do lucid dreaming. So Id guess its not something he finds much important.

Woa I experienced something very similar to this. When I was a child around 5-9 years Id say. I could look into a mirror, look into my eyes (like in the bathroom of my school) and really doubt that the image on the mirror was me. I just had to look into a mirror for some time and I got a very intense body feeling. A bit like fear but it was more intense and I snapped out of it after a few moments. I guess because it was too intense for me. I also did it a few times because I was curious about it. I tried it again now but it didnt work.

No one here watches sports, as its just a distraction, catering to low consciousness chimps. From a sports perspective it was completely unnecessary and dumb for Khabib to do this. But the sport is not what is most valueable to UFC, payTV and generally people in power of what happend. Entertainment is most valueable. For example, the bus thing was used as a promotion by UFC for the fight. So in that bigger context it was the right thing to do. Otherwise, the two heavy security guards standing besides Khabib would have intervened while he climbed over the fence. Take this together with adrenaline & wanting to get revenge for the family insults Id say its a lot of stage blue as well.

I find it a bit annoying at times as well. But for me its not that saying "your lazy, do this, you dont do it because xyz", its how he says it. The tonality and loudness make my ears feel boo boo...

@Nahm You are implying only a free person can spread something else than misery? If I look at history I see countless of people doing meaningful things while not being "free", whatever that means. And Im very grateful for them. I dont understand this forums obsession with freedom. When love, connection and consciousness are also on the table. @Elisabeth For me meaning: highly subjective, if I do stuff that is directly aligned with the impact I want to have on the world I find it meaningful. impact: any outcome that is not contributing to the constant fearmongering taking place every second in society. Could be anything from being loving & kind to a stranger on the street to awakening millions of people. purpose: like meaning. Doing work that feels authentic to what I am / think I am.

What exactly is your dilemma? You like to be more with yourself instead of socializing. Thats ok. If you'd like to change that look at your thoughts on socializing. Maybe you find it boring, so try to spice it up and socialize with people who share your values. Or talk more about stuff that interests you or make other people laugh. If your sozializing brings you fun times and deep connections with people you might become more interested in it.

On a side note: If your eyes hurt from too much work on a computer, get f.lux. Its a program that adjusts the colour on your screen to be warmer. You might know this feature from newer phones.

Watch this documentary on Edward Berneys In short, to get people to buy things that they want and not only things they need the consumer was born. Now Im not to tell what came first, the need for people to be consumers or Edward Berneys PR tactics. Either way, people became individualistic, allowing for identification with being a consumer which helped democracy & capitalism to succeed. I guess you know that some form of marketing is needed, otherwise no one would know the product exists. Now imagine you do some marketing. You have to invest money to get eyeballs (or time). Would you rather use a pitch that creates 1% conversion or would you rather use an incredible pitch that gives you 10% conversion?

Well here is how I go about it 20% spirituality 80% letting scientist find a way

Because its easy Being grateful is fucking hard man

The same risks hold true for being honest about the present? I dont see your point. The past is an important part of you, so if you did something stupid you should have learned something from it. You dont have to tell everything in the beginning. For example if you murdered someone you might first want to build a strong connection and relationship before telling that. Just dont lie.

1. Release the feeling you get when you have SA (do that at home, while remembering a situation) 2. On the street outside: Relax your body (watch Leos last video on this if you haven't) 3. Change your mindset. From something like "people are mean" "I am awkward" to "Most people are cool" "Im the coolest guy" "everything will be fine". This can take a while.

Forming deep emotional connections & being yourself pretty much contradicts with only caring if people accept you. That doesnt mean you have to tell everyone that you dont like what they like. Just dont lie. You can always agree on the fact that you can understand their perspective and thats it. If they ask your opinion say it. Polarization is a great tool for filtering people to your personality. For example, by not letting people know your high paying job, yes you are not triggering their low self-esteem and they dont become jelly. On the other hand you just assume that they cant handle it and ultimately your dishonest. You might understand that many people do not want someone in their life who thinks little of them and is dishonest. You could say that with this behaviour your not filtering out the poeple that dont fit your current personality/lifestyle (low self-esteem, jelly) and alienate those that you actually want to connect with (cool/happy with their job, happy for you). Do you see how your behaviour leads to this exact outcome? I find asking questions is a great way to connect with people (what you already do), dont be afraid to ask deep/personal questions. Make sure to ask yourself these questions and you have good stuff to talk about.

I dont know what you are here for and you didnt ask a question but here are 3 practical tips for you: 1. Ignore the stalker. 2. If you cant ignore the stalker change accounts/nicknames, report the person on the places where they are stalking you. Be careful what you share online, maybe create multiple accounts. If the stalking goes on, check your computer for virus/malware. Last step would be to contact the authorities but dont expect that they can/will help you if there is no threat other than posts & messages about your appearance. 3. Work on your self-esteem. Start to expand your inner beauty.

Thinking that you can always improve is the first step. Actually doing the work is even more difficult. At least I find that to be true for myself. Changing habits requires tremendous willpower, vision and new beliefs. Fighting against homeostasis. No one can tell you how to live your life. Most people will tell you not to take a relationship as a project and I can see where they are coming from.

Daydreaming and whishful thinking are not how LOA works. By wishing you will have them back you did not use LOA effectively. To apply it you would be realizing that you already have them back! Then again LOA ist not a magic pill or anything, it just sets you up best to achieve whatever you want in lfe. It wont do all the work for you.

What do you define as ego? Go on please.

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Recently heared a speach by Osho in which he talks about the differences between feminine and masculine energy in the universe. Im a man and this was very interesting to me because until then I just assumed that the way I go about conscious work, awareness and connection would also be how everyone else does it. Here is what he said: Men care about truth, reality and how to create things in reality (e.g. spaceships). They want to figure out how reality works and whats is true and what is not. That has really been my whole life. Figuring out reality, questioning reality and searching for the Truth. Well turns out, for women its none of that. While men are interested in emprinting themselfs on nature. Nature is only interested in the uterus, because the uterus gives birth. The uterus is inside of women, so they are much more centered in themselves. Women are not interested in building spaceships because the uterus is already inside of them. So anyone on the feminine side of things care to explain this a bit more? I really want to inspire people to do conscious work and need a better understanding of the female mind regarding metaphyics, so I can include women as well.

"You are absolute infinity / nothing"