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Heavily depends on your state in life. 1. Depressed -Inspect what in your lifestyle gives you energy and what depletes it. So getting rid of junk food, video games, netflix, youtube, porn. See where in live you give away power/responsibility. Where are you judgemental. Where do you hurt others? -Do stuff that gives you energy. Drink lots of water, do some sport, eat some fruits, eat some nuts etc. Find out what activity that is for you. Meditation, Yoga, Do nothing. And as leo said, aligning yourself with your life purpose. Figure out what you value in life and work towards it. 2. Normal -Start embodying your values. Find ways to embody them more and more. -Define life purpose. Learn about your life purpose. Practice your life purpose. -Network and surround yourself with people who share your values. -Psychedelics, solo-retreats -Learn about emotions. Release emotions like fear of death, fear of loosing control and fear of not being accepted. 3. Almost enlightened(?) -By now you have figured out practical ways to live your values. So you are almost always maxing them out. Allocate enough time for these practices. -Share what skills and knowledge you have with others. Find one or more student(s) you can teach personally. -Find ways to inspire a revolution you like to see in the world. -Gift your life purpose to the world. Allocate time to create, create and create! -On an emotional basis: You feel aware, calm, complete, free, centered, love, peace -Visualize and materialize what improves your situation and release every barrier that comes up. -Break down dualities to non-dualities, become very lucid. These are just three made up stages to get the idea.

I like your observation! Yes many things are refurbished. But there is also original stuff evolving. Emerging from infinite intelligence. Words, music, ideas, pictures. They are all tools. Tools to express yourself and mostly to manipulate (can be good). Now if you dont fit these to our current culture, to our era, to a person, to YOU etc. To make them appealing. Then your tool doesnt work. No matter how original or new it is. At which point you could just stop with it.

Its only hard because you think that you are important.

Yes, I remember back when I was younger I got bored. I was bored? And I distinctively rememebr reading a book that described a person who was never bored. How he wasnt even sure what the concept was and he was perplexed when his friend told him he was bored. It is so long ago I dont remember which book but must have been some of that self-help stuff out there. It really changed how I looked at boredom and made me decide to never be bored again... It somehow emotionally and logically convinced me. So if Leo would make a video about it he might look at what boredom is. What is it essentially? Its kind of a state, in which you are waiting. Waiting for something to happen. Something entertaining maybe? Maybe if you realize that you dont need to be entertained in any way. And become fully responsible for making things happen on your own, your problem with boredom will be solved.

Here is a list of 10 things that are harder: -Meditation -Self-Inquiry -Getting in touch with your emotions -Stop labeling / non-needy perception -Yoga -Getting rid of neurotic behaviour -Making money -Being grateful -Breaking through beliefs that put you down / the barrier around your heart -Start to build a habit of practice and learning in your desired life purpose -Learn to embody your values to the fullest I could go on and on. There is so much that is harder than getting over boredom. The last time I felt bored was maybe 10 years ago

Allright cool. Its just advice tho. Actualized doesnt force you to become this spiritual guru. You are learning a new skill. Lazyness is one thing. Sitting on your computer is one thing. Getting validation in an online forum, having deep cravings for an intimate relationship, a deep need for having control over your surroundings. Go inward and see what is really there. There lies great potential in you for unlimited change, growth and contribution. Build a strong relationship with yourself. Be someone you can trust. You know people who have great coaches in their life and learn so fast? You can be that coach for yourself. When you found out what you want to accomplish, get the skills, get the practice and at the same time learn that there is nothing to accomplish. You are already complete. There is nothing wrong with being lazy as well. But it will make you deeply miserable if its a way to run from your problems. Being miserable is ok, too.

You need to think bigger. What excites you? Also do you feel insecure about becoming a psychologist? Maybe you have a resistance because you feel like you cant do it. You can work on that resistance.

Feels to me more like you feel lonely rather than bored. Thing is, even with 1000 friends you will still feel lonely. We are alone here. You dont need someone else. When you can accept that. Go ahead watch some of this videos https://www.youtube.com/user/charismaoncommand Then apply yourself in the real world. You will make friends pretty fast.

This is a question an intelligent AI may answer?

Easy. You bring it into consciousness. Do this exercise. Ask yourself if you can give yourself love and acceptance. If yes. Ask yourself if you can give yourself yet a little bit more love and acceptance. If not. Ask yourself what is stopping you from giving yourself love and acceptance. Feel into it. Repeat until you are at the point where you cant give yourself more love and acceptance. There are many techniques to release emotions. One starting book would be the sedona method. You can find more if you just search the internet.

Seems to me like you are still emotionally attached to him. Let go. You cant move forward if you are still holding on to some thing of the past. Over romanticizing past relationships also happens to many people. We tend to only think about the good stuff and forget about the bad stuff. Or the other way around depending on the movie we want to play in our head.

Well you are lucky. Life is a love simulator! You are already whole, release the resistance that comes up to feel it.

What exactly is that value? What behaviour do you mean? In general, if it is something that is important to you then its your value! The importance you assign to some values will change during your life.

And dolphins! You dont know what these fish dolphins are up to! Topic: Much of his appeal to the masses is his charisma and debating skills. Only watched a few videos in 2018 I think.

Read the replies here in this thread. There are many ways, meditation, experience, reading a book etc. Its your job to see what works best for you. Everyone is different.

How much did you learn in this time? 1.5 years is really not that much. I have a friend who coaches and has around 10 years of experience. Not saying you need that. But if this is your purpose, go all out for it! Read everything you can find and practice a lot. Leading by example, people need to be convinced that you are actually good.

Its your ego and needyness for validation and control. There are many ways you can go to grow out of that. When you realize that you dont need either validation or control you have grown.

You can do sales that have a win-win effect instead of begging your clients for money. Getting a sales job sounds like a good idea to get the skills. Otherwise you could sell your own product and service and see how it is. Dont overthink this. Sale > Business. If you can sell something you have a business. You dont need anything else. You can literally have a nice office, employees, website, coorporate identity and great product - If you dont have sales or eyeballs, you dont have a business.

That would be davinci resolve. Its a pro software with a free version. But like other good software its a but complicated to use. So maybe there is something different that fits your needs.

Many people swim, breath and live in this "venom". Thats why they spray it around. Most you can ignore. In some situations they may try to manipulate you in some way by saying this. Ask yourself what their underlying motive is. If its someone you really look up to or value their opinion. Ask what made them say it. Let them explain it to you. Different perspectives can be of value and maybe you can improve with their feedback. When you go and do your thing, expect people to try to pull you down. Is normal. Nothing personal.

You get better and faster with time.

To meditate I just become present. And try to stay present. Some other techniques I use are "Body scan or progressive relaxation", "Breath awareness meditation" and some form of "Loving/Kindness meditation". Yeah I know it has nothing to do with visualization. I suggested the sedona method for you to try to get to your goals. You see, for me visualization is like the decoration of a house - while releasing emotions is the fundament. The roots so to say. Which can be different for everyone. You might want to see this video to understand the importance of releasing.

Well, we dont know how their relationship is. But I think she might be right that sexuality is a big part of why people watch the series? Here is the "story" https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-6989675/Man-reveals-girlfriend-banned-watching-Game-Thrones-shes-JEALOUS.html

Ah ok, that for me is more self actualization than meditation. So this can definitely work. I would also suggest you try to release all the emotions that block you from feeling the "positive" ones. Look up for example on the "sedona method" if you dont know what I mean.

I cant recommend any material but you can get great results from releasing the emotions that make you needy / reactive.