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This video covers some aspect of your request. Id suggest you watch it. Especially the last part where he lines out the actual path to get out of it. Basically be highly creative and find unique ways to provide value.

There are two things I can recommend you. Internal-fix You get down to business with your emotions. Feel into that part of you, that needs validation. That part that is vulnerable and scared. Release the arising emotions when you feel into it. Imagine a scenario where you felt social anxiety and feel the feeling in your chest. Feel into it as much as you can. Then feel even more into it. External-fix Surround yourself with people who dont give a fuck. By seeing how they behave freely you start to copy their behaviour.

Well you said it yourself, you kinda suspected something to be off. So you were totally conscious of everything that happened and you let it happen. If you would be 100% against having sexual intercourse with a transgender you wouldnt be in the situation you are in now. Why? I dont know. Could be because you have homosexual tendencies or could be because you were needy for some intimate connection. And thats cool. A lot of hairy masculine guys with big dicks and strong muscles did the same thing. They were very hetero and very masculine before having sex with a transgender. And they are even more hetero and masculine after having sex with a transgender. Maybe they hardend their position for not having sex with transgender woman based on their experience. Who knows? But very masculine 100% Another thing. You said you wanted to hurt her like she hurt you. Ok. But then you said you wanted to punch her. That doesnt make sense, because she didnt punch you! She hurt you emotionally and not physically. So you need another plan! Something that maybe involves a transgender man to have sex with her.

What do you think has changed? Change is good. Keep on changing! Sorry I have some trouble understanding you, maybe try some time without drugs and see where it leads you to?

Why is knowing something is a concept not enough to get rid of traumatic psychology A: Because emotions are still there and you need to disidentify with the issue Bee-anxiety A: When you try to capture a bee the next time, feel into the fear that arises. Say yes to the fear. See what happens. Cancer-healing-hero A: Find out what in you has this need for approval. Feel into it. Then let it go (could be a long process). I would suggest you check out Leos videos on emotional mastery.

Recently read an interesting "fact" about taxes in the book "Rich Dad Poor Dad" by Robert T. Kiyosaki. It said that taxes came from the robin hood idea of "taking from the rich and give to the poor" but are actually used to make rich people richer by only taxing the middle class. Not sure if that is true but it sounds about right ------------ For me the tax=theft? topic can be split into two categories: 1. Who pays the taxes? The poor mostly pay consumer taxes. Middle class pays both consumer and income tax. The usual employee works 4 to 5 month a year just to pay taxes. The rich pay consumer taxes and maybe income tax. And the really rich often get away with less taxation. I think as an employee you should be spending reasonably more on taxes the more you earn. For companys who circumvent paying taxes I think its theft if they do so by having offshore "tax havens" and that should be forbidden. If they do it by reinvesting their profit into the business I think its fair because they help to grow the economy. That said there should be extra taxations, like CO2-tax and Automation-tax. 2. Where does the government spend the tax money? I think its usefull to spend it on education, infrastructure, health care and so on. But I feel like many tax dollars are wasted because the government is inefficient. These "publicly owned businesses" naturally strive for survival. Maybe creating work where no work is needed and that needs to be stopped. I think the people in these jobs also die inside day after day because they do nothing or do unnecessary work. But thats just a symptom of an "uninspired" society as a whole. Thats also why I am for a basic income. Also interesting fact for most people. Because of the taxes you pay, every dollar you can save is equal to earning 1.60$! Keep that in mind when you look over your monthly expenses!

Hey there, so I dont know if you know him but Timothy Marc has a free Masterclass going right now, I thought you might be interested in. Wether or not this is all part of a marketing campaign, you are getting stuff for free. And maybe some of it is useful for you: https://freetraining.timothymarc.com/past-episodes/ In a nutshell: Timothy (former RSD Tim) has a Coaching Programm he sold the last ~6 years, for about 6.000USD called "Secret Society Mastermind". Only opens on one day each year. But now he stopped and disappeared for a year. Last week he came back and now holds a rather private live webinar series (~100 people tune in each session). Which teaches mostly the same stuff he did the previous years but NEW What hes about: Motivating you to live a life of "freedom fun and adventure" with a vision of "The Perfect Day". Creating "Value out of thin air" and tapping into the "Green River" (the constant money flow going on in the internet) by "Solving Pains & Problems". Walking down the "Dark Tunnel Of Doom" 80% percent of your time instead of doing research and theorizing about it. Launch a campaign with "Boldness" knowing that success is deeply intertwined with social constructs (ie. overcoming limiting beliefs). Find a "One Key Fan" that you can sell to, so niche niche niche! And use https://www.similarweb.com/ and http://web.archive.org/ to analyse competition and learn which campaigns work and which dont. And a few more things, also the course is still going on right now. Bad parts first: This definitely a beginner guide to online marketing. Dont expect detailed sophisticated techniques! And I dont even know if what he says works. Most of his advice seems sound and makes sense. But some people claim that they didnt lead to much success for people: https://lazymoneymaking.com/timothy-marc-secret-society-mastermind-follow-up-review Good parts: I think the beliefs he talks about to have as an entrepreneur are very good. Its motivating and entertaining to hear how Timothy conveys his teachings. Allthough one can argue that his persona seems a bit fake, I like the positivity he brings to it. As you see Im kinda torn on what I think about this. Feel free to ask me more about him or tell me your opinions on his teachings.

The inherent nature of this place. To find the truth. Its not as relevant for feminine endeavours as it is for masculine ones. The feminine path is a bit neglected on here. And I dont know how much Leo wanted to address the feminine in his recent video about the point of life...

Sometimes they do. Sometimes they dont. Here is an example where they actually have advice on how to avoid common social traps that could limit your capacity to act authentic. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HR5P2fKs89I Around the 8 minute mark.

What are these things?

Its like when you ask yourself. Does the universe end in the next room? NO it doesnt. Does it end outside my house? NO it doesnt. Does it end at the end of my street? NO it doesnt. Does it end after the plastic on my keyboard? NO it doesnt. Does it end when I zoom in, all the way to the atoms and beyond, on my keyboard? NO its doesnt. Does it end under your bed? NO it doesnt. No matter how far you go. It never ends. Because it doesnt have an "end". "End" is a human concept that doesnt exist in the real world. That is why a tiger doesnt end where an elephant begins. Or why the earth doesnt end where the sun begins. And so on.

Feel the sadness and rage. Welcome it. Its all good. You just try to suppress your feelings, that doesnt work out.

You are a bit too direct. Do some small talk first. Laugh and have fun. This way you can already see if she has time or not right now. If she is in a rush, you can calibrate. Whish her a nice day and leave. If she has time for small talk, maybe around 5 minutes, and doesnt seem to be in a rush. THEN you can ask her. Also if you are making plans for future dates, suggest one or two days (maybe Friday afternoon and Wednesday evening). If she declines and doesnt suggest any other day its a good sign that you are wasting your time.

Who told you to be nice? You dont have to be nice. Just be ImHooper.

Im not sure you and me have the same definition for success And also if it would be like that. I guess there are 864729101 people who have a vision of ruling the world. And then there are even more people who have a vision of living a life of freedom and peace. Which kind of goes against each other. So by making one person fullfill his vision you denied thousands or millions their vision. Have you checked out Leo's video on the related topic?

You need to chill more. Chill more with all the calculating and especially with how harsh you are on yourself. For doing something that is pretty normal to do. Most people do so, to some extend. Its helpfull if you dont want to get fucked over by someone. CreamCat already gave some good advice. Here are my suggestions. See how much you value your relationship(s). And I dont mean "Ah you mean everything to me" kind of stuff. You really need to reconsider materialistic and interpersonal worth. How much is this relationship worth to me? And is it a good decision to risk it for x-amount of money. I think people around you might also feel that you are not generous with your money. Which in turn makes them less generous. Maybe try to be more generous and other people will be, too? And if not, what does it say about them? Then you might also want to look at your relationship with money itself. What does it mean to have money? Is getting money hard or easy? Is there enough or too little? Maybe its just that you are living above your means (because your boyfriend earns more). You could tell him that its stressfull for you and you could try to live more frugal. Or find some other solutions. Either way, I think it would be good to talk with him about it

Yes. Time doesnt exist. Sorry time! Sometimes times goes by slow, sometimes fast. I found.

It will depend heavily on what the actual value is. And then again what the value means to you (everyone has a slightly different view on each value). If honesty would be my value I would maybe call all my friends and tell them something I was afraid to tell them before. And would maybe encourage them to share something with me. You could also ask yourself "Where am I bullshitting myself" or "Where am I not completely honest with myself". You can do that every day, every week, every month. Just make it a habit. Then feel into what stops you from being honest, what are you afraid of? Then release this fear. Im really not that experienced with releasing emotions but I think most techniques work well. For me it all comes down to 1. feeling the emotion. So most likely, when your are at home you dont feel "fear" or what ever you want to release right now. So you need to bring it up again. You can do that by imagining again the situation where you felt that specific emotion. Do it as best as you can. Then the emotion will start to come out again. So after you can feel it now 2. you have to say yes to it. Give that emotion space to be there. After all you just summoned it right? Also there are no good or bad emotions. Just emotions. If you feel utterly like shit and highly depressed. You can be thankfull for having this deep feeling right now. It means you are human. Then repeat step 1. and 2. They will increase like a spiral. After you agreed to the emotion. It will grow more. Then it will be harder to still say yes to it. You do it again and it grows again. It will grow more and more and more. Until you cant even imagine how you can feel so much? At this stage you might have puke. Its normal. When you have purely felt the emotion and might even learned something from it. Then the emotion is happy that you listened and will go away. Such is life. A good book might be the "Sedona Method", the Yes-Technique Is really good. Should be in the book.

Well it depends on what you define as being the best. But if you mean it like in being "successfull" like making a lot of money, banging a lot of chicks, being on the higher end of the social hierachy. Then its because of survival. The ego is constantly in fear of being erased. Of dieying. So the number one interest for the ego is survival. The more ressources, the better. Then comes validation. Because like foreign countries, it doesnt exist if no one acknowledges its existence. Then there come many other things it wants and how it does what it does to suck power and validation from you. Yes, stage orange dictates this behaviour. The ego follows it because its the best way for survival in orange world.

Heavily depends on your state in life. 1. Depressed -Inspect what in your lifestyle gives you energy and what depletes it. So getting rid of junk food, video games, netflix, youtube, porn. See where in live you give away power/responsibility. Where are you judgemental. Where do you hurt others? -Do stuff that gives you energy. Drink lots of water, do some sport, eat some fruits, eat some nuts etc. Find out what activity that is for you. Meditation, Yoga, Do nothing. And as leo said, aligning yourself with your life purpose. Figure out what you value in life and work towards it. 2. Normal -Start embodying your values. Find ways to embody them more and more. -Define life purpose. Learn about your life purpose. Practice your life purpose. -Network and surround yourself with people who share your values. -Psychedelics, solo-retreats -Learn about emotions. Release emotions like fear of death, fear of loosing control and fear of not being accepted. 3. Almost enlightened(?) -By now you have figured out practical ways to live your values. So you are almost always maxing them out. Allocate enough time for these practices. -Share what skills and knowledge you have with others. Find one or more student(s) you can teach personally. -Find ways to inspire a revolution you like to see in the world. -Gift your life purpose to the world. Allocate time to create, create and create! -On an emotional basis: You feel aware, calm, complete, free, centered, love, peace -Visualize and materialize what improves your situation and release every barrier that comes up. -Break down dualities to non-dualities, become very lucid. These are just three made up stages to get the idea.

I like your observation! Yes many things are refurbished. But there is also original stuff evolving. Emerging from infinite intelligence. Words, music, ideas, pictures. They are all tools. Tools to express yourself and mostly to manipulate (can be good). Now if you dont fit these to our current culture, to our era, to a person, to YOU etc. To make them appealing. Then your tool doesnt work. No matter how original or new it is. At which point you could just stop with it.

Yes, I remember back when I was younger I got bored. I was bored? And I distinctively rememebr reading a book that described a person who was never bored. How he wasnt even sure what the concept was and he was perplexed when his friend told him he was bored. It is so long ago I dont remember which book but must have been some of that self-help stuff out there. It really changed how I looked at boredom and made me decide to never be bored again... It somehow emotionally and logically convinced me. So if Leo would make a video about it he might look at what boredom is. What is it essentially? Its kind of a state, in which you are waiting. Waiting for something to happen. Something entertaining maybe? Maybe if you realize that you dont need to be entertained in any way. And become fully responsible for making things happen on your own, your problem with boredom will be solved.

Here is a list of 10 things that are harder: -Meditation -Self-Inquiry -Getting in touch with your emotions -Stop labeling / non-needy perception -Yoga -Getting rid of neurotic behaviour -Making money -Being grateful -Breaking through beliefs that put you down / the barrier around your heart -Start to build a habit of practice and learning in your desired life purpose -Learn to embody your values to the fullest I could go on and on. There is so much that is harder than getting over boredom. The last time I felt bored was maybe 10 years ago

Allright cool. Its just advice tho. Actualized doesnt force you to become this spiritual guru. You are learning a new skill. Lazyness is one thing. Sitting on your computer is one thing. Getting validation in an online forum, having deep cravings for an intimate relationship, a deep need for having control over your surroundings. Go inward and see what is really there. There lies great potential in you for unlimited change, growth and contribution. Build a strong relationship with yourself. Be someone you can trust. You know people who have great coaches in their life and learn so fast? You can be that coach for yourself. When you found out what you want to accomplish, get the skills, get the practice and at the same time learn that there is nothing to accomplish. You are already complete. There is nothing wrong with being lazy as well. But it will make you deeply miserable if its a way to run from your problems. Being miserable is ok, too.

You need to think bigger. What excites you? Also do you feel insecure about becoming a psychologist? Maybe you have a resistance because you feel like you cant do it. You can work on that resistance.