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Do you mean to imply that feeling lonely is a bad thing?

You went on TWO dates with her and now you judge the future of this relationship on her slow texting habit? Have you tried 1. Talk to her about it? 2. Call her instead of texting? 3. Be true to your own values and stop texting her, if you dont like it?

I dont think you have no goals. You have goals but there is a voice in your head that says to all this goals "You cant do that, your are too dumb/mediocre/untalented etc. for that". Society created this voice in your head. Do you watch Leos videos? They could be helpful. Also if you cant come up with any goal right now. Your new goal is to find a goal that will make your life more fulfilling and inspiring. So work on your self, thank the voice that keeps on telling you, that you are not worthy, for his work and leave it behind. On the outside I would recommend you do a cold turkey on computer time. Stop using the computer after work for 2 weeks. Of course also no tv or phone. Go for a walk, read a book or write a journal instead. Even just doing nothing would be helpful.

There is also a book about it from an australian woman who worked in palliative care. The 5 things are: -Not having the courage to live your own life -Not staying in touch with friends -Working too much -Not expressing emotions -Posting videos without any context, thoughts or discussion in online forums

Why do you feel the need to rid yourself free of responsibility? Do you like to have a comfy live and blame others? You are responsible! The point is not to be shamed for being responsible but to be powerful - to activate a force in you that sets things in motion. Instead of feeling powerless and let everything stay as it is. Humble brag

This You can be nice and will be good with woman. But you cant be needy an be good with woman. Thats the difference.

This guy has some good ideas I think

Interesting topic. I see there are a lot of Yoga places opening, so you might have a lot of competition depending on where you live. On the other hand there also seems to be big market, which is interested in your "product". Which is a very good sign! I dont know about yoga in particular but as with any coaching or training, the method of giving as much as you can first and reep the benefits later should work here as well. You have to have a mindset of wanting to teach people yoga, not just in your courses, not just for getting paid. You need an intrinsic desire to help these people. Give tips and help out people wherever you go. This way, when someone wants to start to learn yoga, they might heard of this guy, a friend has talked about, giving this really good and helpful yoga tips! You want to be that person. Your income will be a forumlar of how big your reach/network is and how good you are at teaching people. The higher your reach/network and the better you become at teaching, the higher will be your income. Some people think they only have to be good at something and then they acan be a succesfull coach. Wrong! These two factors will define your income. So make it a habit to work on them as much as you can.

You lost your mojo because you became needy. You think you need a ONS, a relationship, a marriage to make you happy. Let go of all these needs. Let go of the need to make everything perfect, let go of the need for safety, let go of the need for their validation. That way you become more happy and free in the now = better at interacting with woman.

No, but if you like to you can do it. Authentic blablabla. Also some girls think its cute.

Dont look for happyness outside. Have you tried to give everything to one path? You see, all path ultimately lead to nothing. Just take the path your heart is telling you to do and be done with it. After developing mastery in your field, whatever wisdom you want to share, you will find a way to do that within your path. And if it means to change your path, than that is allright, too

Watch some charisma on command videos. They have good tips on how to defuse situations like that. It just seems like they dont like you. As long as they talk behind your back, its hard to do anything. Maybe point out to them, that talking behind someones back like that is just plain rude. If I were in your position I would befriend the group. One by one. At least some, if they are otherwise ok people. Talk to them, share some stories, some laughs. I would also write down any bullying, mobbing they do and go to lawyer. But thats just me playing the system. I think there might be easy money to make.

Re: Nazis election blog post Trumps speak (I didnt watch everything) was interesting and of course devilry. But he didnt say over the top racist stuff. He seems to be entertaining and very confident. I can see how people want to root for him. He presents himself as if he does what he promises and gets the results he wants. Action action action. I know a lot of people were frustrated with the former president so they like him for a change. And his arguments seem logical on the surface. The video of Hitler didnt convey your point for me really. Of the things you listed only very few were in this (short) video. demagoguery (maybe), collective self-deception, group think, cult psychology (maybe), ideology, egotism, devilry, ignorance, unconsciousness, selfishness, division, projection, scapegoating, demonization, judgment, denial, self-bias, confirmation bias, corruption, xenophobia, racism, and fear. I dont know what self-bias is. You might meant self-serving bias. Which I wouldnt say was evident in here as well. If you just wanted some random video of him then ok I get your point. But then you could've just as well put a picture. Compared to Trump (joking, confident) Hitler seemed sad. Like he is in a very bad situation, mustering together his last motivation. Speaking to a broken nation. In the end it is neither Trump nor Hitler who is to blame, just ego, nature and survival. Looking forward to the new video!

Don't make it to hard for you to fall in love. Its really the best. And if you love yourself you will be fine whatever will happen. Also fear and love are negatively correlated.

try eat less salt, more potassium. Your heart beat will be softer.

@Ella Yes thats how I see it as well. As Leo said in his video. Having kids is the ultimate purpose creator in our society, which is considerably lacking in purpose. Now I dont say having kids is bad and I am open to having kids myself. Who doesnt like kids? They represent being in our doing culture I would also be interested in material about deeper relationships. What comes to mind now would be Eckhart Tolle. Power of Now has a part about relationships. Maybe Teal Swan, I think she might has some videos about the topic as well.

Interesting question. From a distance its hard to give you a clear answer. What I experienced is, that if you can release all your needs that you bring into a conversation. You wont be draining so much energy. Actually now I feel more energetic after socializing. If you are constantly trying to please everyone and need validation from them. And you have to think about what you want to say etc. it takes a lot of energy. Also it depends on the people. With the right kind of people that you have common interests with it can be really fun. You can learn some social skills to increase the likelihood of having these conversations.

Well you have to know if the grind is worth it. Consider how long it takes to get the phd. What would be your options after you have the phd. Where else can you get an phd in analytical phsyics. Did you start looking for other phd programs? What are your options. Are you willing to move for another phd. It seems pretty clear to me that you have to quit. But if this is your only way to get your dream job, then you have to do it of course. Keep your eyes open, there might be another way.

You can always share the present moment with someone. And you can make it your mission to not get side tracked too much. You are not "blank" you are the expression of god. And you dont even have to be aware of it.

Not necessarily, take this for example https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KBCcDrG2NjM Being charismatic is often a byproduct of being a succesfull artist, comedian, actor etc. Because you give people what they want, they are thankful and appreciate you for that. But I would guess most very charismatic people are not A-list celebrities.

The way I see it, your consciousness is something that you posess naturally. You just arent really tuned in because of all the distractions you indulge in. This video has plenty of examples Also this

Yes great video! For me your video on being vs deficiency cognition (Needy vs non-needy perception) was also very practical. On the other hand aren't both videos the same?

So what I took from the last video "what is reality?" is that consciousness creates differences. Consciousness however has no differences, it is one. So I wanted to start a list of things that are the same The streets & the cars are the same My hand & the air around it are the same Breath & an avocado are the same Pixels on your screen & gravity are the same Leos voice & a plant are the same Feeling good & feeling bad are the same The feeling of my lips pressing against my teeth & the smell of a new car are the same The floor & the table are the same My idea about a lamp & a lamp are the same Do you agree? What else is the same?

Your love is very partial. Focus on your feeling of love and expand it to everything around you. If you do that you will see that there is no problem. If you want a solution to your imaginary problem. Id say enjoy your time with both. Dont tell them about the other. See how things evolve. Maybe you fall deeply in love with the new girl and live happily ever after. Or you both dont connect so much / drama / fight / life happens and you get back with your "ex". Could also be that in a few month both relationships come to an end.

I was kinda looking forward for the understanding relativism part 2....