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@The Don I think its more the case that we have to stop unconsciousness rather than teaching moral. Just knowing about morality may hold down your urges to act out but being conscious makes you not want to act out to begin with.

Why do we perceive time at all?

And even if you could control your thoughts and feeling 100% that still doesnt mean that you have free will. Leo just pointed out to you that you are stuck in duality based on your posts. Silly and intelligent is also a duality. Dont get stuck again

Aim for a good balance. But its cool if you can go into a relationship without needing anything from the other person and just express your love to them. Now not having a self is another completely different kind of luxury only a few people enjoy

Id say its not the most importan but you should like your medium, otherwise you can make your path unnecessarily hard. Of course you dont need to stick to your medium forever, you can change it later. But always pick the one that fits best for now and for the next years.

Very abstract because you didnt specify what you want to create. But in general: To become a good content creator its best to create tons of content! Just start doing it. You will make mistakes and thats how you will learn and become a better content creator. Be passionate about the stuff you create. Thats how you stay motivated because it might will take 2-5 years until you can see the desired results from your work. Maybe longer. So make sure you are enjoying the process. Have a strong vision.

It will depend on the company you are going to work for and sell your skills to.

For me, I found that these progessive exercises didnt work. Its all about motivation, emotion and mindset for me. Whatever you "think" about starting a conversation with a girl that you dont know yet, is what defines your problem. What do you think is your problem with this? Have you done it before? And why didnt you do it at another time?

Hmm funny question. Someone who is -Full of needs -Lost in form -Completely attached to his ego -Thinking in black and white (duality) -Hate- and fearful -Neurotic There might be different forms of unenlightenment tho

I like your metaphor for this! Attachment doesnt really exist. In the end, how can you be attached to yourself? A need for something is quite common but has only to do with yourself, so its highly personal. A highgly consciousness person has little to no needs. @fi1ghtclub You are asking if salsa class will make someone who is a highly professional dancer a better dancer.

What you probably felt was an intense connection to her. But its an illusion. The same intense connection you had to her, actually you have to every thing existing in the universe. The illusion is pretty good so its totally normal for you to think that you now lost this connection. You can start to appreciate other things/humans and see the connection. It might take sometime, that is ok. Watch actialized.org videos on emotional mastery, that might help you as well.

See what you can love about the feminine side. And then go deeper and deeper into this love until you love every aspect of them, other humans and the universe. Practice gratitude. If you have problems with that, see which emotions arise and welcome them. Let go of your ego. To stop the fear of interacting with the opposite sex accept the possibility of hurting your friends. Thats ok. If they hate you for that. That is ok as well. You will be fine.

Your humanity is not crippled. By doing spiritual work you rise to a higher level of humanity. What you can do now is bring the whole of humanity up.

Yes by showing you the beauty of yourself. You see new perspectives.

Your question is very broad. What is it that you want to master and why do you want to master it? If you want to master the piano or your painting skills or some other skill Id say you never master it. You will always find ways to improve. The 80/20 rule might apply meaning that you can get 80% of the skill with relatively little amount of work. While the last 20% will take way longer. For this 20% again you will learn the first 80% of that way faster than the remaining 20% and so on. So there is always something to learn. If you want to master something to get a specific result, you might be trying to solve a problem. For example if you want to master your social skills. The act of mastery mostly boils down to emotional work. Because in the end the factor that is stopping you on your way to master something will always be yourself. You will have to put in the work, there is no way to go around that. So if you cant motivate yourself or if the work feels to hard for you - you can become stuck. More details are in this related video

The very act of you overthinking this now makes you needy. You can write 10 texts in a row to him. Its the thought process and energy you have behind your actions that makes them needy. And it will show to the other person eventually. As long as this does hold so much meaning over your head you will be needy. You will stop being needy when you dont give a fuck anymore. Like you dont look at you texts, as if they were tools for you, to manipulate him, to get sth from it. Something for your ego to feel good. Thats why you cant just fake it. You have to release the emotion behing your needs.

Yeah dont put it in your profile, even if I was a doctor or w.e. I wouldnt put it. Thats just because I like girls who like me for what I am and not for my job but maybe thats just me. Also for dating its best to assume 100% that being a software engineer makes you more attractive to date. Dont even worry about it.

After the second slap! Just kidding, what do you think? It depends entirely on you guys. It could be coming from a place of anger or hurt that you have hold back for a long time. If thats the case I would maybe find other ways to let go of that. But if you just enjoy it, do whatever feels right for you.

Its mostly a habit. If you stop for a while you wont have the craving to get invested in gaming again. Enjoy while it last. Find ways to express yourself and do things in the real world. Get a life purpose etc. Then it will be easy.

Funny works immediately for me

You can see, at least from the actions we know of, that they both have a very limited sense of love. Hitler for example only loving his "race" while not loving other races as well. Self Love means loving everything.

Why does it bother you? Its ok if you are not good with people, its like a muscle. You can train it. (E.g. by watching charisma on command videos on youtube). There is nothing wrong with you and you dont have to be good with people. Look up the sedona method. What Im guessing is that you have a need for validation and a need for control which ultimately block you from behaving how you would like to. With the sedona method you have a tool to release these needs. Do that and in any situation where youd want to be social you will be able to easily accept that there is no guaranteed control or validation. By accepting this part of reality you will become fearless.

You can release emotions and pain via the sedona method. Welcome it and feel it all the way.

This is the way.

I dont quite understand. You mean when giving a speech about your project that has some yellow or turquoise stuff in it, people tend to ignore it? I guess because they cant really relate to it?