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Why is junk food, alcohol and other drugs like cigarettes & coffee, gossip, tv, and videogames legal? All those things are somewhat bad for you and have a high potential for addiction. You can take everything that you like - that produces dopamine in your brain - and say that it will limit your potential. There are a lot of people who love these things and porn in particular is a medium that people are drawn to. Who is to say that human potential should be the #1 value of our society? And why dont we trust people to make their own decisions? I mean making one thing illegal is one thing. But if we do that, whoy stop at that one thing and not start to sacrifice more freedom for human potential. Taking away freedom is not something that should be decided after reading one book.

Did you watch these videos? If it helps you to discuss your view on these feel free to PM me.

The latter. While this is true, it does seem like you are seeing him more as "project" than as a friend. No offense.

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The fear especially comes from not accepting death. Death of the old self with all the habits that made it unsuccessful but also comfortable and safe. When you accept that you are succesfull you have to let go of the part of you that can blame others, that plays video games all day, that seeks not to offend anyone etc.

I think so, too. Also it sounds like you live together so you maybe started thinking about her in more unsexy ways (e.g. why did she put the dishes here and not in the dishwasher?). Basically you start thinking about her like you think about your friends, or mom or whatever. If I was in your position I would focus on seeing her more in a romantic way, going on dinners, dressing up. Tease each other and be flirty. Do you have any fetish or sth you enjoy in bed? You should start there to get back into it. Talk to her about it. Be assuring that you find her sexy if she has low self-esteem. Sounds like she has quite the incentive to make things work. But could also be that you are just not into sex. If thats the case dont stress it but it might mean to find a different partner who is more compatible with that lifestyle.

Did you have sex?

Could be that you have a need from the universe. Like being validated/accepted, being protected or being in control of what is happening. If you can feel those needs you can release these feelings via the sedona method. The universe doesnt owe you these things. When you accept that, these social situations will become much more pleasent and joyfull. Because you are no longer in constant fear of what will happen if your needs aren't met.

I think it has more to do with your own intention when going into sex. And how conscious you are about them. Unboundaried states of consciousness can happen outside of sex as well. There is no difference between riffraff and a buddha. Im not saying you are wrong, if that is how your last experiences with sex where than you are totally right and correct. Being cautious about sharing energy is good advice. Also be mindful about how your thoughts and the story they create at any given time affect your energy.

This is not my experience. I think it may be very dependent on what energy the other person has and what energy you have. Its true you share energy but you share energy just by talking as well.

What do you want?

I guess not but you can see that there is no problem with that when you are doing what you love. You are probably always going to have some sort of obligation towards your income generator (e.g. job, your own company, real estate, stocks). What you can improve is: 1. Spend less money (=less obligations) 2. Get your income stream from something you love doing

Interesting. I see your point. Can you tell a bit about her perspective? Seems like you kind of push her into being with other men.

Forgiveness would be my preference. When you can forgive completely you also get back your power completely. I would not feel bad about myself for reporting his fraud to the authorities. But try to see how you wouldve done the same as he did, if you were born as him.

Didnt quite get what your current circumstances or goals are. Relationships have a lot of upsides. Especially in regards to self-actualization and spiritual development. You will learn a lot about yourself and you get a partner that will help you achieve your goals, set higher goals, see potential in you and believes in you when you feel down. On the other hand when you want to really get into one thing (like life purpose for example) relationships can be distracting. Dating to find the right partner is a huge time sink and emotionally taxing. So you need to see if you can afford that extra energy and time to invest in finding the right partner.

When you go in the dealership, dont tell them you want to pay in cash. Basically make them feel like they might get money out of you from the financing (most of their profit is made here). On the other hand if you can negotiate a good short term loan (like 36month) you should take it. But make a down payment of half the price.

For you it might be intuitive, for me its a rational decision based on personal observations and studies from behavioral sciences. Maybe that is what you mean with "rational mind", mine likes to gather information.

Girls like to text in a way that makes it seem as if you are chasing her. Switch it around. Challange them and dont give them whatever they want. When you do this they will start asking all the questions. Boom, works like magic.

Technically you are already in europe but sure you can get an internship somewhere else in europe. TV is still a huge business with lots of opportunities.

I like this quote from Leo "what if success means to you; growing your capacity to love?". Thats a real success for me. Also increasing my time spend being creative.

Reality doesnt work in categories. There is no problem unless you want to create one.

Depends, there is a lot of miscommunication between the sexes. Because both are operating from a different perspective. In the dating world girls can appear disrespectful while checking you out (depends on the girls skill). What Ive found is that girls are generally more polite and rule abiding than man. Because they have a greater sensitivity for everything social and value harmony. But that depends also on your location. Of course there are also just simple rude girls.

Whats your experience, why are you asking?

There is no such thing as a bad person. You are fragmenting reality. This video is very foundational

I dont know if you already watched it but Leo made an interesting video that might gives you some good advice!