-
Content count
1,999 -
Joined
-
Last visited
Everything posted by universe
-
Did you have sex?
-
Could be that you have a need from the universe. Like being validated/accepted, being protected or being in control of what is happening. If you can feel those needs you can release these feelings via the sedona method. The universe doesnt owe you these things. When you accept that, these social situations will become much more pleasent and joyfull. Because you are no longer in constant fear of what will happen if your needs aren't met.
-
I think it has more to do with your own intention when going into sex. And how conscious you are about them. Unboundaried states of consciousness can happen outside of sex as well. There is no difference between riffraff and a buddha. Im not saying you are wrong, if that is how your last experiences with sex where than you are totally right and correct. Being cautious about sharing energy is good advice. Also be mindful about how your thoughts and the story they create at any given time affect your energy.
-
This is not my experience. I think it may be very dependent on what energy the other person has and what energy you have. Its true you share energy but you share energy just by talking as well.
-
What do you want?
-
I guess not but you can see that there is no problem with that when you are doing what you love. You are probably always going to have some sort of obligation towards your income generator (e.g. job, your own company, real estate, stocks). What you can improve is: 1. Spend less money (=less obligations) 2. Get your income stream from something you love doing
-
Interesting. I see your point. Can you tell a bit about her perspective? Seems like you kind of push her into being with other men.
-
Forgiveness would be my preference. When you can forgive completely you also get back your power completely. I would not feel bad about myself for reporting his fraud to the authorities. But try to see how you wouldve done the same as he did, if you were born as him.
-
Didnt quite get what your current circumstances or goals are. Relationships have a lot of upsides. Especially in regards to self-actualization and spiritual development. You will learn a lot about yourself and you get a partner that will help you achieve your goals, set higher goals, see potential in you and believes in you when you feel down. On the other hand when you want to really get into one thing (like life purpose for example) relationships can be distracting. Dating to find the right partner is a huge time sink and emotionally taxing. So you need to see if you can afford that extra energy and time to invest in finding the right partner.
-
When you go in the dealership, dont tell them you want to pay in cash. Basically make them feel like they might get money out of you from the financing (most of their profit is made here). On the other hand if you can negotiate a good short term loan (like 36month) you should take it. But make a down payment of half the price.
-
For you it might be intuitive, for me its a rational decision based on personal observations and studies from behavioral sciences. Maybe that is what you mean with "rational mind", mine likes to gather information.
-
Girls like to text in a way that makes it seem as if you are chasing her. Switch it around. Challange them and dont give them whatever they want. When you do this they will start asking all the questions. Boom, works like magic.
-
Technically you are already in europe but sure you can get an internship somewhere else in europe. TV is still a huge business with lots of opportunities.
-
I like this quote from Leo "what if success means to you; growing your capacity to love?". Thats a real success for me. Also increasing my time spend being creative.
-
Reality doesnt work in categories. There is no problem unless you want to create one.
-
Depends, there is a lot of miscommunication between the sexes. Because both are operating from a different perspective. In the dating world girls can appear disrespectful while checking you out (depends on the girls skill). What Ive found is that girls are generally more polite and rule abiding than man. Because they have a greater sensitivity for everything social and value harmony. But that depends also on your location. Of course there are also just simple rude girls.
-
Whats your experience, why are you asking?
-
There is no such thing as a bad person. You are fragmenting reality. This video is very foundational
-
universe replied to VeganAwake's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
I dont know if you already watched it but Leo made an interesting video that might gives you some good advice! -
It means you are in illusion land.
-
When you run out of things to say its because you have a filter blocking the conversation. Notice how your mind cant ever shut up? So there is really an over-abundance of sentences and words in your mind. When you stop conversation with someone its because you think you dont have anything worthwile to say. Like you feel that the other person might judge what you are saying, or you yourself might judge it. So get rid of these filters. And release all the needs you have The need for validation from your conversation partner (placing too much weight on their reaction) The need to be in control of what is happening (always trying to say the perfect things) The need to be protected (being afraid someone could abandon or attack you) Bonus: If you've done that you will never worry about what to say or running out of things to say. BUT you still might want to improve your communication skills! Be funny. Watch Leos video on "How to become funny", you can get yourself into a fun mode and fill hours of time just by being a bit silly and childish. Like goofing around laughing and just enjoying your company. Common block to being funny is being too serious. Learn storytelling. Basically describe a story in detail by going through each seperate moment experientially. Tell what you saw, heared, smelled or thought. Make gestures, use dynamic loudness and tonality. Build up tension, dont tell everything right away. Make your listener come up with his own questions. Have a strong beginning and ending of your story in mind. Be interested in how the other person sees the world and how they feel. Share yours. Words are not the important part of a conversation. Instead focus on your intention. When you are at work your intention might be to get a task done or share concise information. A lot of guys have this mentality that communication has to be an exchange of information. This will not make for good conversations, instead set the intention to having a good time, building trust and making each other feel more comfortable. Have an interesting life that you can talk about. Have a purpose, dreams and vision in your life. Play with different roles and identities. Change things up and try new things from time to time. Ask for help, people like to share their expertise and give you advice. Do activities together. Collaborate on a project or go see something together.
-
How reliable are these numbers? For Deaths, they are getting tracked at the hospital. Id think they are somewhat correct but definitely some are left out (example people who died at home) and some might be included but the cause of death wasnt the virus. Where it gets tricky is the infection rate. Some countries dont do as much tests, so you might have 1 million people infected but if you only test 20.000 you will end up with an infection rate much lower then that. For example in the US I'd expect the infection numbers to be around 3-10times higher than reported. Because they test so little. Germany tests a lot, so their numbers are more representative. I'd say maybe the real number of infected is only up to 2 times higher. Now for the fatality rate, look up the case fatality rate (CFR). These numbers seem about right to me (divided by age group) Age 0-9: 0.0094% Age 10-19: 0.022% Age 20-29: 0.091% Age 30-39: 0.18% Age 40-49: 0.4% Age 50-59: 1.3% Age 60-69: 4.6% (range 3.8-5.4) Age 70-79: 9.8% (range 8.2-12) Age 80+: 18% (range 14-22) CFR should represent the number of deaths from all people who have the virus (weak, mild or critical cases). Whereas your numbers only represent death from people who where tested positive (likely skewed towards critical cases & excluding people who didnt get tested). Note: All numbers are only estimates
-
There is one minor thing that could be an obstacle. By growing spirtually you might come in a position where you accept every situation as it is and are less bothered by things happening in your life. In turn you might loosen your boundaries. Instead of fixing things (e.g. behaviour of girls) on the outside by setting strict rules for yourself you might prefer to go inwards and look at the root cause that is bothering you. Something inside of you. So you do inner work. Girls dont see that you do this, so they might interpret your behaviour as a weakness. What helps is setting more rules even for minor things that dont really bother you. Basically you have to really zoom in on your feelings. If you sense something even a nuance off, you set a boundary for that. It helps to focus on your partner as well. Set the rules more for her well-being than yours.
-
Maybe find a more engaging job?
-
Notice how you didnt like communication to end or worsen. Everyone is like that. For people who struggle with this I suggest to practice "letting go" in their lifes. When you go deeper into awareness you'll notice how its all an illusion anyways.