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This is already the time where you start acing in life! This feeling you get right now is holding you back. You will encounter many more of these situations where a belief or feeling will hold you back. If you want to be better prepared for when these situations will come up in the future, you should start to release on your need for control. This is where you get emotional mastery. If you want you can start with this little exercise: First you have to get in your body and into the feeling that you might lose control over your business. How does it feel to think that someone might steal your idea? Also try to locate that feeling in your body. This can take some time. It helps to make the situation big. Imagine you already build your business and are making profit. But now another business is selling a copy of your product and your sales go down dramatically. How does that feel? Let it sink and turn inward for a while. Can you feel it a little bit more? Could you let that feeling go? Then ask yourself if you would let that feeling go. If you can answer yes to both these questions (should be a quick reaction, don't think about it too long), ask yourself "When do I want to let that feeling go?" And just sit with the answer. Repeat the whole process as often as you wish.

Hello CuriousCanid and welcome to the forum! Self-Actualization is a wonderful thing. You can turn your whole world upside down with it. And if you are the kind of person that has been looking for something their entire life but couldn't find it. Self-Actualization might lead you to it. But it can be a bit tricky from time to time. As I understand from your text, you use sexuality to motivate yourself on this path. I don't have experience with this but I do know that it is a powerful energy. If you found a way to harness this energy to inspire you to express your full potential, go for it! Everything that has a strong pull like sex, power and fame will often be used as a distraction from actualizing. Handling these forces whithout getting distracted by them requires a strong mind. I'd advice you to stay very alert and watch out for these traps. Let Truth and Love be your guide. And think for yourself. Don't let others think for you and follow them blindly. Regardless of who they are and what they may seem to be. If you stick with this work long enough, you might discover that you are not a lost sod but maybe Leo himself and even more! Enjoy ❤️

Don't worry. Do you use condoms for sex only? The barrier thing for girls is quite normal. Either there are emotions blocking her because she tries to hold on to something or she is afraid she will pee your bed and thats why she holds back. Communication and trust are the key. Building trust will make it easier for her to relax and let go. Check out Leos videos on sex!

Whatever you do, dont babysit her through the break up. For example, if she wants to stay friends afterwards you might be tempted to not allow it because you think it will be bad for her. Instead tell her, ok we can be friends but it wont be as it was before and let her decide. (Of course only if you want to stay friends as well). Basically, dont decide what is going to be best for her but let her do that. Be honest about how you feel and whats going on and trust that she will make the best decision with it. You sound happy with the relationship tho, have you considered doing a break for a while?

I think you are already 90% there by having the right mindset to please your man. But yeah practice and you could also learn to dance (bachata, pole dance...), how to do dirty talk and explore what side of sex you really enjoy.

Yeah those I would not consider to be friendships either. Could you be open to the possibility to have real friends?

How old are you? Wishing someone a happy birthday doesnt have to be enthusiastic, just wish them a happy birthday ask how their day is going and be done with it. If you dont want to call then dont call them. Easy as that. I have a feeling that there is a more important problem. Seems like you have no interest in your friends or maybe you are not in touch with your emotions.

I see, well trimming too much on your eyebrows can look feminine so maybe dial that down?

Never seen anything like that. But you can at least learn what you should not to be doing.

Haha @Sine getting more and more practical with the advive @Don Wei Did you do anything with your eyebrows in the america pic?

Ah so you can get rid of the suggested videos section. That's genius! Didn't know that.

Alternatively, you can just buy the Youtube Premium subscription. https://www.youtube.com/premium This makes sure that content creators receive their fare share of revenue. https://support.google.com/youtube/answer/7060016?hl=en Sometimes the distraction can be the content itself tho. Remember Youtube is programmed to keep you on that site. So it will recommend you the best videos to trap you

Some quick facts he was the president for over 16 years in russia and currently still is. Has been the most powerful man on earth on the forbes list for 4 years consecutively and is currently in second place behind the chinese president. Its like the definition of a high value man even without all the plastic surgery he has done He has it all, leader of men, money, power.

I think its better to look at what specific situations you want to improve on. When a girl is very emotional you can surely be emotional too. Just don't forget to lead, be confident and be playful as well. Some things that you can do to become more masculine: Sex, taking risks, overcoming fear, maybe get your hormones checked (unlikely but could be imbalanced). Could also be that you are just more insecure with girls that you are really attracted to. Then you are already starting with the wrong perspective! All your communication will indicate to her that you think you are not good enough. Body language, tonality, eye contact... If thats the case, becoming more masculine alone won't make the cut.

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How do you define success? I'd advice you to really look into this topic. Get different perspectives. Think about it deeply and write it down. Also if you want to be successful, ask yourself what is the reason behind it. Why do you want to be successful. Thats a start.

In Yellow you see all the other types of the spiral being integrated into society. Is there a better quality version of this picture? Then you could see more. There are a lot of arrows in this pic.

While those are not set in stone and there are definitely many variables, I like confident/brave women. Thats the first thing I look out for. Honestly, I feel like Im not really capable of describing that. Same as if you would ask a women what she wants in a man, she wont be able to really tell you. Love works in mysterious ways

Then dont focus too much on online dating. Also good clothes & fit is a nice start. But the pictures have to be good otherwise as well. If its just selfies you can improve that as well. Do they tell a story about you? Do they show your personality in a positive way? How do you know you get rejected in real life from your looks, I think you are telling that to yourself mostly. Work on your mindset.

I think this is your main sticking point. When you can grow yourself out of this inner state of unworthiness the external will fall into place for you. Research Emotional Mastery, Releasing Emotions and Sedona Method. Basically you want to feel into your unworthiness. Feel into your body. Start to let it go. Let it all go. And start to welcome the feeling of being worthy / Self-Worth / Self-Love. You will feel lighter. If you have trouble or resistance welcoming those feelings then you might need to release more. Feel into it. And let it go. Notice if you are tight anywhere in your body and start to relax in that area. Also notice your needs. Do you need validation? Do you need to have control? You dont and you will never get them. So let these needs go as well. Apply the same technique as before.

You are this place. Find something you truly love in this universe and then grow the love from there ❤️

People care about themselves, doing an MBTI-test and comparing results with others. With Spiral Dynamics there are no tests and no horoscopes that tell you your type and how your type uniquely fits into society. Its too complex and too impersonal. Maybe with a right marketing strategy it could become popular.

3. Sure you can do all of those. 2 and 3 are both self-discovery. Grind hard on your Life Purpose but you cant do that 24/7 356 days a year. You need some breaks. And if you work hard on your purpose you should be able to afford some vacation alongside that after a while. If you want to.

How old are you and what is your experience with girls so far? Why do you think financial independence has anything to do with this?

Trust your intuition. Having good resonance with the coach and being willing to follow the course is what is the most important thing. Whatever you want to do, the course will not do the work for you. You have to sit and do the 100-1000hours it takes to get what you want. If the course motivates you to keep going its good. Also you cant go wrong with buying a course from a person you trust and you resonate with. You invest in yourself, this money is already better spend than most money you piss away anyway You might get great results and learn important stuff If the course is shit you learned a valuable lesson for what to look out for next time And I would be wary of people who are extremely big on social media/marketing. There has to be a balance between them doing marketing/selling courses and them actually working in the field they want to teach you. Id rather look at lesser known experts.