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Work can be practicing an instrument, learn a specific skill, making decisions, reading news articles, filming a video, going to a networking event, or having a meeting with coworkers/partners/investors. If you mix it up in a juicy way you can do more than 12 hours no problem. Also add some sweet sweet vacation for one to four weeks every now and then for that special cherry on top.

If you get it you will likely only have mild symptoms. If you do develop symptoms get some rest and don't do sport activity. Im not a doctor but I think people only need to go to the hospital if oxygen levels are low. You can meassure your oxygen levels with a pulse oximeter. As others have said your chance of dying from something else are way higher. But fear is never rational, it's emotional. So welcome your fear and accept it and feel it fully.

Maybe it's an indicator that what you are currently doing is not what you want to be doing?

Is this a corona thing? Sounds strange, I'd get out and meet friends and be on the lookout to find my own apartment soonish.

That inside of you that wants to express this is a magical and wonderful energy. Don't let it go to waste. But also stay with it while you talk with her. You can say anything as long as you can stay there with it. Don't try to hide it, woman are very sensitive if a man tries to hide his emotional state from them. It's an intuitive thing.

Who are dis spiritual people going around judging everything to be good or bad? Like with all material things they won't fulfil you, so best not to get too obsessed about them and instead focus on the good sauce.

It's just mental. I mean how long is she too sensitive? 1minute, 10 minutes, 1 hour, 1 day? Maybe she is insecure and thinks she can't come another time and she doesn't want you to feel bad. Or she just doesn't want to come again. You will find out. Also I think vaginal orgasms feel different, so maybe she just can't tell. But that is just a guess.

Happyness and relationships depend on many variables, some clear, some unclear and all constantly in flux. Humans are very adaptable. I guess they will live... I don't feel sorry for anyone who thinks they deserve a better parnter. It's all ego.

I agree with many of his points, very obvious stuff (safe sex, trust etc.). They main point about reducing suffering is abit short-sighted. If you truly care about reducing suffering you have to go deep into Self-Love, Acceptance and Truth. Self-Love: Learn to love yourself no matter the sex you have or don't have. Love yourself for having sex with strangers or for failing at sex despite the fact that society wants to shame you for it. Love everyone who desires to make you feel ashamed. Acceptance: Accept that you sometimes make bad decisions. Fully feel all your emotions and don't resist them, shame, lust, turn on, desire, feeling good, feeling bad. Accept how personal they feel. Accept yourself for who you are with all your flaws and strengths. Truth: There are no bad decisions. Everything is 100% perfect the way it is. You are the person that likes to have sex and you are the person who doesn't like to have sex. You are your partner. You are everything. There is no seperation and you are not fragmented, neither in your psyche nor in your physical form. You are whole. You are Love. This is something people have to do on their own. Triggers are not to be avoided but to be transcendet and grown out of. Going around treating everyone with velvet gloves or like children will hurt them more than anything in the long run. I trust strong and powerful woman to make their own decisions for them and not relying on me to do it. Doing this 3d chess game in my head where I manouver her experience as smooth as possile to avoid any ego backlash sounds exhausting.

Your perspective is very biased towards being a human, a living organism on a floating rock in space. How do you think the bacterial colonies on your kitchen towel see this? Or an alien lifeform outside of our observable universe?

Yeah basically all of it. Search for Graham Stephan on YT. Just put your money in and try not to pay any big fees for an agent, broker or whatever.

You did what you could. There is no point in blaming yourself now. In fact the very act of blaming yourself can easily keep you stuck in a loop by strengthening your shadow's desire to punish yourself. What kind of shadow work have you been doing?

Depending on how you do the breathwork it is caused by the low CO² in your body. https://www.breathewithjp.com/hyperventilation-hands-curl/

You are in your head because you have a need to control, get something out of or being safe in the conversation. Feel these needs and let them go via the Sedona Method. Realize that you are never in control ever and that you are already complete. Know that you will be ok. Feel your body, your arms, your legs, your torso. Get in there and feel the subtle emotional changes during a conversation, be with them.

Why rely on the friends in your frat? Find people who are more on the same wavelength as you and then go out and party with them. Maybe take Leo's Life Purpose Course. If you already get 9's and 10's don't worry about finding a wife, you will be fine.

Marketing is not wasted time and definitely worth it. On the other hand it doesn't have to take up so much time. It can be as simple as introducing yourself to new people as "Hi I'm Melody, I'm a writer!". Chances are those people really need a writer right now or know people who are looking for one. Put yourself out there and opportunities will open up to you.

It does but only as a second step. First step is always getting on terms with why you created your situation in the first place. Think of a ship that has holes in it. Now the captain visualizes sailing the world and all the amazing places he will go to. He might have it all mapped out but the ship will always want to go brrrrrp to the ground of the ocean. To keep it afloat he is constantly busy shoveling buckets of water out of his boat. So he never gets anywhere. Think of the holes as your unconsciousness that has been programmed to drag the ship down. If you don't look at these holes and fix them you are not going to get far.

Feel you, you will get over it. If you want to get over it more resourcefully this is a good time to get into emotional mastery. Hint: It's not about resisting and avoiding bad emotions. Confront your fears.

Do you know why you get tense talking to woman? What is it that you fear?

Are you trying to make everything right, listen and accommodate for a woman and then react negatively when she doesn't give you what you want? If yes, that is the typical nice guy behaviour that will bring you nothing with girls and is also really high on the scale as far as manipulation goes. First get out of the victim mentality. Take 100% responsibility. Sure, your childhood might not have been in your favour from what you said. But you have been dealt this hand, so now it's your responsibility to play it right. Don't blame the girls, don't blame society. Everyone has their weights to carry, in the end it's what makes us unique. Second, learn to integrate your emotions. This is important to let go of your emotional needs. We all have many needs and they roughly boil down to: Need for acceptance Need for control Need for protection Need for oneness/seperateness It's ok to have them to a degree but if they are too strong they can limit your ability to connect with people and they will definitely make your life miserable (as you won't be able to fulfil them anyways). Imagine talking to someone who has 1 of those 5 needs very high. Go through each one of them. Not very fun to talk to right? Also makes it easy for predators to manipulate you. The first one makes you needy for validation. If you have the second you would be very perfectionist. Third one blockes you from doing anything. And the last two make you want to belong because you feel isolated and you will push back intimacy because you are afraid of being close and losing yourself. Cick the link above and use the Sedona Method to get those needs to a normal level in which you will have way less problems building connection and finding meaningful authentic relationships.

I got that, I was adding to that some practical tips for dealing with the situation. Not talking about this forum but society in general, everyday life. We can asses the problems of society and the problematic childhood girls and boys endure. Collective shadows and what not. But in the end, from the perspective of someone looking to date and find their best possible match, who is triggered by his dates. It does them no good to wait until his/her dates start integrating their shadows. Instead, by doing their own shadow work, they can learn the dance, embrace themselves, integrate their masculine & feminine side, have fun dates with deep emotional connections and intimacy - right now. You are the creator. Every person is beautiful. Thats my perspective and it comes with all the biases I have from my gender and the country I live in

Location, Location, Location! Don't be surprised to meet party folks at a party. Look up some self-improvement-, meditation- or yoga groups. It will get better as you get older. Also look at how you feel about your future plans. Maybe your girlfriends just mirrored your own doubts and insecurities surrounding them?

@Emerald Yes I understand, men and women both have their triggers and dissatisfactions when it comes to dating and relationships. It's easy to succumb and get paralyzed by the sheer brutality that is survival. That is why many people start to complain and fall into a victim mentality. And I understand, there is a lot of unfuckery to do with how our society is structured right now. Learn to dance. Because, after all, you are the dance!

Locked. Please keep the discussion in this thread only. ❤️ edit: Unlocked because the old one is locked. But here is the link to it.

That is the beauty of this place. No one hides behind masks and communication is quite direct (also Leos's videos on those topics). I don't remember where I heard that before but basically, tell a group of men that there is a woman in a luxury sports car just arriving in front of her big house to park. What would be the first question the men would ask? "And what does she look like?". Tell the same to a group of woman but instead there is now a man arriving in his Ferrari. Heading into his villa. What would the woman ask? "And what does he do? Who is he?". Of course not everyone will ask the same question but masculine and feminine are different. And both are beautiful and magical in their own way. The misunderstanding happens because we are biased in our respective polarity. That is why some woman have a hard time understanding that it's not just intelligence and comfort but even more appearence and sex that are so important to man. And some man have a hard time to understand that it's not just looks and status that count but even more confidence and connection that are important to woman as a baseline. And I agree with you and @soos_mite_ah , there are thousands of other factors for both man and woman to improve on, in order to find their dream partner if they whish. It's not that all woman and man are fixated on these one two three for five qualities and everyone who isn't born with them is out of luck. If you don't attract the right partners it is 100% in your power to change that. That also means you have no one else to blame other than yourself if it doesn't work out.