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Being competitive and having a big ego is not necessarily correlated.

Is your dog humping you? If yes it could mean they want sex with you or they want to assert dominance over you. Not sure not a dog.

Haha ok the way she was interested from the very first second he didnt had to do much. Yes, just keep that authentic masculine energy flowing. And instead of asking if she likes to walk just suggest an activity. If she's into you she will do a walk in the park even if she doesn't like it or she can suggest another thing.

Depends on how you both dance together. Directly telling her you want to have sex is not what is considered flirting. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Flirting

Every emotion that you cannot accept will likely drain your energy. There are many things to emotions and anxiety. They are not bad or good. But if you feel fearful over a longer timeframe, that has to do with not accepting reality for what it is, yes. ❤️

Nice guys don't respect women. They think they own them for whatever fucked up reason. You have to ask, why is the nice guy nice? Now, I'm not saying you can't be nice, caring and respectful. But do it in a non-"now you owe me" kinda way. Make it come from an easy, strong, authentic and non-reactive place. And also don't forget to respect yourself while respecting women. Set boundaries according to your values and how you want to live life.

What do you mean, if girls like to flirt? Yes, many do. If you don't like to game and you just want a partner without much effort - lower your standards.

Flake is love, flake is life. But what is real is always now, when you two have a dance, a conversation. Going to a coffee date, getting her number, going on a date, having sex, those are just extensions of that real moment. How do you usually transition to the making plans part?

Work can be practicing an instrument, learn a specific skill, making decisions, reading news articles, filming a video, going to a networking event, or having a meeting with coworkers/partners/investors. If you mix it up in a juicy way you can do more than 12 hours no problem. Also add some sweet sweet vacation for one to four weeks every now and then for that special cherry on top.

If you get it you will likely only have mild symptoms. If you do develop symptoms get some rest and don't do sport activity. Im not a doctor but I think people only need to go to the hospital if oxygen levels are low. You can meassure your oxygen levels with a pulse oximeter. As others have said your chance of dying from something else are way higher. But fear is never rational, it's emotional. So welcome your fear and accept it and feel it fully.

Maybe it's an indicator that what you are currently doing is not what you want to be doing?

Is this a corona thing? Sounds strange, I'd get out and meet friends and be on the lookout to find my own apartment soonish.

That inside of you that wants to express this is a magical and wonderful energy. Don't let it go to waste. But also stay with it while you talk with her. You can say anything as long as you can stay there with it. Don't try to hide it, woman are very sensitive if a man tries to hide his emotional state from them. It's an intuitive thing.

Who are dis spiritual people going around judging everything to be good or bad? Like with all material things they won't fulfil you, so best not to get too obsessed about them and instead focus on the good sauce.

It's just mental. I mean how long is she too sensitive? 1minute, 10 minutes, 1 hour, 1 day? Maybe she is insecure and thinks she can't come another time and she doesn't want you to feel bad. Or she just doesn't want to come again. You will find out. Also I think vaginal orgasms feel different, so maybe she just can't tell. But that is just a guess.

Happyness and relationships depend on many variables, some clear, some unclear and all constantly in flux. Humans are very adaptable. I guess they will live... I don't feel sorry for anyone who thinks they deserve a better parnter. It's all ego.

I agree with many of his points, very obvious stuff (safe sex, trust etc.). They main point about reducing suffering is abit short-sighted. If you truly care about reducing suffering you have to go deep into Self-Love, Acceptance and Truth. Self-Love: Learn to love yourself no matter the sex you have or don't have. Love yourself for having sex with strangers or for failing at sex despite the fact that society wants to shame you for it. Love everyone who desires to make you feel ashamed. Acceptance: Accept that you sometimes make bad decisions. Fully feel all your emotions and don't resist them, shame, lust, turn on, desire, feeling good, feeling bad. Accept how personal they feel. Accept yourself for who you are with all your flaws and strengths. Truth: There are no bad decisions. Everything is 100% perfect the way it is. You are the person that likes to have sex and you are the person who doesn't like to have sex. You are your partner. You are everything. There is no seperation and you are not fragmented, neither in your psyche nor in your physical form. You are whole. You are Love. This is something people have to do on their own. Triggers are not to be avoided but to be transcendet and grown out of. Going around treating everyone with velvet gloves or like children will hurt them more than anything in the long run. I trust strong and powerful woman to make their own decisions for them and not relying on me to do it. Doing this 3d chess game in my head where I manouver her experience as smooth as possile to avoid any ego backlash sounds exhausting.

Your perspective is very biased towards being a human, a living organism on a floating rock in space. How do you think the bacterial colonies on your kitchen towel see this? Or an alien lifeform outside of our observable universe?

Yeah basically all of it. Search for Graham Stephan on YT. Just put your money in and try not to pay any big fees for an agent, broker or whatever.

You did what you could. There is no point in blaming yourself now. In fact the very act of blaming yourself can easily keep you stuck in a loop by strengthening your shadow's desire to punish yourself. What kind of shadow work have you been doing?

Depending on how you do the breathwork it is caused by the low CO² in your body. https://www.breathewithjp.com/hyperventilation-hands-curl/

You are in your head because you have a need to control, get something out of or being safe in the conversation. Feel these needs and let them go via the Sedona Method. Realize that you are never in control ever and that you are already complete. Know that you will be ok. Feel your body, your arms, your legs, your torso. Get in there and feel the subtle emotional changes during a conversation, be with them.

Why rely on the friends in your frat? Find people who are more on the same wavelength as you and then go out and party with them. Maybe take Leo's Life Purpose Course. If you already get 9's and 10's don't worry about finding a wife, you will be fine.

Marketing is not wasted time and definitely worth it. On the other hand it doesn't have to take up so much time. It can be as simple as introducing yourself to new people as "Hi I'm Melody, I'm a writer!". Chances are those people really need a writer right now or know people who are looking for one. Put yourself out there and opportunities will open up to you.

It does but only as a second step. First step is always getting on terms with why you created your situation in the first place. Think of a ship that has holes in it. Now the captain visualizes sailing the world and all the amazing places he will go to. He might have it all mapped out but the ship will always want to go brrrrrp to the ground of the ocean. To keep it afloat he is constantly busy shoveling buckets of water out of his boat. So he never gets anywhere. Think of the holes as your unconsciousness that has been programmed to drag the ship down. If you don't look at these holes and fix them you are not going to get far.