universe

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  1. Best case you find a new passion and worst case you could learn a valuable skill. Why would you not take that chance.
  2. This is a very broad question. Without knowing what exactly you want to learn there are many "role models" with stage orange values. The Kardashians, Puff Daddy, University Professors, Conor McGregor, Graham Stephan. Also keep in mind that people don't just operate from one stage only. So you can not just name people and take all they say as stage blue or stage orange thinking.
  3. I'd say go for it. Do you know why you could have that intuition to do it?
  4. Totally normal. But do you think anyone who has mastered this would care? So what distinguishes you right now vs you who has mastered it?
  5. This show is one of the best shit you can find out there. Don't want to pick sides tho. You do you
  6. You can let go of the need for approval. Give yourself all the approval you want. Or just realize you don't need approval.
  7. No, everyone is delusional. What you have to do is to hug the Hardkill you are right now, tell him how much he means to you and how grateful you are for him. Then you rip him out of you and continue on your journey to not be a wage slave. How many people you know have achieved this, what steps have you done to achieve this?
  8. Yes you need to be more specific. What kind of fiction book you want to write? What style? Who are the main characters? What is their story? Etc. If you just started your first step is to figure out the first step. Maybe it is reading other peoples books, maybe it is writing your story, maybe it is scetching your characters, maybe it is a mix of all, maybe it is something completely different. Only you can figure it out, even tho you might ask people who have already done it for help.
  9. This is very broad. Cut your life purpose down into multiple steps or milestones. Then ask yourself what can I do to get the next step done. You need to get very specific about what it is that you want.
  10. Settle for nothing less than what you want. Do you really have a desire to settle, to form a long lasting relationship, to maybe start a family? If not then don't even bother. Don't let society tell you how to live your life.
  11. Eh it's not too bad. You are probably younger or live in a certain spot where these women mingle. Of course many healthy women will not engage with a guy who appears overall needy or weak. Balance. You can shout out your love for her and shower her with compliments all you want IF you also give her the other stuff she enjoys. Love is something very frightening for most. I would start with accepting first.
  12. I'd advice on looking into yourself and finding where this feeling of guilt or feeling like a cheat is coming from. Why is it there and what does it want to make you notice. Then I'd take a deep look into my options to make the desired career change.
  13. Yes, you are that twin flame. And everyone is your twin flame. Everything else is an illusion. A super sweet and also seriously fucked up illusion. ❤️
  14. Nice experiment, it shows how important mindset is. I truly believe he could make another million, even if it might take him a bit longer than a year. @Gesundheit2 Im interested what you think about this guys work ethic (other video from same channel) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w47sY1sCWco
  15. What happens if you get hit by a car? What happens if you die falling down the stairs? Everything can happen. He touched her without saying anything to her, like twice. If you feel better don't touch her during the day. It is not even needed in the first 15 minutes. On the other hand, if you never learn this and stay shy your entire life, your chance of becoming like this guy are much higher.
  16. Hard to tell if we don't know what you are trying to achieve. What is your life purpose / goal here?
  17. Well you asked for exercises that you can do all by yourself. This is just one that came to my mind. Mediocre will be totally fine, normally people are bored and don't expect anything funny from these standard questions. So your bar is the "I work in a hospital, I live in Austin" kinda level. Very low and easy. In the end you should of course go out and talk people. Just by watching Leo's video and having this thread you have already enough theory. You have chosen to be more funny. Now it's just time for you to remind yourself of that while you are in conversation.
  18. Yeah well, don't believe him. The nice thing with compliance is that it gets guys to stop sabotaging themselves. Instead of leaving her because you think she doesn't like you, you push the conversation forward and have a chance to find out she IS into you.
  19. You've got some amazing replies already. Some people feel bad for marking up their stuff due to shortages others feel bad if they didn't squeeze out the last tiny bit possible out of the exchange. Whatever floats your boat Seems to be super chill to feel bad. You could say it's kinda in vogue. Ask yourself why do you need this drama in your life right now? Maybe you really crave this sensation. It feels so important! Doesn't it bring welcome excitment into this illusion? Makes it all too real. Otherwise let those 300$ go. You made someones day, maybe he couldn't afford the full price and you also learned a valuable lesson to do your research before selling stuff. Mark it as a win in your book and keep rockin your life!
  20. Which podcast? It helps to think about problems people have. What are some of the most urgent problems people have in this field, and in that field. Be very curious about the problems people have in general. Talk to people about them, study them. If you meet someone ask "What is the biggest problem in your life right now?" and so on. You will start to see opportunities everywhere.
  21. Facing your emotions may be the most difficult thing in your life. I know man. Trust me I know.
  22. Sounds very sensational. His Disability Didn’t Stop Him From Being Successful With Women, Career and Health