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You build a cushion. The advice is that you should tripple your job income for three month. Then you can make the jump. I think that is a bit conversative but if you value safety or have a family that might make sense.

Sex != Masturbation You'll get comfortable with it.

It's not really an obsession. It's just when you know you have to write that book, or create this comic. Like you could be doing something else completely, for days, months maybe years. Being perfectly happy. But in the back of your head you still know you have to do this. Not because someone else said so, or because you think you need to do it. But because you feel like it is your purpose, your destiny. Why are you here? It seems like you envision the feelings and success (being on stage, being liked by fans). I'd encourage you to work on mastering your emotions. You will see that big accomplishments won't make you any happier than you are now. Find something you want to create and enjoy the process. It's not about the end. It's about the ride. The end is an illusion.

Thank you, great post!

Some posts have been removed. Stay on topic please. @chakra_7654321 I feel you, I was also on the head side of myself for many years. What helped me was feeling more into my body. Relaxing, taking deep breaths. Doing body scan meditations. And then when talking to people I trained myself to focus on my feet, my legs. Anything outside my head

Dude I don't know where you are living but I've seen these industries taking off big time! You have anything BUT an unclear financial future Now if you would be in the hotel business... or travel industry as a whole. Well... Your path isn't straight ahead. And there is no way for you to know right now what that path will look like. Don't limit yourself to freelancing or youtube. Maybe in the next month you meet a group or a someone who happens to know the owner of a football club who wants to get into media by starting a new series and is looking for an animator. Or someone sees the work you have done and wants you as a partner for his production company. Or you yourself get an idea about a new service/product you want to offer that combines your creativity in a way you have never imagined before. These opportunities can happen (and often do happen) where we least expect them to be. Don't try to "learn" and fact check your journey. Have your goal in mind and set sails in the direction you think is right. Check if it is bringing you closer and adjust accordingly. Build up momentum.

It can be helpful to take a clear look at our beliefs about the world. Because they define how we act and feel. Always coming back to the now. Coming back to Consciousness. There are no problems right now. Not taking things so important. Not taking them so serious. I'd encourage you to take a step back. Get some change of perspective, maybe do some psychedelics if you want to. ❤️

Well yes, it's the perfect timing! The question is wether it is what you really want to do. Then you will easily succeed. That success could either mean you make tons of money and have a huge following. OR That success is just barely scraping by. Always doing sidejobs to stay afloat while you pump out those comics. Either way you created what you wanted to create. The question is, could you live without making any comics? If yes you might go another route or do the life purpose course.

Don't worry. Struggle will become boring as well. As you said yourself. Life is change.

It has already been answered long ago.

Seems like a good mindset to adobt if you don't want to be happy.

Because most people take the easy route. Follow a path that others have laid out for them. And they value security above many other things. And they take whatever their reality is right now for granted, they don't want to change anything. Even though they might dream about living a more joyful and fulfilling life they hold other beliefs like "success is hard", "I can't do that", "other people are just lucky", "I can not change it". It's this getting used to it. Getting used to the horrible 8hr office job. Getting used to the abusive partner. Getting used to feeling depressed in school. Getting used to riding a broken bike. It slowly starts to not only become a thing they are used to. It's start to find it's way into their personality, their whole identity shifts. For change to happen there needs to be a shift in perspective, a shift in identity, a shift in action, a different choice. If you want to experience this shift in your life I would suggest you do what @Nahm layed out for you here freely and take the Life Purpse Course.

What is in your direct experience right now? Great post! Just wanted to clear this one up. Spiral Dynamics is not Leos idea. The term was trademarked by the National Values Center, Inc. You can find more about it here https://spiraldynamics.org/

You are on the right track! Just have fun. Have the overall assumption that whatever you say is smooth/good. I would take most of these as a strong indicator that the girl is interested.

Love is nothing you decide logically, listen to your heart. ❤️

Maybe this video will help you (was posted here some time ago) Dr. Nun S. Amen Ra

Oh, wait until you find out that you are the only one in all of this. That is when the pointlessness really hits

Perfectionism most often comes from a need for control. Let go of that need to be in control. Start here: Have fun on the path! ❤️ Also some videos for you Actualized.org - How To Stop Judging Yourself Actualized.org - The Power Of Letting Go - How To Overcome Clinginess, Attachment, OCD Actualized.org - Understanding Resistance

It's time you take a big fucking step back and look at your whole situation. Take a deep breath... Inhale, breath out. See the content vs the structure. The whole money situation is the content. But it is an illusion. You might become rich, you might become poor, maybe some day you buy an elephant, whatever.... content changes. You, the awareness, the one experiencing it all, never changes. Notice that. It's ok to feel like you are exploiting your family. Go into that feeling and bask in it however long you want. You have my permission. Now, it is also ok to let your family help you out and give you money. Stop being so judgemental to yourself. The point is, either way you can feel happy and joyful. You can feel good all the time. Whenever you encounter a feeling that you can not enjoy, you could stop and ask yourself "where am I being delusional right now?". ❤️

Perfect. So you take things into your own hands. What have you done so far? Don't wait for anyone outside to bring love into your life. It can only come from within. If you ask yourself "why is no one falling in love with me", You can also ask "why am I not falling in love with anyone". Tune into love frequency to find others with the same energy. ❤️

Consider if it is really helpful for you to see yourself as a victim here. To go into that mentality, nourishing thoughts about how all these factors (covid, your city, even your looks) are hindering you to live your life the way you want. Making you waste your life. And if it is not helpful, where do these beliefs come from and would it be a good idea to continue with em?

Very good progress! One tip for the approach. You want to get her full attention! The best way is when she is moving away from you, you walk beside her, then go a little forward, turn around and THEN start talking to her. If you continue walking (you can also stop) you stay a bit ahead and lead her.

I'm not sure with this function. It can be nice sometimes but also encourages you to skip forwards. My guess is he doesn't think it's beneficial to the main channel and also takes too much time to make.

The second convo could have been a lame joke. Or she was just looking for an excsuse to leave. Without knowing the context and the whole conversation it is impossible for us to know. You are doing good! Just continue to get the exercise in! Check your intentions with each joke. Was it to make her laugh or could it be that you wanted to prove yourself to her?

Have you asked yourself why you want these things?