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This thread got derailed. Closed.

Honestly tits are pretty overrated. Women seem to obsess about it so much. It's like when men are insecure about their dick size. This problem is all in your head. Because you make it such a big deal. Sex is so much more than just tits.

It's good that you are seeing your own patterns. Sometimes when we deliberately pull ourselves down, it's because we don't feel comfortable or worthy with our new "life". For example, when you feel like you don't deserve a "good life" or you have the belief that successful people are corrupt/bad. Same as when you are feeling guilty, accidents are more likely happen. So if you have done everything else already you might benefit from starting to explore your feelings and beliefs. Otherwise, get a clear vision and then commit to it 100%.

Hi and welcome to the forum Google Translate, or french versions is your safest bet. Also you could just lookup words you don't understand and develop your english skills on the side. That way you might take longer to finish one book but these books are usually meant to take in slowly.

Moved to Dating, Relationships, Sexuality forum This is quite normal. Especially in the beginning when your energy/vibe is off and comes of as unauthentic. Sometimes people have a bad day, too.

Welcome the fear. Allow it. Feel it. Life will always give you the perfect opportunity for Growth. You just gotta take it. Going inside. Learn about Fear, Self-Love, Growth and Emotional Mastery. ❤️

Most people share this desire. To be seen, truly seen can be very beneficial to your health and makes you feel secure. Surround yourself with people who have a good ability to listen and do it yourself in return. Developing your own voice and expressing it can be helpful, too.

What is your goal? To live in a city with more social life and opportunities. That sounds nice sure... but what is it that you want to achieve. Are you clear on this?

You build a cushion. The advice is that you should tripple your job income for three month. Then you can make the jump. I think that is a bit conversative but if you value safety or have a family that might make sense.

Sex != Masturbation You'll get comfortable with it.

It's not really an obsession. It's just when you know you have to write that book, or create this comic. Like you could be doing something else completely, for days, months maybe years. Being perfectly happy. But in the back of your head you still know you have to do this. Not because someone else said so, or because you think you need to do it. But because you feel like it is your purpose, your destiny. Why are you here? It seems like you envision the feelings and success (being on stage, being liked by fans). I'd encourage you to work on mastering your emotions. You will see that big accomplishments won't make you any happier than you are now. Find something you want to create and enjoy the process. It's not about the end. It's about the ride. The end is an illusion.

Thank you, great post!

Some posts have been removed. Stay on topic please. @chakra_7654321 I feel you, I was also on the head side of myself for many years. What helped me was feeling more into my body. Relaxing, taking deep breaths. Doing body scan meditations. And then when talking to people I trained myself to focus on my feet, my legs. Anything outside my head

Dude I don't know where you are living but I've seen these industries taking off big time! You have anything BUT an unclear financial future Now if you would be in the hotel business... or travel industry as a whole. Well... Your path isn't straight ahead. And there is no way for you to know right now what that path will look like. Don't limit yourself to freelancing or youtube. Maybe in the next month you meet a group or a someone who happens to know the owner of a football club who wants to get into media by starting a new series and is looking for an animator. Or someone sees the work you have done and wants you as a partner for his production company. Or you yourself get an idea about a new service/product you want to offer that combines your creativity in a way you have never imagined before. These opportunities can happen (and often do happen) where we least expect them to be. Don't try to "learn" and fact check your journey. Have your goal in mind and set sails in the direction you think is right. Check if it is bringing you closer and adjust accordingly. Build up momentum.

It can be helpful to take a clear look at our beliefs about the world. Because they define how we act and feel. Always coming back to the now. Coming back to Consciousness. There are no problems right now. Not taking things so important. Not taking them so serious. I'd encourage you to take a step back. Get some change of perspective, maybe do some psychedelics if you want to. ❤️

Well yes, it's the perfect timing! The question is wether it is what you really want to do. Then you will easily succeed. That success could either mean you make tons of money and have a huge following. OR That success is just barely scraping by. Always doing sidejobs to stay afloat while you pump out those comics. Either way you created what you wanted to create. The question is, could you live without making any comics? If yes you might go another route or do the life purpose course.

Don't worry. Struggle will become boring as well. As you said yourself. Life is change.

It has already been answered long ago.

Seems like a good mindset to adobt if you don't want to be happy.

Because most people take the easy route. Follow a path that others have laid out for them. And they value security above many other things. And they take whatever their reality is right now for granted, they don't want to change anything. Even though they might dream about living a more joyful and fulfilling life they hold other beliefs like "success is hard", "I can't do that", "other people are just lucky", "I can not change it". It's this getting used to it. Getting used to the horrible 8hr office job. Getting used to the abusive partner. Getting used to feeling depressed in school. Getting used to riding a broken bike. It slowly starts to not only become a thing they are used to. It's start to find it's way into their personality, their whole identity shifts. For change to happen there needs to be a shift in perspective, a shift in identity, a shift in action, a different choice. If you want to experience this shift in your life I would suggest you do what @Nahm layed out for you here freely and take the Life Purpse Course.

What is in your direct experience right now? Great post! Just wanted to clear this one up. Spiral Dynamics is not Leos idea. The term was trademarked by the National Values Center, Inc. You can find more about it here https://spiraldynamics.org/

You are on the right track! Just have fun. Have the overall assumption that whatever you say is smooth/good. I would take most of these as a strong indicator that the girl is interested.

Love is nothing you decide logically, listen to your heart. ❤️

Maybe this video will help you (was posted here some time ago) Dr. Nun S. Amen Ra

Oh, wait until you find out that you are the only one in all of this. That is when the pointlessness really hits