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It's the same as finding like-minded people. Real life is a good start. Go to retreats, yoga classes or other events like this. What do you want from dating? In the end you are only trying to fall in love with an illusion. The more you practice Self-Love the easier it will be for you to love everything. If you developed kind of a resentment to classic orange, blue can be a refreshing change. ?
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No it's fine. As you said, it is only fun and you don't have the intention to cheat. This comes down to respect, truly loving her and how good she can handle it.
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Ask yourself: How would I handle this situation with utmost self-love? If you would totally love yourself. What would you do? Maybe you got yourself in this situation because you actually love to make new friends, in new places. So this is a convenient way of cutting ties. Or you put yourself into this situation because you want to feel some emotions that you have resisted for a long time - breaking the circle. Whatever it is. What would a person full of self-love do?
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The same you would do if you would want to buy anything else (like a bike, vacation, computer, guitar or a gucci bag). You start saving. Earn/get money and put it away. How old are you?
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@Antor8188 I have some videos for you.
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What do you think about people who have a good work ethic. Are there some in your job or ones which you crossed path in your university? How do you feel about your work right now?
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Happy to hear If it is recently, maybe share some stuff that helped you the most. Like the beliefs that changed or the steps you took?
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This has already been adressed as @Yarco mentioned. Please do not use the Forum for technical support.
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Accept it.
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The sticky threads are all worth reading. And then it depends on what you are interested in, thats why the forum has different sections. The dating section is the most entertaining one. I don't have any specific threads that I like the most.
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Vimeo has a strange pricing system. That's why I left them when they introduced the filesize cap. Otherwise it's a great service. 5k seems a little pricy tho. Maybe it's worth looking into Amazon Cloudfront.
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Maybe. Try it out and see for yourself
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Yes, saying something has a greater impact than just thinking it. But still these are peanuts compared to your being, feelings and actions. Focusing on controlling your words can be helpful but I'd advise you go deeper than that. Increase your awareness and inspect core beliefs. When you do that, your thoughts/words will align with your new beliefs automatically.
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Short answer: yes. Many men start with low confidence. Then, by talking to many girls and getting positive reactions, they tend to become more confident. But If you are on the very low end (borderlining on depression) these positive reactions might not be enough, in which case I'd suggest therapy. It's about the stories we tell ourselves and core beliefs, and some more.
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Peeing in dreams is one of those hard accomplishments in life. Normally you will get the urge from the body and because you are in a dream there is no way to relief yourself. But you can in fact pee in your dream and not pee in your bed. But you will wake up and then have to do it again (as many times as you wake up), which can be worse.
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The questions I just asked you. It helps to question your beliefs and feel your feelings. There is also my topic on Integrating Emotions which goes more in depth. Which video of Leo do you mean exactly? As I said. That's normal. As the reward goes up, your neediness follows. This very belief is what is keeping you needy. No - They are easy to find and they come to you. You don't even have to search for them So you don't mind being alone for the rest of your life at all?
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Relax. It's normal to become needy in the beginning. Just date more and eventually things will get better. Work on Emotional Mastery in the meantime. Was is really bad that this girl rejected you? No - it was great because now you can find another better one! Do you feel alone and feel like shit? Great now you can sit with this feeling of being alone and learn to allow it. By doing that you increase your ability to accept and feel all emotions. Of course it also helps to have a life purpose and hobbies etc.
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This goes deeper than visualization and LOA. Investigate your core beliefs about money. How did your parents talk about money when you grew up? Imagine a group of 5 wealthy people and a group of 5 poor people, who are you more drawn towards? What do you think about people with a lot of money?
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Make sure that you talk to the right people. People who are looking for answers and aha moments. Then it depends on what you have to say and what you envision for them.
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This thread got derailed. Closed.
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Honestly tits are pretty overrated. Women seem to obsess about it so much. It's like when men are insecure about their dick size. This problem is all in your head. Because you make it such a big deal. Sex is so much more than just tits.
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It's good that you are seeing your own patterns. Sometimes when we deliberately pull ourselves down, it's because we don't feel comfortable or worthy with our new "life". For example, when you feel like you don't deserve a "good life" or you have the belief that successful people are corrupt/bad. Same as when you are feeling guilty, accidents are more likely happen. So if you have done everything else already you might benefit from starting to explore your feelings and beliefs. Otherwise, get a clear vision and then commit to it 100%.
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Hi and welcome to the forum Google Translate, or french versions is your safest bet. Also you could just lookup words you don't understand and develop your english skills on the side. That way you might take longer to finish one book but these books are usually meant to take in slowly.
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Moved to Dating, Relationships, Sexuality forum This is quite normal. Especially in the beginning when your energy/vibe is off and comes of as unauthentic. Sometimes people have a bad day, too.
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Welcome the fear. Allow it. Feel it. Life will always give you the perfect opportunity for Growth. You just gotta take it. Going inside. Learn about Fear, Self-Love, Growth and Emotional Mastery. ❤️